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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 03:35 PM
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I need to get out of here!

Talk about going crazy...Please just tell me to be quiet if you think this is not going to work. I live in Reading Pa. Would it be worth it to just ppack up and leave and Move to Hawaii!!! Could I pull this off, or is the cost of living down there way to expensive? I know this sounds crazy and has nothing to do with relationships! But I just need some advice from some single people, not close to me and see if it is a workable Idea. anyone from Hawaii want to to hook up a fellow board member?
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 05:15 PM
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dude DO NOT MOVE TO HAWAIIIIII...this place is boring and let me tell you can lose its novelty realllllly quick. I suppose if you're into all that nature crap you'd have a good time. The cost of living here isn't that much IMO, but I hear a lot of people complaining about it. It all depends on the area you want to live in, and also what island. I suggest moving to Oahu if you want to have a night life, no offense to anyone living on the outer islands, but its DEAD there. If you need any real estate info etc let me know. I know the island pretty well and just helped a friend check out some new homes.
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 05:50 PM
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Re: I need to get out of here!

Originally posted by Blackbanshee
Talk about going crazy...Please just tell me to be quiet if you think this is not going to work. I live in Reading Pa. Would it be worth it to just ppack up and leave and Move to Hawaii!!! Could I pull this off, or is the cost of living down there way to expensive? I know this sounds crazy and has nothing to do with relationships! But I just need some advice from some single people, not close to me and see if it is a workable Idea. anyone from Hawaii want to to hook up a fellow board member?
how old are you?

why are you choosing hawaii?

are you in/out of college? if not, do you want to go to college?

do you have a job waiting for you in HI? do you need a job (trust fund baby)?

do you want to move there long term?
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 07:04 PM
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i've known guys like you ... young, idealistic types thinking they could head off to hawaii/virgin islands/baja california/brazil or something and live in paradise and become beach bums filling out there days with cold drinks, surfing and snorkeling, beautiful girls ... STOP. unless you've got six figures stored away someplace nice and accruing interest at 12%, get this thought out of your head.

hawaii is pretty expensive place and i had a buddy who was born and raised there (22 years). he absolutely hates the place (would rather live in a nice big city) ... like geisha said, it gets boring really quick.

think about it ... if dropping everything and heading to hawaii was such a great idea, why don't more people pursue it? it's a pipe dream ... go to school, get your degree(s), get your foot in the career door, and worm your way up the corporate/social ladder like the rest of us.
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 08:55 AM
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how old are you?----- mid twenties!!

why are you choosing hawaii?---I lived at the beach one summer and I worked hard while everyone else partied, don't get me wrong I had my fun! But just being in the warm weather and the ocean. I loved it!

are you in/out of college? if not, do you want to go to college? Went to PSU! Graduated in May 2003

do you have a job waiting for you in HI? do you need a job (trust fund baby)?---No job yet but I'm looking!!!

do you want to move there long term? Yeah move to live.....I have been considering Miami also.....

Here is my whole deal! I hate the winter...The People up here are a**holes...can't take them...I know I sound like a guy looking for retirment...but I'm not. I have a good paying job...no trustfund baby!! In all honesty i was going to sell my car and sell my bike(motorcycle) An just go for it!
And if the cost of living down there is that expensive I might as well trash the whole Idea...I don't live paycheck to paycheck....but I sure don't have that kind of money!
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 08:57 AM
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Also i went to school for Photography....and I'm in a job now that has taken me totally in the other direction..plus I actually hate my job!!!! That's one of the main reasons! You guy are right it is a pipe dream !!! But I have to get out of here!
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 10:57 AM
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do not come to north cuba...I mean miami. pick either ft. lauderdale, west palm, or somewhere on the west coast. I want to move sometime soon cause I getting tired of it down here.
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 11:16 AM
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don't go to s fla. we have enough pricks from the north already... :P
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 02:07 PM
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Dont come to Cali either!!!!!!!!!! We have more than enough people out here already!!!!
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 02:51 PM
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yeah! dont come to the bayarea!!! i hear north dakota is pretty nice!
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 02:59 PM
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Dont take this the wrong way but are you gay ??? and Im not joking cause by the way you write it just seems like its better to read out in a feminine manner...you know " Ohh let me tell you guurl...im think about moving to Haiwaiiii...as you snap your fingers back and forth

If your not gay then Im sorry for misinterpreting...as far as advice...I cant call it just follow what your heart says and your finances
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 06:01 PM
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haha damn seems like no one wants you to move to their area jk. But seriously, if you want to make the move to HI, maybe you should do some research about the place u want to live etc. Get some figures, maybe even come out here for a test run and then make a decision. If you want to live out on the beach that will probably cost a considerable amount of $$$. The family beach home is just a medicore 2-story and it just about ran into 7 figure territory. Not too sure about rents, but my friend lives in a 1 bedroom condo in waikiki and pays 1800 a month. Its not that great a place either...for that much you can rent a decent place on the continent (in some parts). What kills most people's hawaii dreams is the cost of land...everything else is pretty decent. We have a low ass tax...4.1667%. If you're really worried about the financial situation you could do what a lot of people do and find someone to room with in a 2-3 bedroom place. Its not the ideal situation but a lot of people survive that way. And if you ever make it here and find all the parties...please let me know!!! I haven't been to a good one in a LONGGGG time:'(
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Old Mar 20, 2004 | 09:22 PM
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I thought about moving out there also, but i don't have loot and I'm still in school. Seems like an ideal place to live, but I'm sure it would get boring after a while. I dream of sitting on a beach all day wasted, but i would eventually have to work.

Geisha, let me crash with you for a bit, I won't bite, I promise.
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 10:50 AM
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If you get a new job your other problems will probably be easier to deal with. I personally can't stand my job at times and it makes me want to leave, in a few days/weeks it gets better and everything else is fine as well.

If you start with that and then work on everything else you should be fine.
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 05:34 PM
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 06:16 PM
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Originally posted by Titand19


Geisha, let me crash with you for a bit, I won't bite, I promise.
hehe awww too bad...because I bite
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by lou
Dont take this the wrong way but are you gay ??? and Im not joking cause by the way you write it just seems like its better to read out in a feminine manner...you know " Ohh let me tell you guurl...im think about moving to Haiwaiiii...as you snap your fingers back and forth

If your not gay then Im sorry for misinterpreting...as far as advice...I cant call it just follow what your heart says and your finances
post of the week, well, last week
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Old Mar 22, 2004 | 03:40 PM
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DAMMMM....SNAP SNAP SNAP....Ha ha ha
.1st off not gay! I just get really annoyed at my job. It's my first corp, job and it's frustrating! I think the whole idea of moving to Hawaii was a venting thing! Yeah Chinisimo Your right there are enough pricks in Fl , you don't need any more Ha ha haha!! Anyways, Thanks for the advice ..and the laughs!
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Old Mar 22, 2004 | 03:47 PM
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a friend of mine, my college roommate freshman year at UMASS...moved to the virgin islands and lives in a tent on the beach.

he loves it.

I say go for it.

hes a little bit weird though.
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Old Mar 23, 2004 | 08:53 AM
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Glad u snapped out of it. Stick it out and suck it up in PA. . .
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Old Mar 23, 2004 | 12:49 PM
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Originally posted by BEETROOT
a friend of mine, my college roommate freshman year at UMASS...moved to the virgin islands and lives in a tent on the beach.

he loves it.

I say go for it.

hes a little bit weird though.

Wow.
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Old Mar 23, 2004 | 06:45 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
hehe awww too bad...because I bite
I can bite if you want me too...or I can do anything you want me to
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Old Mar 23, 2004 | 06:48 PM
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Originally posted by Titand19
or I can do anything you want me to
very confident in your abilities I see
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 11:18 AM
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Yeah I don't think I'm going to be going Native and living on the beach. I am still considering relocating to where ever a good JOb might take me...However I don't want to suck it up in PA. I much rather go somewhere south...like FL where sit's warm..or does that get boering also!!! It just seems like winter up here. everyone and everything shuts down...and it just get boering!

Oh and it looks like Titand19 is going to Hawaii sooner than I!!! lol
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