So that asian girl... everything was as I said... Wednesday she brought e food, etc... she went to work Wed night (waitress)... She has called me everynight from work to see how I was... but not that night.. I figure she was busy... Thurs she calls me 5 mins before her class... she has been calling and stopping by at least 3 hrs prior to class all week... Thurs night she had class until 10pm, I invited her over to hang out and watch a movie. she says she wants to go home and sleep... I get NO CALL after 10pm at all... its now Friday at 1:40pm... and NO CALL!!!!

I am like WTF?! maybe she thinks she is spending too much time? moving too fast? I am saying we are seeing one another but at least be respectful and call even if i donyt see you... you know?! Myabe I am over thinking shit since I am laid up and have nothing better to do!?!?!?! I need your outlook... I am tormenting myself with this... I cant figure women out!!!!

I have set my mind NOT to call her until she calls me... I dont kow wtf else to do...

advice please?!

 

 

Would you rather her be up your ass and call you 24/7 or for her to not do it so often?

 

yeh let it ride man... if its meant to be it will happen... if not fawk it and move on dont hang on to no one who dont want to be w you.

 

You wont know anything unless you actually talk to her about it.

And sitting around dwelling on it will only make shit worse.

communication is key in making anything work.

 

you need a larger penis.

 

 

i hear you all... but sitting around thinking about it is all I van do as i am laid up in bed after surgery... Its tough!!!

I broke and called her to ask her about this... I told her I have been having to much time to think about things... amd started seeing things nefatively... she said it was not meant as anything like that and i was just over thinking shit...

LETS SEE WHAT REALLY HAPPENS!!!


and for the record... I would rather have a girl up my ass... knwoing that she is into me...

 

talk to her


she sounds fickle

 

oh wow i just remember the soopa'd pictures of you LOL

 

I have spoken to her but I dont want to seem "over bearing" as we have been talking for a short 2 weeks... I think it might be more ne having too much time to think... Maybe I am noticing too much and being to "needy" in my situation... I just gotta let it ride...

 

 

and bigger balls to match, casper.

 

ok... you have no reasopn tyo say that in not knowing me or my trials in life or with women... I am not in a good mental state right now and have acknowledged that being laid up has twisted my views... the size of my dick and my balls to match have nmo play in this situation... or there wouldnt be a situation!!!

 

Relax man. I'm just saying you were about to wait for her call like many females do. You got all worked up from a lack of a phone call and that's pretty self destructive. That sounded like a lack of balls to me, but you redeemed yourself by picking up that phone and calling her. Keep calling her every once in a while and don't force her to do all the work, and if she doesn't call once in a while, take it in stride, don't stress.

 

Cas...

there's a phase all relationships have initially...i call it the goo-goo-gaa-gaa phase...it's when yer all into each other all the time and things are awesome, yadda yadda yadda...after a while, things settle back down, and THEN you start to see the person for who he/she truely is...every relationship has a different length of this phase...sounds like you're surpassing it now, which is not necessarily a bad thing

try not to think too much into things now...let the relationship take on its own path and see what happens...and don't set yer expectations so high...in fact, live by my philosophy (which is disagreed by many here, but whatever)...hope for the best...expect the worse...it helps to keep things in perspective

 

good advice there Scooter....you are wise beyond your years.

 

lmau @ soopa

haha

 

well as that it was the "beginning" that phase didnt come nor leave... she hasnt call me since i called her... ah well.. live and learn... this is how it always goes for me... its all good...

 

ok.. so I had called and left a message on Sunday stating that I didnt foresee her NOT calling me and acting like this.... I got no response... until... tonight!!!!

She called apologizing outta her ass... had an excuse that I thought was lame... she said her cell broke and she sent it out to get fixed... got it back today... maybe true....

I told her she left me for dead, lol and it was fawked up.. she begged and pleaded for me not to be mad... i told her she will need to work on it and owes me big time...

she said she will call tomorrow and try and pass by my house... I told her its simple... excuses or no excuses...

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS....

 

and more

good luck gimpy!!!

 

you know youve got game if youre laid up in bed from a surgery and you can still get women

 

now i just gotta see if she is for real or bs

 

....
I just get by :-*
:-* are the DEVIL
I just need to say fawk the world and go :blaze:

 

gonna tell us what happened or what???

 

I'll keep my advice short and sweet.

Sounds to me like you are letting this one have control of the steering wheel. Don't let that happen.

 

So what happened? Misery loves comoany.

 

Its not you, its her...

 

there's nothing to tell... nothing happened.. she called and said she would stop by and never stopped by or called back!!!

I just left her a message stating this:
" I am calling to see what you deal is. you say one thing and act another way. I at least wanted to be your friend but you are not leaving much room for that. Call me back to talk. I deserve that."

 

lol did you brush your teef homie?