I swear if one more girl says to me that we should just be freinds im going to go crazy

 

And?








Wtf??

 

You would rather them not be honest with you and drag you through a web of lies and excuses until she finally got fed up with you and dumped you for an unrelated issue that would bug you until you posted on AZ where they would probably tell you to get over it and move on?

 

too late

 

Not really but thanks I just keep getting stuck in the freind zone and its driving me nuts

 

ah, another person that got booted to the friend ladder.

 

just slip them $100 bills, it will change their minds...

















or you might at least get a BJ or 15 mins

 

Buy a purse.

 

Is it too simple to say, don't get into the friend zone?

 

fixed.

 

...gotta ask yourself why you're always "just a friend".

...are you too nice?, following them around like a puppy dog? always around when they need your attention? do you go out of your way for them? change other plans just so you can spend 2 minutes with them?

...if you answer "yes" to some of those... then you're just "the nice guy"...

...and you know happens to "nice guys"...

 

According the girls I talk to, the friend ladder or zone thing does not exisist.

 

They lie.

 

they also said there is no such thing as too small.

 

They just don't know any better

 

>>>>

 

HAHAHA yea and guess what she said when I started on about the friends ladder and how its impossible to jump ladders. She said thats to complicated and she says she doesnt think that way. O girls gotta love them don't even realize how true the friends ladder is.

 

Damn I didn't realize it till I read your post........I am the nice guy

 

Because they don't actively think about it.

It's fucking there, plain as day to any guy who chooses to see it. Some chicks will recognize it as being the case, but not all of them.

 

FRIEND! It's Friend! Not freind.

And as a side note, weird is E-I, not WIERD!

/rant

 

People can only have so many friends that they can actually pay attention too. If i start hanging out with/dating a girl and she says she just wants to be friends then 90% of the time we'll hardly ever talk again. I feel like when a person says they just want to be friends its a nice and polite way of saying they arent interested. They just dont want to be rude or sounds like a dick, so they just bring up the friend thing.

 

You're just figuring this out?

 

no i knew this, i was just replying with what i knew. Maybe some ppl havent realized it yet. I have had so many ppl come in my life and leave its not even funny. I talk to new ppl weekly and by the next week we dont talk anymore.

 

its easy dude, just play hard to get. i.e. if she calls you, dont answer your phone, if u guys talk on the phone or any conversation, you gotta always be the first one to terminate the conversation, say something like "well, i gotta go now, later", act like you still have a whole dozen of chix waiting for you to bang 'em ! and dont be the one to ask her to come hang out or whatever, even if you have to, just make it sound like it doesnt matter if she could make it or not.... just simple stuff like that, but OCCASIONALY, drop her a hint that you wanna be more than a friend with her. also, dick-slap her forehead any chance you got, girls like that! lmao

 

Id have to say that if the girl was mature and was looking for a real relationship then do not take this advise bc she would prolly think your a loser and never talk to you again.

 

lol, CKcentral is right, if you are looking for a serious relationship, forget about the dick-slaping part, bc she would prolly think your a loser and never talk to you again

 

He's 24. Good luck finding a girl under 30 that doesn't eat that game-playing shit up.

 

Games are stupid. Having a pre-set plan is stupid.

 

Just be a jerk. Then you won't have to worry about the Friends Zone.

 

You wont have to worry about getting any play either

 

If you like a new girl, you should show hints of liking her more than as a friend from the very start. The longer you wait expressing your interest, the more likely to end up as a mere friend.

Women don't like pansies but we don't like jerks either. Acting like a jerk doesn't get a guy anywhere, well, maybe except land with women players.

 

Women. Can't live with 'em... but there aren't any sheep in the city.

 

Well I have been in the friend boat to and it sucks, But i would have to agree with mattzheng. Girls want something they cant have. It took me awwile to figure this out. So My advice is to drop her little hints everyonce in awhile that your interested but make it sound like you got another chick waiting.

 

Geeeeez, thank you!!!! i think this guy needs to learn how to spell before he worries about anything else.....

 

This isn't english class......Grow up

 

I agree. Its not like spelling and punctuation matter when on forums, and I dont know why everyone chastisizes for it.