So, you meet a girl... soon, you ask her out, things are going OK in the beginning... and she lied, let's say you find out. OK, it's not a big lie, but a lie none-the less...

OR, you're with someone, for a long time, and she lies. What do you do then?

At what point is a lie too big to continue the relationship? Or continue dating?

I wouldn't want to be with someone who lied to me at all, but I don't think that's realistic to ask out of a human being... so WHERE do you draw the line?

 

what was the lie about??? did she tell you she was gonna wear a thong to bed... and wore bikini briefs???

 

Is she lying to "protect" you? Is it about something that could alter your relationship...Or is it a little non-trivial lie about something simple?

 

yeah it depends on what the lie is about, and what point in the relationship youre at.

 

my guess is she told u she was 17 and turned out to be 14

but like everyone else says... depends on what scale the lie was.

 

I wasn't lied to, well, that I know of at least.

But, I wanted to have a grasp on this subject so that I don't do something I might regret.

I guess it does depend on what the lie is... but like I asked, where do you draw the line? There are obvious moral justifications for a lot of lies, but what if those aren't conveyed? Or what if she's wrong, or she messed up? I don't know... I was just kind of trying to get input on the subject... I have nothing in particular to speak of.

 

if she said the cops DIDNT come looking for you after you did some shit thats mad illegal... and they did.... i personaly would be pissed as all hell... but usually lies that are kinda fucked up take the cake.. IE her saying one thing... but really doing something different a d covering up what she did.... if she's trying to hide something (unless its some cool ass gift) thats pretty wrong

 

i cant tell you where to draw the line, because it all depends on the significance of the lie, and your feelings about her

 

You have some example in mind, give us a try.