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04-11-2006, 10:39 AM
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You would rather them not be honest with you and drag you through a web of lies and excuses until she finally got fed up with you and dumped you for an unrelated issue that would bug you until you posted on AZ where they would probably tell you to get over it and move on?
04-11-2006, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
You would rather them not be honest with you and drag you through a web of lies and excuses until she finally got fed up with you and dumped you for an unrelated issue that would bug you until you posted on AZ where they would probably tell you to get over it and move on?
04-11-2006, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
You would rather them not be honest with you and drag you through a web of lies and excuses until she finally got fed up with you and dumped you for an unrelated issue that would bug you until you posted on AZ where they would probably tell you to get over it and move on?
I just keep getting stuck in the freind zone and its driving me nuts
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04-11-2006, 11:52 AM
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...gotta ask yourself why you're always "just a friend".
...are you too nice?, following them around like a puppy dog? always around when they need your attention? do you go out of your way for them? change other plans just so you can spend 2 minutes with them?
...if you answer "yes" to some of those... then you're just "the nice guy"...
...and you know happens to "nice guys"...
...are you too nice?, following them around like a puppy dog? always around when they need your attention? do you go out of your way for them? change other plans just so you can spend 2 minutes with them?
...if you answer "yes" to some of those... then you're just "the nice guy"...
...and you know happens to "nice guys"...
04-11-2006, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
According the girls I talk to, the friend ladder or zone thing does not exisist.
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04-11-2006, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
they also said there is no such thing as too small.
04-11-2006, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...gotta ask yourself why you're always "just a friend".
...are you too nice?, following them around like a puppy dog? always around when they need your attention? do you go out of your way for them? change other plans just so you can spend 2 minutes with them?
...if you answer "yes" to some of those... then you're just "the nice guy"...
...and you know happens to "nice guys"...
...are you too nice?, following them around like a puppy dog? always around when they need your attention? do you go out of your way for them? change other plans just so you can spend 2 minutes with them?
...if you answer "yes" to some of those... then you're just "the nice guy"...
...and you know happens to "nice guys"...
04-11-2006, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
According the girls I talk to, the friend ladder or zone thing does not exisist.
It's fucking there, plain as day to any guy who chooses to see it. Some chicks will recognize it as being the case, but not all of them.
04-17-2006, 09:35 AM
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People can only have so many friends that they can actually pay attention too. If i start hanging out with/dating a girl and she says she just wants to be friends then 90% of the time we'll hardly ever talk again. I feel like when a person says they just want to be friends its a nice and polite way of saying they arent interested. They just dont want to be rude or sounds like a dick, so they just bring up the friend thing.
04-17-2006, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
People can only have so many friends that they can actually pay attention too. If i start hanging out with/dating a girl and she says she just wants to be friends then 90% of the time we'll hardly ever talk again. I feel like when a person says they just want to be friends its a nice and polite way of saying they arent interested. They just dont want to be rude or sounds like a dick, so they just bring up the friend thing.
04-17-2006, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Hojo061782
You're just figuring this out?
04-17-2006, 12:04 PM
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its easy dude, just play hard to get. i.e. if she calls you, dont answer your phone, if u guys talk on the phone or any conversation, you gotta always be the first one to terminate the conversation, say something like "well, i gotta go now, later", act like you still have a whole dozen of chix waiting for you to bang 'em 
! and dont be the one to ask her to come hang out or whatever, even if you have to, just make it sound like it doesnt matter if she could make it or not.... just simple stuff like that, but OCCASIONALY, drop her a hint that you wanna be more than a friend with her. also, dick-slap her forehead any chance you got, girls like that! lmao
! and dont be the one to ask her to come hang out or whatever, even if you have to, just make it sound like it doesnt matter if she could make it or not.... just simple stuff like that, but OCCASIONALY, drop her a hint that you wanna be more than a friend with her. also, dick-slap her forehead any chance you got, girls like that! lmao
04-17-2006, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by mattzheng
its easy dude, just play hard to get. i.e. if she calls you, dont answer your phone, if u guys talk on the phone or any conversation, you gotta always be the first one to terminate the conversation, say something like "well, i gotta go now, later", act like you still have a whole dozen of chix waiting for you to bang 'em ! and dont be the one to ask her to come hang out or whatever, even if you have to, just make it sound like it doesnt matter if she could make it or not.... just simple stuff like that, but OCCASIONALY, drop her a hint that you wanna be more than a friend with her. also, dick-slap her forehead any chance you got, girls like that! lmao
! and dont be the one to ask her to come hang out or whatever, even if you have to, just make it sound like it doesnt matter if she could make it or not.... just simple stuff like that, but OCCASIONALY, drop her a hint that you wanna be more than a friend with her. also, dick-slap her forehead any chance you got, girls like that! lmao
04-17-2006, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
Id have to say that if the girl was mature and was looking for a real relationship then do not take this advise bc she would prolly think your a loser and never talk to you again.
04-17-2006, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
Id have to say that if the girl was mature and was looking for a real relationship then do not take this advise bc she would prolly think your a loser and never talk to you again.
04-17-2006, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
Id have to say that if the girl was mature and was looking for a real relationship then do not take this advise bc she would prolly think your a loser and never talk to you again.
Games are stupid. Having a pre-set plan is stupid.
04-18-2006, 02:45 PM
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If you like a new girl, you should show hints of liking her more than as a friend from the very start. The longer you wait expressing your interest, the more likely to end up as a mere friend.
Women don't like pansies but we don't like jerks either. Acting like a jerk doesn't get a guy anywhere, well, maybe except land with women players.
Women don't like pansies but we don't like jerks either. Acting like a jerk doesn't get a guy anywhere, well, maybe except land with women players.
04-28-2006, 07:00 PM
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Well I have been in the friend boat to and it sucks, But i would have to agree with mattzheng. Girls want something they cant have. It took me awwile to figure this out. So My advice is to drop her little hints everyonce in awhile that your interested but make it sound like you got another chick waiting.
05-01-2006, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
FRIEND! It's Friend! Not freind.
And as a side note, weird is E-I, not WIERD!
/rant
And as a side note, weird is E-I, not WIERD!
/rant
Geeeeez, thank you!!!! i think this guy needs to learn how to spell before he worries about anything else.....
05-01-2006, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Erz
Geeeeez, thank you!!!! i think this guy needs to learn how to spell before he worries about anything else.....
This isn't english class......Grow up
05-02-2006, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted by spdy0001
This isn't english class......Grow up
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