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Old Jun 16, 2004 | 09:59 PM
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kissing

do you kiss your long term g/f on/in(french) her mouth? i ve been with my g/f for over 3 years and i dont, is that weird???
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Old Jun 16, 2004 | 10:05 PM
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huh? so what the fuck do u do? lick her?

to say like hi or bye i just kiss her lips. i "french" kiss only when we're gettin it on or something...
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Old Jun 16, 2004 | 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by YuppieCL
i "french" kiss only when we're gettin it on or something...


same here....
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Old Jun 16, 2004 | 10:16 PM
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one question.

whyyyyyyyyy???
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Old Jun 16, 2004 | 10:21 PM
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is she ugly?

post teh pics (not if she is ugly)
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted by wipe0ut
is she ugly?

post teh pics (not if she is ugly)
no...she is about a 7.5...ive pulled some dimes but they were morons which is a turn off to me. i just dont ever kiss her in/on her mouth...well maybe somtimes if i'm drunk and were getn it on. and i wanted to know if anyone else on this forum is in my same situation
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted by YuppieCL
huh? so what the fuck do u do? lick her?

to say like hi or bye i just kiss her lips. i "french" kiss only when we're gettin it on or something...
DONT BE A DICK. i posted here for advice and insight, not to be ridiculed!
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:39 AM
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I never kiss my girlfriend. I really hate kissing I try to avoid it as much as possible.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 08:28 AM
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what is the reason for not french kissing?

u dont know how?
she doesnt know how?

something.......
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 09:02 AM
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wow never heard that one before is there a reason u dont?
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 09:40 AM
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I never kiss my girlfriend. I really hate kissing I try to avoid it as much as possible.
Word. Only if we're getting it on or something and even then it's not so much kissing as it is eating her face. I've been with her for 10 years and it doesn't do anything for me anymore. She, of course, hates my opinion.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 10:15 AM
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Word. Only if we're getting it on or something and even then it's not so much kissing as it is eating her face. I've been with her for 10 years and it doesn't do anything for me anymore. She, of course, hates my opinion.
must be a masshole thing because I don't like it either but when getting it on I feel obligated. My mouth and tongue can be better utilized for other things!
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 10:20 AM
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hmm... thats weird
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I've been with her for 10 years and it doesn't do anything for me anymore.
Eight years here & I'm in the same boat. I think it's only human to lose some of that spicy shit.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
wow never heard that one before is there a reason u dont?


I don't like it

Kissing is ok when you first start dating but after a while its just boring.





Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Word. Only if we're getting it on or something and even then it's not so much kissing as it is eating her face. I've been with her for 10 years and it doesn't do anything for me anymore. She, of course, hates my opinion.




my girl is not a fan of my anti-kissing stance either.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 10:32 AM
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I'm not a fan of the PDA thing to begin with - when I see people going at it in public it makes me ill. A quick peck is fine to say bye or whatever, but why force the issue? I'm not in "spicy" mode unless my pants are off.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I'm not a fan of the PDA thing to begin with - when I see people going at it in public it makes me ill. A quick peck is fine to say bye or whatever, but why force the issue? I'm not in "spicy" mode unless my pants are off.
I hate people who have to show they like each other in public. save that shit for the bedroom. also, i rarely make out with a girl unless im just meeting her or i am about to hit it. more sensual to kiss on the lips, imo
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:06 PM
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I didn't think you could hate kissing, unless the other person was really bad or something.
I enjoy it.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:14 PM
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That's b/c you're a girl. As a dude, I find it pointless. If I want to show my girl affection I'll give her an affectionate slap on the ass.
Maybe it's different if it's a new and exciting relationship, but I've been with my girl since Clinton's first term in office and the whole kissing thing ended somewhere in the late 90s. Unless we're getting it on. Or I'm shitfaced.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:44 PM
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i just think its discusting, i dont even like to drink after her, or anyone for that matter. she bitches about it constantly, i dont like holding hands either.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
i just think its discusting, i dont even like to drink after her, or anyone for that matter. she bitches about it constantly, i dont like holding hands either.

:sqnteek:

Little OCD perhaps?

How many condoms do you put on before doing her? Is it hard to get it on over the decontamination suit
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 02:04 PM
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:sqnteek:

Little OCD perhaps?

How many condoms do you put on before doing her? Is it hard to get it on over the decontamination suit
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
i just think its discusting, i dont even like to drink after her, or anyone for that matter. she bitches about it constantly, i dont like holding hands either.
Didn't know this was a germ issue - explains your s/n though.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 02:34 PM
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Is it in fear of tasting her last boyfriends dick?
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 02:43 PM
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^^LOL.......i dont think i could ever get sick of kissing a girl as long as their a good kisser. i was with my ex for 3 yrs and it didnt get boring to me at all.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
i just think its discusting, i dont even like to drink after her, or anyone for that matter. she bitches about it constantly, i dont like holding hands either.
ok.. this is gonna sound it but not meant to be offensive...

you have some serious inner self issues... you definitely have OCD... and that can play a big factor in it... Its the coodies syndrome and its retared IMO... But then there are also intimacy issues... not holding hands witha girl you love? not kissing the girl you love? maybe you just dont care enough about her and have found it to be your fault ("aI find it disgusting")... do you have sex? is it through a sheet?

once again I know this sounds harsher than I intend it to.. but damn bro!!!
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Casper98CL
do you have sex? is it through a sheet?
I remember reading that that's how they did it way back in the day (middle ages or something - good times, good times) - a sheet with a glory hole in it.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I remember reading that that's how they did it way back in the day (middle ages or something - good times, good times) - a sheet with a glory hole in it.

I don't know if its the Omish or Hacidilk jews but one of toise religions still does it that way!!!
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:14 PM
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well, its true that the romance stage goes down after a ouple of years.. but i still enjoy kissing my bf but i think he has the same issue.... does it just mean that you dont love the person no more if you dont even wanna kiss them??
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:14 PM
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So hot... I wonder if they use a silk sheet when they're feeling extra freaky.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:14 PM
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Maybe he uses a warm banana peal....read that in playboy.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by mrs. big
does it just mean that you dont love the person no more if you dont even wanna kiss them??
No, it apparently means that you still love them, you just think their mouth, hand, used glasses and silverware, etc are too revolting to touch.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:22 PM
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No, it apparently means that you still love them, you just think their mouth, hand, used glasses and silverware, etc are too revolting to touch.
So the salad tossing is ok?
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:25 PM
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So the salad tossing is ok?
I would think so. Kissing her brown eye isn't as bad as her filthy mouth.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:26 PM
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Must be, licking ass is cleaner than kissing lips...
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 03:28 PM
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Exactly. At least (I assume) she wipes her ass every once in a while. How often does she wipe her mouth...?
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I'm not a fan of the PDA thing to begin with - when I see people going at it in public it makes me ill. A quick peck is fine to say bye or whatever, but why force the issue? I'm not in "spicy" mode unless my pants are off.
Word. I always get the "how come you don't kiss me anymore?" shit! Kissing is boring. Love my wife but am not a fan of the "making out". She's definitely not a bad kisser either. I am pretty good myself...so I've been told by a few different women...which is weird because I was never really a big fan.
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 06:34 PM
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i just think its discusting, i dont even like to drink after her, or anyone for that matter. she bitches about it constantly, i dont like holding hands either.
I know you stated that you are just asking for advice, but your actions are rediculous...Your actions dictate more of a friendship w/ benefits - not a relationship

(Just judging by what you posted)
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 08:02 PM
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i dont like deep soul kissing, esp in public.

but i think for you fellas who see your girls 24/7, kissing just becomes played out. but when i used to date my ex who i saw only like once a month, it seemed only natural to go deep when i kissed her. after all, its a good start to a date where you know you're gonna get laid
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Old Jun 17, 2004 | 08:12 PM
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PDS's suck...holding hands, hugs, pecks and an arm around is about all I can see/do in public, otherise I get pissed...
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