I must be crazy, I restrained myself...
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I must be crazy, I restrained myself...
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Woman stock trader at work. She's 46 but is smoking. She's divorced & not seeing anyone regularly. I've worked with her for like 5 years.
I went to her house to setup a PC & 4 monitors so she could trade from home. She just found out she has white matter brain disease, or some form of it(Google that).
So she's trading from home while she gets treated.
Ok so I come in & she's got booty shorts on & a mid drift t shirt. She leads me upstairs, (yeah I was enjoying the view up the stairs) to setup things.
Well tech problems were abound so I was there a long time. We were talking in between things, got into her personal life a little, her fear with the medical problems, etc. She's hovering over me as I load software onto the computer, she starts to massage my neck a little at times.
So all that goes by. I'm there about 3 hours. It's 8pm by the time I'm done, & then she hits me with why don't we order pizza & eat something.
A blind person could see the signals she was putting out.
At this point I REALLY wanted to stay, but I had in my mind that....
1- She was on meds, not sure what
2 - I work with her
3 - She's friends with some of the higher up's in the company & has been trading at this firm 15 years.
4 - If this went south, I really need a job.
I hate life sometimes.
Woman stock trader at work. She's 46 but is smoking. She's divorced & not seeing anyone regularly. I've worked with her for like 5 years.
I went to her house to setup a PC & 4 monitors so she could trade from home. She just found out she has white matter brain disease, or some form of it(Google that).
So she's trading from home while she gets treated.
Ok so I come in & she's got booty shorts on & a mid drift t shirt. She leads me upstairs, (yeah I was enjoying the view up the stairs) to setup things.
Well tech problems were abound so I was there a long time. We were talking in between things, got into her personal life a little, her fear with the medical problems, etc. She's hovering over me as I load software onto the computer, she starts to massage my neck a little at times.
So all that goes by. I'm there about 3 hours. It's 8pm by the time I'm done, & then she hits me with why don't we order pizza & eat something.
A blind person could see the signals she was putting out.
At this point I REALLY wanted to stay, but I had in my mind that....
1- She was on meds, not sure what
2 - I work with her
3 - She's friends with some of the higher up's in the company & has been trading at this firm 15 years.
4 - If this went south, I really need a job.
I hate life sometimes.
#3
If it makes you feel any better (or worse), it's possible anyone else could have been that guy. I'm a believer that sex should be meaningful, and I personally wouldn't have felt good about the whole thing.
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OMG she sounds like a good time and what's this with drugs she might be on? How does that play a roll in this, or why does it matter. I get the working relationship and all tho. I don't know what I would do in this situation, but I usually tend to think with my d**k so I would have probably banged her
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definitely props for doing the right thing, most of us wouldn't have
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I hear what you're saying, and as fun as it would've been, look what he wrote here:
4 - If this went south, I really need a job.
Is it worth possibly risking your job, and maybe your career for? No way...plenty of other women out there besides the ones you work with.
Now if they were both teenagers working at a fast food chain I would agree with you
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bang her and then file sexual harassment charges against her?
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sometimes i think honesty is the best policy, telling her she's on meds right now and you dont want to take advantage of her, tell her its a rule of yours not to have relationships with coworkers as you dont want anything to jeopardize your job, but casual hook ups are ok as long as she understands the ground rules...
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sometimes i think honesty is the best policy, telling her she's on meds right now and you dont want to take advantage of her, tell her its a rule of yours not to have relationships with coworkers as you dont want anything to jeopardize your job, but casual hook ups are ok as long as she understands the ground rules...
#30
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Why shit where you eat? 9 times out of 10, things will hit the fan when you least expect it, and when they do, you're gonna get the flack at work, not her. So, even if she's crazy, and you want nothing to do with her, once she starts throwing you under the bus to coworkers, work is gonna be hell for you. All that over some pussy? no thanks..
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Never let Punani get anywhere close to your money. Period. Yeah, she knew what she was doing when you went over there, that's a given for sure. You did the right thing. 99% of women will do things like this, some will just tease, some will just do whatever it takes but you have to really read them. If they're expecting you to come over and is wearing booty shorts and a wife beater then a buzzer should go off in your top head that she's looking for something else. Here's a real tip to really tell which is she doing. Listen to her voice. They give off a different tone or pich when they're horny. Also look into their eyes, like really look into their eyes when talking to them. Pay attention to body movements. If they're sitting down, having their legs crossed and you noticed they're rolling their hips a lot, then they're into to you without saying it out loud. Women do a lot of subtle things we don't pick up on unless you literally look at them. Any ladies here please let me know if I'm wrong. I'm a guy and noticed just some things.
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Always be a gentleman when its a co-worker or friend of the family. Otherwise..
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LOL Some of you guys are such little piglets! He did the right thing by leaving well enough alone. Office relationships and personal relationships should never mix. It's got disaster written all over it 99% of the time. "Be friendly, but not friends".