so is PMS an excuse to be a total bitch? the girl im dating gets SUPER pissed off at me and is all crying and upset because i didnt call or text msg her to see if her day was going well. i called her after work, and she was already pissed that i didnt find out how she was doing because "i should've known that she was gonna have a bad day with her period and all". WTF? i'm so pissed because stupid fights like this happen SO OFTEN and then the next day she acts as though nothing happened...or she blames it on her PMS.

 

how could you be so selfish and not call her every 10 minutes of the day what kinda loving person are you!... O YEA YOUR HUMAN tell her to

 

You are so being whipped!!!

 

i HATE when girls are pmsing...they get soo emotional and upset about EVERYTHING its rediculous. Just something you have to get used to and deal with =\

 

Welcome to manhood

 

I swear "PMS" is something women think is a hassle free excuse to be major bitches and we as men, get to say nothing in return. No matter what you say now dude, doesn't matter.

 

I dont excuse myself from it. if i get emotional or bitchy, i just warn him to either find something else to do and stay away from me for the day, or just know in advance i dont mean anything i say to him.

It really sucks feeling like youre going to start for no reason at all.


he does it back though. if he gets bitchy and acts like an asshole he tells me hes PMS'ing and thats a valid excuse because women use it.

 

I had a g/f who used that shit as a justification for being a complete douche bag to me.

 

DUMP HER NOW...you dont need the drama.

 

It's how you handle it..

 

You'd think after bleeding every month at the same time for years on end, these morons would get used to it.

 

 

If she's anything like my girl she'll apologize for her insane behavior after it's over and say that I was right about most of the fights that took place. Then she'll go back to being an excuse-less megabitch for the next three weeks, starting the whole cycle all over again.

IBTMtoD&R.

 

no shit...it's bad enough that they don't know how to drive. next thing you know, they'll want to vote.

 

The best thing to do is just go "Oh..let me give you a back rub..." then bend her over and throw it in the poop hole. She'll forget whatever the hell she was bitching at you about. Trust me, I have many failed relationships under my belt.

 

The strange thing about PMS is....if you ever, EVER ask your girl if she's PMS-ing (or accuse her of the same), she will tear you a new pooper but quickly. You've got to let her bring it up first....and then maybe.

My wife's pretty good about it. She at least recognizes the fact (some women claim it doesn't exist, and IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!!!!!!!!), but it can still be frustrating. Some women aren't greatly affected by it, others turn into raging beasts. The strange thing is, being on hormonal forms of birth control can either make things better or worse....again, depending on the woman. YMMV.

As for "getting used to it", it's not a matter of the girls getting used to the bleeding (which by definition PMS has none), it's a matter of a rapid drop in hormone levels, which causes the moodiness, irritability and emotional outbursts. Ah, the wonders of biology.

 

woman should have to wear a ribbon or something so we know when they are PMSing so we know just to stay away.

 

If by ribbon you mean ball-gag then I wholeheartedly agree.

 

what the fuck else would he mean?

 

arent you ultimately still in control of you emotions though? when i get pissed off, i control myself so that i dont go on a shooting spree at the mall. can't they do the same? is it that hard to shut the hell up and stay away from everybody for a couple of days?

 

unless he meant "wear a ribbon" meaning "get shot with tranquilizer darts at will"

 

no way...women with pms are like the Hulk. Blind irrational rage and emotion. Just get out of the way and wait for them to change back to normal.

 

fuck that, its the ultimate excuse

 

What's that old quote?

"Don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die."

Just thought that was relevant for this thread.

 

I guess it's all hormone driven - like how guys taking steroids or some sort of testosterone supplements have been known to be overly aggressive, girls with too many hormones (cooties ) going through them cry and bitch too much.

 

Some are, some arent. Depends on the woman, hormone levels, etc. They're just wired differently. Accept it and move on. If you want even-keel moods 24/7/365....turn gay. :gheylaugh:

Men have hormonal cycles, too, but ours fluctuate daily, not monthly. So the reason we can get mad and get past it quickly is because we only "PMS" for about 10 minutes/day.

 

Suggestion, some girl the other night was talking about a new birth control pill which limits a girl to about 4 periods a year that means 1/3 the PMS if its true mine is getting it like yesterday

 

Irresponsible marketing, fo sho.

 

Never trust an animal than can bleed for a full week every month and still survive.

 

also is the only animal that can constantly make away with your money and get away without an ass kicking

 

This girl i know is on it and her boyfriend who is my friend says its great, i dont know though i liek it to come once a month to make sure no accidents

 

My ex wife started wearing a patch to try to control her PMS...then she was totally Apeshit....you know that was just before the whole mess crashed...come to think of it....

 

sounds about right....

 

see my comments above...BEWARE...

 

ya i have been advised, thankyou good to know i am doomed this fate for the remainder of my life

 

In this day & age women can now take extra hormones during this time that will lesson the pain on both parties.

 

I think that when someone is PMSing they should be given SLIGHT consideration but its not a license to stop showing respect to others. Your hormones may be all wacked, but in my experience you still have enough control over yourself to keep other people's feelings in mind. Keep a chart of when she is about to have her period and steer clear if you dont want to deal with it.

 

Ya, I think I just had one of these

now I have to apologize... or blame it on Male PMS

 

dont let her take that shit. its giving her way MORE hormone levels (note.. more hormone levels..hormones.. think about it for a moment) than a normal birth control pill and even the fucking magazine ads say they dont know what the long term side effects of the extra hormones will do.


edit: i mean hell theyre still not sure taking hormone replacement therapy for post-menopausal women is safe or not.

but then youre probably not staying with this girl for the rest of your life so you probably dont care about the long term effects.

 

lol i dont know about the rest of you, but i swear my guy is more moody than most women.

hes more complex too. I dont get him sometimes. at all. he boggles the mind.