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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 02:00 PM
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Just Showing up?

Alright well there is this girl who is real important to me and all. We're in college now, different schools far away and we broke up cause she wants the to try and see how the "college experience" is. So everyone says that just give her time, see what happens in thanksgiving. So i said fine, but it's been hard, going from talk to her 3 times a day to like 3 times in a month.

I've decided to just go to her school one weekend and see what happens. I don't even know what dorm she is in, gotta find that out, but she will def not know i'm coming. I know that there is a chance that it can be horrible, or it can be good, but it's one of those things that if you don't try and nothing happens u will kick urself for it. So what do i say when i show up...ummm... ideas?
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 02:10 PM
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It won't be good, she's over you, you should be over her. Find a new girl. It doesn't matter how important she is to you, she's exhibiting signs that she has moved on. Don't go to her school.
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 02:30 PM
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Sorry pal, When a girl says college experience, she means "hey, i dont want to be tied down, i mean i do, but by a lot of drunk college guys, not by you, and im trying to be nice"

Dont you ever watch movies? this could only look real bad.. and make you seem kind of stalkerish like. If I had an ex boyfriend show up from far away, id be kind of freaked.

Sorry to be harsh, trying save you more heartbreak
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Sorry pal, When a girl says college experience, she means "hey, i dont want to be tied down, i mean i do, but by a lot of drunk college guys, not by you, and im trying to be nice"

Dont you ever watch movies? this could only look real bad.. and make you seem kind of stalkerish like. If I had an ex boyfriend show up from far away, id be kind of freaked.

Sorry to be harsh, trying save you more heartbreak
That too!
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 02:56 PM
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Im a girl, and Ive been told by a lot of people that I have an evil soul.

So, ask the resident expert on why girls are mean and stupid.

(psst. Im evil in I have a sick twisted sense of humor and I like to see stupid people suffer. I dont twist innocent hearts up for no reason. thats just girly mean.)
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Im a girl, and Ive been told by a lot of people that I have an evil soul.

So, ask the resident expert on why girls are mean and stupid.

(psst. Im evil in I have a sick twisted sense of humor and I like to see stupid people suffer. I dont twist innocent hearts up for no reason. thats just girly mean.)
nice haha, your only evil under certain situations
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Im a girl, and Ive been told by a lot of people that I have an evil soul.

So, ask the resident expert on why girls are mean and stupid.

(psst. Im evil in I have a sick twisted sense of humor and I like to see stupid people suffer. I dont twist innocent hearts up for no reason. thats just girly mean.)
dammit rachael!! quit being such a whore...um...POST whore.
you need to be on the boards a little while longer before you can call yourself the resident expert...i've been on here for 8 months bitch..you got dues to pay 1st and if you got a problem with that take it up with me at the club meeting friday night.

j/k..hehe

and dude...don't go to her school, it will ruin any chance, if there is one, of you too getting back together. What you need to do is have a new girl by thanksgiving.
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 03:55 PM
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im sorry i should clarify. i meant resident expert in jacksonville.


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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 04:24 PM
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the classic: "comptech headers...wanna fuck...again?"
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 06:10 PM
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Silvia GTO??? i dont get the name.....

anyways, that whole go visit out of nowhere stunt is just askin for trouble.... but how far away does she go to college... im always up to a road trip with my westchester homies
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
im sorry i should clarify. i meant resident expert in jacksonville.


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bahaha catfight!

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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 06:46 PM
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Re: Just Showing up?

Originally posted by PeterY
she wants the to try and see how the "college experience" is.
yep.... i've definetely used that line before.

that means she's at fraternity parties every thursday, friday, and saturday night drinking skunky beer and everclear jello shots.

i'd be all for surprising her... but it can only turn out bad, imo.
how bout YOU go out and get YOUR college experience on
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 07:35 PM
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exactly. go find some girls willing to share their college experience with you
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 07:37 PM
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Silvia GTO??? i dont get the name.....

Ah.. a mixture of my two favorite cars (both of which I own american versions of)

The Nissan Silvia, or here it was the nissan 240sx. though the silvia is a much more badass version.

The Mitsubishi GTO, or otherwise known in the states as the Mitsubishi 3000gt.

ive got my 3000gt and my 240sx though the 240sx isnt in running condition.
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Old Sep 9, 2003 | 09:59 PM
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dude just take it from us and leave it alone ull save urself alot of GAS and HEARTBREAK! there is to many fish in the sea to worry about one u might pass up the perfect girl if u waste time with one that u cant have
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 04:02 AM
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damn man, i have like THE perfect thing for this situation...too bad it's on my desk and i am playing hookie but i will try to remember some of it.
I'm not usually one that is into church and serman's, but this girl that sits beside had a copy of part of a serman by this guy T.J. Jakes (?? sumthin like that) and the jist of it was "if someone wants to walk away, let them walk. you can't make someone stay with you, love you or want to be with you. If they walk away it means they weren't meant for you" so basically, even though it's hard...she isnt what you need...no matter how much you think that she is.

damn, kinda sad i memorized part of that...i made copy and put it on my desk...just glancing up at it once or twice a day helped me rationalize my thoughts when i was going through a really hard time. Hope everything works out
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 10:04 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO


(psst. Im evil in I have a sick twisted sense of humor and I like to see stupid people suffer. I dont twist innocent hearts up for no reason. thats just girly mean.)
Me and you would have a good showdown then. I'm a heartless evil son of a bitch that has ruined many lives....although i am changing slowly, i'm still evil
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by I am RobG
Me and you would have a good showdown then. I'm a heartless evil son of a bitch that has ruined many lives....although i am changing slowly, i'm still evil
showdown?! youre thinking incorrectly here. People like us should join forces, not compete!
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 11:54 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
showdown?! youre thinking incorrectly here. People like us should join forces, not compete!
stay away from RobG..he's MY asshole!!
hahaha
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 12:03 PM
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youre just afraid of the evil cloud that might rise up and control.
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
youre just afraid of the evil cloud that might rise up and control.
"i aint never scared"
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 05:58 PM
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damn girls settle down, no need to fight over me
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
"i aint never scared"
moron you just said youre scared all the time.

:P
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 06:21 PM
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dont be skerrrrrred!
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 06:53 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
moron you just said youre scared all the time.

:P


good god! that was hilarious rachael!!

yes...stupidity, another by-product of not thinking...that's what i do...
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 06:59 PM
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its all good. i gots nutin but luv for ya dawg.
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 07:02 PM
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its all good. i gots nutin but luv for ya dawg.
whoa! didn't know girls were capable of nutin'....

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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 07:40 PM
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yeah were just not as messy as guys. youve never had an orgasm? (<---OMG she just said a NWS word)

im soooooooo sorry
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
yeah were just not as messy as guys. youve never had an orgasm? (<---OMG she just said a NWS word)

im soooooooo sorry
wow..lol...this is getting way too personal...
but i dont refer to them as "nuttin" since i dont have nuts..and thats all i'm gonna say on the subject
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 07:51 PM
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haha. I 0w|\|. I made you uncomfortable.
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Old Sep 10, 2003 | 08:32 PM
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haha. I 0w|\|. I made you uncomfortable.
who said i was uncomfortable??
but there are some things that people might not wanna know...
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 07:42 AM
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 10:50 AM
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 12:51 PM
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oh. yeah.. back on track.. dude dont do it.
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
oh. yeah.. back on track.. dude dont do it.
nice call RobG

and rai... nice save!!
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
nice call RobG

and rai... nice save!!
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Old Sep 11, 2003 | 05:28 PM
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Definetly dont do it but if you really choose to, Call up mtv or something, cause they love to do reality shows where shit backfires.

Dont GO!
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Old Oct 15, 2003 | 03:10 AM
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Don't go..it makes ya look like a BIG PUSS.
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Old Oct 15, 2003 | 03:24 AM
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damn...I'd say go if you knew that she had feelings for you because it would be sweet...I mean I'd just have a heart-attack in a good way if a guy I loved did it for me....but the way it sounds is that she really does want to be alone with the college experience. But if its a risk you feel you have to take, I wish you the best
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Old Oct 15, 2003 | 05:48 AM
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Re: Just Showing up?

Don't do it, You might see something that you might not want to see. That would be horrible and you might do something rash.
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