View Poll Results: What would you do for the two senarios
1. Confront her
13
25.00%
1. Leave it alone
38
73.08%
2. Confront her
10
19.23%
2. Leave it Alone
42
80.77%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 52. You may not vote on this poll
Lies and confrontation
06-13-2011, 09:05 PM
#41
Judging from the poll results I am def the minority here, confront her on both accounts.
But, let me explain. Don't corner her by the bar and demand answers...
Better yet, just give a slight wave (ie make sure she see's you) and attempt to hit on her gf's at the club and buy them drinks...
lol, should make the point.
But, let me explain. Don't corner her by the bar and demand answers...
Better yet, just give a slight wave (ie make sure she see's you) and attempt to hit on her gf's at the club and buy them drinks...
lol, should make the point.
06-14-2011, 01:36 PM
#43
judging from the poll results i am def the minority here, confront her on both accounts.
But, let me explain. Don't corner her by the bar and demand answers...
Better yet, just give a slight wave (ie make sure she see's you) and attempt to hit on her gf's at the club and buy them drinks...
lol, should make the point.
But, let me explain. Don't corner her by the bar and demand answers...
Better yet, just give a slight wave (ie make sure she see's you) and attempt to hit on her gf's at the club and buy them drinks...
lol, should make the point.
06-14-2011, 01:44 PM
#44
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06-14-2011, 03:12 PM
#46
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Leave them both alone.
Confronting them makes you look desperate.
Always make it seem like you are "in demand"...even if you really are not.
People are attracted to people who "have lives" and friends......if you seem like you have nothing better to do but to track someone else's life....that's scary, and a guarantee that said person you are tracking will have ZERO interest in you.
Confronting them makes you look desperate.
Always make it seem like you are "in demand"...even if you really are not.
People are attracted to people who "have lives" and friends......if you seem like you have nothing better to do but to track someone else's life....that's scary, and a guarantee that said person you are tracking will have ZERO interest in you.
06-14-2011, 07:58 PM
#47
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I don't think he'd go for the prostitute but I guess he did move on, he posted something on one of the girl's facebook posts about something with a strong woman, I'll dig it up and post it here.^ that's what I told him, I told him look you started a business, drive a Rolls Royce Ghost, own your own house and have got it set! Don't worry, these women are missing out!
that really pisses girls off when they find out. 
over or under on her finding out is 3 days (she's a bit of a stalker)
06-15-2011, 12:03 PM
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06-15-2011, 12:19 PM
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Like I said before there is nothing invested with Girl 1 so her response is not as important. But with Girl 2 I would eventually say WTF if we hang out and she doesn't mention it. Either way I would say there is really no future with either chick.
06-15-2011, 01:22 PM
#52
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06-15-2011, 01:33 PM
#53
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06-15-2011, 02:40 PM
#54
I wouldn't ask in either case...
If it was the right one...they wouldn't have blown off the date in the first place. Asking about it just makes you seem insecure and the responses won't likely be honest anyway or they'll be something you already know the answer to.
Once I decided that a girl would be lucky to go on a date with me...since then, I didn't really get stood up a whole lot.
If it was the right one...they wouldn't have blown off the date in the first place. Asking about it just makes you seem insecure and the responses won't likely be honest anyway or they'll be something you already know the answer to.
Once I decided that a girl would be lucky to go on a date with me...since then, I didn't really get stood up a whole lot.
06-15-2011, 06:23 PM
#56
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FYI neither of them really knew he drives an RR, he usually just drives around in his accord... As far as the RR goes, it's a fancier version of the 7 series, it's not a phantom 
Here's that post:
Her: "Why are guys so intimated over strong women?"
Him: "People always want the best and don't settle for anything short of the best. Thus a strong woman knows what she wants and will lie, bend facts or simply ignore what is not the best for them in order to get the best (or what they want). Guys who know that they don't fit that bill will simply not try, and those that do try get lied to or get thrown away like trash. Let's just put it this way, a woman has a choice between a computer geek who plays WOW all day and all that jazz, and then say Taylor Lautner. Women will pick Taylor Lautner any day of the week in the real world vs. the geeky kid. Just the same way, guys who are "strong" will pick the best they can find and throw away anything that's short of the best. In short, what's the point of the underdog trying with the stronger person when they know from the get-go that it won't end well..."
06-16-2011, 08:55 AM
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06-16-2011, 11:01 AM
#58
IMO I don't think that post response was necessary for him to make. I would've ignored her post or defriended her on fb from the get go. Did she make that post in reference to her? Like she was saying that SHE's a strong woman and all the guys around her are intimidated by her? If so, she seems kind of conceited to me.
06-16-2011, 01:08 PM
#59
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^ That's what I said...
I guess she randomly posted it or something, he's not the type to let things go so easily. Any tips on talking to him to get him to defriend her?
IMO I don't think that post response was necessary for him to make. I would've ignored her post or defriended her on fb from the get go. Did she make that post in reference to her? Like she was saying that SHE's a strong woman and all the guys around her are intimidated by her? If so, she seems kind of conceited to me.
06-16-2011, 01:34 PM
#61
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FYI neither of them really knew he drives an RR, he usually just drives around in his accord... As far as the RR goes, it's a fancier version of the 7 series, it's not a phantom Here's that post:
Her: "Why are guys so intimated over strong women?"
Him: "People always want the best and don't settle for anything short of the best. Thus a strong woman knows what she wants and will lie, bend facts or simply ignore what is not the best for them in order to get the best (or what they want). Guys who know that they don't fit that bill will simply not try, and those that do try get lied to or get thrown away like trash. Let's just put it this way, a woman has a choice between a computer geek who plays WOW all day and all that jazz, and then say Taylor Lautner. Women will pick Taylor Lautner any day of the week in the real world vs. the geeky kid. Just the same way, guys who are "strong" will pick the best they can find and throw away anything that's short of the best. In short, what's the point of the underdog trying with the stronger person when they know from the get-go that it won't end well..."
Good guys do win.. it's a good thing he's not with those women.
06-20-2011, 11:56 AM
#62
"Congratulations, not only are you a psycho, but you're proving it to the world with every vengeful thing you do. You'll be amazed at how fast the word spreads about stuff like this. So pretty soon, every girl will hear stories about how you're "that guy". Nice work."
Your friend is childish. I know a guy just like him, who is also a cheater, and he's pretty much been blacklisted...every person we know has heard all the stories, so any other girl they know that hints an interest in him instantly hear the stories and he gets nothing. No good girl will put up with that, so he gets the psychos from the trash heap.
Amazing how jealousy can make a person so pitiful
EDIT: Actually I know a couple guys and girls like him, but he's the most extreme case
06-27-2011, 02:11 AM
#63
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"Congratulations, not only are you a psycho, but you're proving it to the world with every vengeful thing you do. You'll be amazed at how fast the word spreads about stuff like this. So pretty soon, every girl will hear stories about how you're "that guy". Nice work."
Your friend is childish. I know a guy just like him, who is also a cheater, and he's pretty much been blacklisted...every person we know has heard all the stories, so any other girl they know that hints an interest in him instantly hear the stories and he gets nothing. No good girl will put up with that, so he gets the psychos from the trash heap.
Amazing how jealousy can make a person so pitiful
EDIT: Actually I know a couple guys and girls like him, but he's the most extreme case
Your friend is childish. I know a guy just like him, who is also a cheater, and he's pretty much been blacklisted...every person we know has heard all the stories, so any other girl they know that hints an interest in him instantly hear the stories and he gets nothing. No good girl will put up with that, so he gets the psychos from the trash heap.
Amazing how jealousy can make a person so pitiful
EDIT: Actually I know a couple guys and girls like him, but he's the most extreme case
He still has his hopes up but I doubt she'll get back in touch, he's like a dog staring at a box knowing his toy is in it and can't get it.
FYI He's never had a real girlfriend, he had one sorta GF but things never really developed as far as I know (what you guys would call Facebook Official these days
)EDIT: I don't mean to throw him under the bus here but I don't think he's even got past a kiss....
06-27-2011, 08:31 AM
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Please take this kid out and introduce him to some new chicks
06-27-2011, 12:25 PM
#67
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The second one, I'd just let it be and move on...
06-27-2011, 10:49 PM
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06-28-2011, 07:23 AM
#70
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FYI neither of them really knew he drives an RR, he usually just drives around in his accord... As far as the RR goes, it's a fancier version of the 7 series, it's not a phantom Here's that post:
Her: "Why are guys so intimated over strong women?"
Him: "People always want the best and don't settle for anything short of the best. Thus a strong woman knows what she wants and will lie, bend facts or simply ignore what is not the best for them in order to get the best (or what they want). Guys who know that they don't fit that bill will simply not try, and those that do try get lied to or get thrown away like trash. Let's just put it this way, a woman has a choice between a computer geek who plays WOW all day and all that jazz, and then say Taylor Lautner. Women will pick Taylor Lautner any day of the week in the real world vs. the geeky kid. Just the same way, guys who are "strong" will pick the best they can find and throw away anything that's short of the best. In short, what's the point of the underdog trying with the stronger person when they know from the get-go that it won't end well..."
I can't believe your friend posted that on Facebook! The girl probably felt relieved that she decided not to go out with him after reading all that.It's obvious that both women didn't really want to go out with him but just could not say so directly. If a woman really want to go out with a guy, she will find ways to make sure the date takes place. So if I were in his shoes, I would have just shrugged it off and go on with my life.
07-02-2011, 10:43 PM
#72
Am I the only one confused? People are saying "neither girl was interested" but #2 actually agreed to go on a date with him, but later cancelled to go on a date with someone else. Sounds like she was interested until someone "better" came along.
Same with everyone else, I'd say do nothing with #1. Sounds like she was playing the odds that he wouldn't find out. The other option would have been to tell him straight out that she's not interested in him in that way, potentially crushing his spirit. Of course what she did wasn't the best way to go about it, but at the time she most likely thought it would be better than coming right out and saying "Sorry, not interested"
Girl #2 sounds like a little shit IMO. God forbid you schedule another date with guy #2 on a different day. Not trying to sound callous to OPs friend, but given the situation, she didn't need to be exclusive to him after the initial date was scheduled.
Same with everyone else, I'd say do nothing with #1. Sounds like she was playing the odds that he wouldn't find out. The other option would have been to tell him straight out that she's not interested in him in that way, potentially crushing his spirit. Of course what she did wasn't the best way to go about it, but at the time she most likely thought it would be better than coming right out and saying "Sorry, not interested"
Girl #2 sounds like a little shit IMO. God forbid you schedule another date with guy #2 on a different day. Not trying to sound callous to OPs friend, but given the situation, she didn't need to be exclusive to him after the initial date was scheduled.
07-03-2011, 06:40 AM
#73
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Something is weird here. I find it a bit odd that someone would agree to go out with you and then make up some weird lie to get out of it. Does it happen, I'm sure it does but twice!?
Sorry buddy,your friend is a creeper. He must have done something between meeting and the date to creep both girls out and then guilted the one into a second first date. Judging from that fb post, he is a bit odd and ackward.
What single guy in his 20s wants a RR anyway? Sure, it is an awesome car but who needs a luxury sedan like that in their early 20s when I have to assume most those seats arent ever even sat in. Not hating on him for the RR, just another thing that is a bit odd considering he could have a Ferrari or such.
Sorry buddy,your friend is a creeper. He must have done something between meeting and the date to creep both girls out and then guilted the one into a second first date. Judging from that fb post, he is a bit odd and ackward.
What single guy in his 20s wants a RR anyway? Sure, it is an awesome car but who needs a luxury sedan like that in their early 20s when I have to assume most those seats arent ever even sat in. Not hating on him for the RR, just another thing that is a bit odd considering he could have a Ferrari or such.
07-03-2011, 08:16 PM
#74
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Something is weird here. I find it a bit odd that someone would agree to go out with you and then make up some weird lie to get out of it. Does it happen, I'm sure it does but twice!?
Sorry buddy,your friend is a creeper. He must have done something between meeting and the date to creep both girls out and then guilted the one into a second first date. Judging from that fb post, he is a bit odd and ackward.
What single guy in his 20s wants a RR anyway? Sure, it is an awesome car but who needs a luxury sedan like that in their early 20s when I have to assume most those seats arent ever even sat in. Not hating on him for the RR, just another thing that is a bit odd considering he could have a Ferrari or such.
Sorry buddy,your friend is a creeper. He must have done something between meeting and the date to creep both girls out and then guilted the one into a second first date. Judging from that fb post, he is a bit odd and ackward.
What single guy in his 20s wants a RR anyway? Sure, it is an awesome car but who needs a luxury sedan like that in their early 20s when I have to assume most those seats arent ever even sat in. Not hating on him for the RR, just another thing that is a bit odd considering he could have a Ferrari or such.
My buddy hasn't had much luck with the ladies in his past. No GF's in high-school and not so much as a real lady friend to talk with at all. I do agree that he is a bit socially awkward and as well introverted. I figure he's waiting for ms perfect to show up to his door one day.
He saw my 7 and really liked it and thus got the RR. From the conversations he had I figure that he wanted something fast yet comfy so that he could speed away from a light quickly but still have the ability to take it on a comfy trip.
07-05-2011, 12:48 PM
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He definitely sounds awkward, and he'll definitely need to learn how to talk to girls or Miss Right will show up on his door with a restraining order
07-05-2011, 01:03 PM
#76
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what would you do in a situation like these two:
1. Guy asks a girl who is somewhat of a friend (IE you have talked in the past more than hi/bye but nothing to far indepth) out on a date to an event and she agrees. A few minutes later she says that on that day she'll be on a trip on that day and a few days before and after. The day comes when you were supposed to go out and you see her at a night-club with her friends.
Would you confront her about it or leave it alone and move on?
Now a different girl at a later date and time:
2. Guy asks a girl he knew as a friend a few years prior and lost touch with. They hit it off during their brief conversation when they meet and decide to go on a date later on the next week. A few days before the date she cancels and says she has to attend to something else. The day of the date comes and you see on her Facebook/Twitter/Social Networking site that she went out with another guy and had a fun time on a first date.
Would you confront her about it or leave it alone and move on?
1. Guy asks a girl who is somewhat of a friend (IE you have talked in the past more than hi/bye but nothing to far indepth) out on a date to an event and she agrees. A few minutes later she says that on that day she'll be on a trip on that day and a few days before and after. The day comes when you were supposed to go out and you see her at a night-club with her friends.
Would you confront her about it or leave it alone and move on?
Now a different girl at a later date and time:
2. Guy asks a girl he knew as a friend a few years prior and lost touch with. They hit it off during their brief conversation when they meet and decide to go on a date later on the next week. A few days before the date she cancels and says she has to attend to something else. The day of the date comes and you see on her Facebook/Twitter/Social Networking site that she went out with another guy and had a fun time on a first date.
Would you confront her about it or leave it alone and move on?
to each there own.....
07-05-2011, 09:19 PM
#77
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07-06-2011, 01:48 AM
#78
I'd leave it alone until they asked me out again and then I would ask them, why would I go out with you after you stood me up and (a went to the club for example A and b) went out on a date with another guy and bragged about it on facebook for example B.
03-05-2012, 10:34 AM
#79
Before he finds Ms. Right he needs to get his beak wet plenty, else he'll find himself in a bad situtation. I can't imagine it being difficult to get girls driving around in a RR, but if he's socially awkward and most likely awkward looking tell him to hit the weights and get a personal stylist to dress him. If he's confident in himself he'll be able to approach women more easily and they'll come to him as well.
EDIT: No need for that...
EDIT: No need for that...
Last edited by csmeance; 03-08-2012 at 12:58 AM.
03-05-2012, 11:44 AM
#80
Leave it alone! Throw some sharp switchback-keys at them, lol..
Don't show that you care.. Karma is a bitch and you'll get yours soon enough. I promise
Don't show that you care.. Karma is a bitch and you'll get yours soon enough. I promise