okay i broke up with my fiancee about a week and half ago. (we went out 1.5 year) and you date a person for awhile you get into a groove. now i'm looking probably this Friday or Saturday going out with this chick that's going to school to be a nurse. It's not that i'm extremely nervous but i need tips that i might miss because i haven't been in the dating game for awhile.
sorry if it sounds like a retarded question
thanks guys

 

dont mention your ex at all. chicks hate that. dont make comparisons, dont bring her up, nothing.

just be you, thats all. no need trying to impress her with an altered character.

just be polite, make her laugh, and have a good time. it may be helpful to find out where she likes to go out to or where she likes to eat. i wouldn't suggest a movie for the first date as they're anti-social.... good luck and cover ur stump before u hump...

 

yeah if you must mention the ex, do it as little as possible. itll set a little red flag off in her head that youre still into your fiancee if you constantly talk about her

 

1. be urself

2.dont bring up ur ex

3.dont just go through the motions dinner movie that sord of thing go do something fun

4.keep the conversation goin THE LESS SILIENT SPOTS THE BETTER

5.be a gentlemen open doors pull out chairs

 

werd esp #1

 

Do not speak badly about the ex - "it did not work out" period.

Just be the man. You will be fine.

 

HOLY SHIT YOU'RE BACK! Finally, I can stop being referred to as Water-S.....YAY!

 

yeah dont bad mouth.. i agree. itll make you look mature if youre just like.. yeah it didnt work out. were different people.

 

alright i figure i'd take advice from the biggest players on the net the ACL.com crew.

 

You were never engaged...that's it.

 

If you do it right you can slip in one or two sentences about the ex and have hey sympathy card and eating out of your hand. But dont say any more. I also agree with be yourself.

Take her out for drinks, dinner can be kinda slow and if you don't know eachother it has the potential to be awkward. If you meet for drinks and its going well stay if not you can easily get out.

I hope it works out for you.

IN A NURSES UNIFORM.

 

slow down 2001CL. I gotta make it through my 1st date.
i get the pick of the litter i got like 3 girls knocking down the door to go out with me.

 

Good luck with the date, and keep us posted! I agree on the do something fun thing though. Fun activities encourage conversation, and when you laugh together, it's even better!

 

wow, walter, its been a while, we were all wondering where you went

Yeah be yourself if the biggest thing!

 

SHow her the schlong and it will all work out..































J/K don't mention the ex, get some liquior in your system to loosen up and be yourself. She is NOT your ex, so don't treat her as her.

 

I was just messin around, but the whole nurse thing got me goin.

 

dang dawg your all over that shit aren't ya

 

Well she's automatically cool cuz she's in nursing school.....

Anyways, do NOT mention your ex...bad news! And be a gentleman, and be funny (unless you just aren't funny...then don't!). And don't go to a movie because you can't really talk and get to know each other in a movie, unless you're incredibly rude, which then cancels out the gentleman thang!

Good luck and let us know what happens!!!

 

dont talk about fire trucks

 

AH MANNNNNNNN no Ladders,Engines,Tankers,Heavy Rescue,Haz-Mat unit, command post talk.

but to me it's all about Pierce FIRE TRUCKS. (you know your a Pierce addict when you got Pierce sunglass case )and a GIANT Pierce truck calendar in my room.

 

Just remember...

You're this big Fuckin Bear and she just a bunny, a cute little bunny. You got these big fuckin claws and these teeth and you can't kill the bunny?

now go over and do it. and don' t be the guy from the pg-13 movie everybody's ruting for, I want you to be the guy from the rated R movie that everyone's not quite sure about.

(Swingers)

Just have some fun, and remember "you're money"

 

so cliff notes version:
TAP THAT ASS

 

you got me it is cliff note style but damn it feels good to get at least 1 good Swingers quote in/day.

I can't wait to hear what goes down w/ the date so i could use my favorite drunk quote... but that remains to be seen.