and got a kiss on the cheek
this kind of shit doesn't happen to me. i know she likes me, but i don't know if it's worth the effort. she works with me everyday and she's just not really my type. smart, pretty, but not my type,,and i don't even have a type!!!!! but i've never just got a kiss on the cheek
oh well :sigh:
that is all

 

Holy shit!! 190 bucks huh...what the hell did u eat? I hope that came with like 170 bucks change. Where'd u go?

 

Dude a 50 cent pack of gushers got me that.......

 

why the hell would you spend $190 on a girl that isn't your type? ... or any $ for that matter.

 

i didn't know
it was a brand new place. waitress was amazaing, food and service as well. i ordered a filet and she ordered some terriaki chicken (which wasn't on the menu and the chef had to agree to make ) i had like three galsses of wine, and she had like two. a cheesecake and some berry thing, coffe, more wine...yada yada:190 w/ tip
thing is i like her and would be willing to investigate her "type" but she seems like too much work and we work together, so it might not be a good idea.

 

we did have an awesome time. she's very funny and we click bigtime on some level, but i think it's more of a friend thing

 

$190 for that!?!? must have been expensive wine...

 

some times those friend things can get much better, and it looks like you're on the right track with the wine. Just take her some where else next time.

 

 

you could have gotten a hooker and still have money to burn

 

$190 damn, I bet she is smoking :congrats:

 

sometimes the friend thing can be good. In this case, if this develops into a real friend thing her ass better pick up her half of the tab.

 

was this an implied date? that's alot of money to spend on a "friend"

 

just tell her next time she's paying....and you're getting into her panties

 

ouch...

 

of the girl

 

With tactics like this, you're sure to find a golddigger.

You (and alot of guys) need to realize that paying for dinner like this is, essentially, yuo buying sex from her. You shouldn't go about it that way. I always make her pay for whatever she gets, and then split the tip. Women respect a guy who treats them like an equal when it comes to monetary matters. If they assume you should pay, they're not worth your time - just a worthelss gold-digger.

It should have been something much less formal, and then YOU should have done the kissing first. If you think you deserved more than a peck on the cheek, take it. Women want men to take the lead. I'm betting s he would have given you alot more if you had "asked." And by asked i mean taken it further. If you ask "mind if i kiss you on the lips?" she'll kick you in the nuts and never talk to you again.

 

but I took more the other night, never to hear from her again. She was "busy" Friday and no call today...if I call and they tell me that, I let them call me the next time...whatever at least I was only out a 12 pack of Bud this time...

 

damn man thats a little pricey for a kiss on the cheek

 

Eh, she wasn't into you. Forget her and move on.

 

You know my feeling on such a situation, Stef.

Sorry you laid out a couple bucks for your trouble.

 

she needs to be punished.

 

i think the whole thing is she's really really suspicious. it took a while for me to convince her that i didn't win a bet with my boys at work by her agreeing to go out with me. she's really cool, but the work thing is gonna screw it up i know

 

damn


u got pizowned

coulda got a hot ass hooker that would suck your dick and let you spank her that would call you daddy...right before you fuck her hard...

but instead, you paid 190$ and you only ate filet....freaking filet o fish....fucked up

 

he could mean filet mignon

 

I thought he was referring to filet of penis, with various forms of vaginal secretions?

Tell her to give you a blumpkin and that will make up for the night.

Holler and be a true young'in fo shize before dat biatch blows your danish penile organ into a little bow wize.

The Punisher.

 

Hey, the Punisher is back! Awww riiiight!

Damn Stefan, that sucks man. 190 is a bit pricey for a friend who might not work out. Hell, 50 bucks is a little pricey for that. She didn't even OFFER to pay her half? That's kinda fucked up. Well, keep us posted on how things work out with her. Maybe we'll all be wrong and it turns out she'd be worth it

 

okay **ALERT**

it sounds like this girl has major self-esteem issues, if she thinks the only reason you were interested in her was because of a bet.
I would be careful, she might be more work than you want.

and just how much were you expecting to get from her? sure a kiss on the cheek isn't alot, but for her, it sounds like it was, especially if she was really concerned that she was a "bet".

By the end of the date you at least won her trust and sometimes a girls trust is the BEST thing you can get....it leads to all the other good stuff

 

haha lol
it wasn't filet o fish

yeah, actually she really opened up compared to work and when we've been out before. we had an awesome time. a lot of laughing and she didn't have the usual walls up. but the work thing would kill me. it took like year to get over my ex - i can't imagine what i would have done if i had to see her everyday in that same context after we broke up.
pete - i know, but shutup damnit!!!! can't i just hit it and be done

oh, and i didn't let her know how much the check was.

 

Hey, I'm not throwin' stones, Stef.

Do YOU think you can? Work can make it awfully complicated.

 

The instance some shit like this happens, especially at an already nice and expensive the back of my mind would be going

DANGER WILL ROBINSON DANGER

 

This is where you screwed up. Once she saw how much you spent she would have felt obligated to

 

this was a first date'?!?!

 

you got

 

Hell...a Rub & Tug is only like $75...

...and you know you're getting a happy ending there...



j/k

 

Where is this now?

 

Dont even think about it minch, you get a real woman with hard work first, then you can think about paying for it.

 

Just think, you could have bought like 10 blowjobs, from half decent whores.





j/k

i would never pay for that shit, but i heard some comedian comparing what you spend on a SO and how its basically paying for sex.

 

Did she at least see the check and atleast offer to pay some $$??

Just make sure she doesnt get used eating like a princess and you paying for it, screw that!!

 

Cost of dinner/her paying for it is a TOTALLY sperate issue from how much you "got".

If the two of you are hitting it off, etc., you can get laid after a simple $25 dinner like Chili's. As you found out, even a $190 dinner won;t get you laid, and it shouldn't, IMO. If the dinner is too much $$$ for your taste, just don;t go there.

If anything, you fucked up by going to TOO nice a place which put her in the position of feeling she owed you some action and in effect turned her off totally from anything she might have felt.