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Old 05-29-2009, 01:27 PM
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my cousin(a woman) left me a comment saying youre the best david
my ex didnt know it was my cousin and got pissed off at me


Be glad you got away from her!!
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
my cousin(a woman) left me a comment saying youre the best david
my ex didnt know it was my cousin and got pissed off at me
hahah yeah that happens to me all the time. even worse that 5-6 of my cousins are 20-21 yr old party girls and it shows in their pics
Old 05-29-2009, 03:15 PM
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my cousin is like 37 and has 2 kids...with her in her profile picture....
Old 05-29-2009, 03:15 PM
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so now im gay apparently because of john smith....
Old 05-29-2009, 03:16 PM
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anhedonia...ill date you, not john smith
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
so now im gay apparently because of john smith....
is she really that into this facebook bullshit? wtf
Old 05-29-2009, 03:49 PM
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oh nah john smith just sent me a relationship request..sorry for the misunderstanding lmao
Old 05-29-2009, 04:31 PM
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I just can't see how this is a downside for you, she sounded "unstable" if she expected you to priortize her over your studies.

Good luck in O-chem... O-chem is a bitch and there's no need for two bitches in your life...
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Old 05-29-2009, 05:15 PM
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Im serious...if i dont get back with her a month i want that twenty....
Old 05-29-2009, 07:25 PM
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haha i didnt send that from john smith.. i just sent one big boy
Old 05-29-2009, 07:49 PM
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I'm sure many people have already said this, but good for you for not putting your school behind her. I will have been with my gf for 4 years in September, and I told her flat fucking out that law school is going to be my #1 priority; and if seeing her is biting into my time and efforts with it, it's goodbye gf. Hopefully it won't come to that, but I made that point of how serious it is to me.

Stay strong, brother. There are over 3 billion women on this planet, and they almost all have perfectly usable vaginae. Never forget it.
Old 05-29-2009, 08:19 PM
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oh dude trust me, i made it known to her that going to school and eventually getting into dental school and becoming a dentist has been my dream since i was four and when i told her no one or nothing will get in my way she broke down
Old 05-29-2009, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
because of facebook

She told me i should make time for her because school shouldnt be the main priority in my life, she should be.
HOLT SHIT ASSHOLE FOR COVER QUICK! this one is batshit crazy and jealious as all hell. she is the type that will key your car for looking at another girl.. you should thank her for letting you off the crazy train!
Old 05-29-2009, 09:21 PM
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i wanted to be on the crazy train partying with the dark prince...
Old 05-30-2009, 03:11 AM
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its ok, your on the crazy train with me now
Old 05-31-2009, 12:58 PM
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So i guess a few days sat in and damn I miss her, like i really was in love with this girl. I told her shit not even my family/best friends know about me.

man fuck
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like i know the sensible thing to do would be to just say screw her, I had the sensible mindset for a few days. but well i guess the stress of school caught up and damn she wont even aknowlegde im alive. I tried to call her to talk to her and she wont pick up or even click on me, fuck dude im pathetic
Old 05-31-2009, 01:18 PM
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wait wait wait wait!!! this new girl makes waffles.

My heart has been mended
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Old 05-31-2009, 01:35 PM
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lol, its good that she isn't answering, soon you'll realize "man she's a bitch, what a waste of my time." and not talking to her will really speed up that process.
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yea im figuring that

the funniest shit is. we werent even in a real arguement, I just told her wow im really nervous about us enxt week because of how bad last week was because i was busy. she started telling me to have some faith and i told her i was trying and that i just was still trying to get over the week before. Something tells me that she has been talking to someone else because over such petty shit she has been trying to break up with me lately.
Old 05-31-2009, 04:49 PM
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Like I said before....DON'T CALL HER!!!! Really! It only makes it harder. Just resist! And when she calls you, and she will, DON'T ANSWER!

Really sweetie, this girl is bad news. I understand that you hurt, but that's lonliness (or maybe horneyness), not some passion you can't live without. You can. So do it.

You're very focused for your age. Don't mess that up.
Old 05-31-2009, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
So i guess a few days sat in and damn I miss her, like i really was in love with this girl. I told her shit not even my family/best friends know about me.

I like to fuck men
I KNEW YOU LIKED TO RIDE THE MEAT PONY!!!

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Old 05-31-2009, 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
yea im figuring that

the funniest shit is. we werent even in a real arguement, I just told her wow im really nervous about us enxt week because of how bad last week was because i was busy. she started telling me to have some faith and i told her i was trying and that i just was still trying to get over the week before. Something tells me that she has been talking to someone else because over such petty shit she has been trying to break up with me lately.
that is more than likely the case.
Old 05-31-2009, 07:39 PM
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yea im seriously leaning on that now that im starting to go over shit in my head
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and im definately takin the advice this time gypsy. thanks
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
like i know the sensible thing to do would be to just say screw her, I had the sensible mindset for a few days. but well i guess the stress of school caught up and damn she wont even aknowlegde im alive. I tried to call her to talk to her and she wont pick up or even click on me, fuck dude im pathetic
No, you're just 19.
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that too

I guess her breaking up with me would be easier, but I she also was my first. Yes if you all remember the thread I made. well I guess its an out of date thread, just gets me down because i was supposedly her first and she was pretty much on the same tip i was, just thought we'd try harder to work things out but whatever too high maintenance and i am going to be in school for a much much longer time
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bacon AND waffles?

chocolate chip waffles?
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yes chocolate chip waffles
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awesome i know
Old 05-31-2009, 09:07 PM
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Look brother. Im not going to sugarcoat this for you. It's going to be tough loosing someone you truly loved. But TIME REALLY DOES HEAL ALL WOUNDS (of the heart in the love aspect of things). I know I give you shit a lot. But you seem like a very cool kid whith a great head on your shoulders. You should have ZERO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! problems finding a girl who will appreciate your will and drive to not only excel in school, but in life also. Kepp your head up and chin down and focus on school with out all the distractions of having a jealous ass G/F who is sooo insecure with herself that she trys to make you feel like a scumbag for having female friends,,
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that summed everything up pretty nicely lol thanks bro. I just feel like ive wasted so much damn time making trips to miami periodically, would send her stuff once in a while, put studying to the side alot just to spend time with her. shit in the time we were going out she came to visit me once
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holy shit.

Evil one, i think your heart just grew three times in size right there
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wait, wait, this is the Miami girl? I thought that shit was over months ago. Man, you knew she wasn't the one then with all the shit she gave you. As much as it sucks you have to move on and trust me I KNOW it sucks. I am going thru the same thing right now and have been so good with no contact, now she is making contact. It really is easier not to call and it will make her call you. That means your next hurdle is not picking up the phone, on the plus side it is usually easier then not calling
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Originally Posted by gypsygirl
You're about the same age as my son. I gotta' tell ya', if he even mentioned to me that he MIGHT EVEN CONSIDER giving up any investment in his future for some little girl, I may just BITCH SLAP him!

Oh my God, do not take that selfish child back into your life. Not even for "after the break-up" sex! Not even once.

Go be young! Go have fun! Go do school, and as many OTHER girls as you choose to see.
Have a great Birthday Party, and DON't call her.
amen to that! Cool mom, lol.

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I'm sure many people have already said this, but good for you for not putting your school behind her. I will have been with my gf for 4 years in September, and I told her flat fucking out that law school is going to be my #1 priority; and if seeing her is biting into my time and efforts with it, it's goodbye gf. Hopefully it won't come to that, but I made that point of how serious it is to me.

Stay strong, brother. There are over 3 billion women on this planet, and they almost all have perfectly usable vaginae. Never forget it.
shit, she'd be STUPID if she left you.. After Lawschool, you guys may be living the life that you've always wanted to.. 300k+/year starting? I'd stay with you, lol. no homo.

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that summed everything up pretty nicely lol thanks bro. I just feel like ive wasted so much damn time making trips to miami periodically, would send her stuff once in a while, put studying to the side alot just to spend time with her. shit in the time we were going out she came to visit me once
O man, so she's THAT type of girl.. Supposedly high maitanence? Dam, do girls really think that "high maintanence" is something that us men should really think highly of these days? I mean, with the way the economy is, ladies, ya'll needa chill and live with what you got.

I dated one of these.. Just didn't think it was worth the time. And now she's dating some dude that doesnt even go to school anymore and works full time at google making 500/week. Think he's hot shit now, but we'll see after i graduate with a BA. But i'm thinking of "go big or go home" so i might just do Law school as well.

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oh dude trust me, i made it known to her that going to school and eventually getting into dental school and becoming a dentist has been my dream since i was four and when i told her no one or nothing will get in my way she broke down
and inevitable suicide...?

Bruce Willis once told me that dentists have the highest rate of suicide out of any profession
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Yea i told her if she cant handle my 'busy' schedule now, wait til im in dental school. I tried to be nice about telling her im bus at first but the broad didnt understand so eventually i was pretty forward with her about it. didnt like that one bit.

I think she was on her last straw when i told her NOONE will get in my way of becoming a dentist, and i made sure that was emphasized
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and inevitable suicide...?

Bruce Willis once told me that dentists have the highest rate of suicide out of any profession
yea i hear its cause something about inflicting pain and how everyone is scared of the dentist which drives them insane. I think theres a dentist on the board who would know more about that statistic than i would. suicide is for pussies


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