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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:06 PM
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I got broken up with

because of facebook

lmao honestly it had alot to do with facebook. Weve been arguing alot since the beginning of summer semester because i havent had too much time to do anything but study (im taking organic 1 in 6 weeks and biology2 in 12 weeks). So she started to feel like i was just ignoring her and not giving her the attention she deserved. She told me i should make time for her because school shouldnt be the main priority in my life, she should be.

So we deleted our facebooks because of all this somehow and i opened my back up and started an event for my birthday in a few weeks. she opened hers back up today and somehow we werent friends anymore, so i added her was going to send her an invite to the event online. somehow she in her head she convinced herself that i wasnt inviting her and dont want to be with her anymore, so she just broke up with me

stupid kid shit i know, i find it hilarious and even though we dated for a good year and some odd months im cool with it, ill miss her, she was cool and we got along extremely well but to ask me to put my dream second to her is just beyond what im willing to do.

Im young and I go to a school where there is some fine young ladies so its all good. and if youre in gville let me know,cause youre invited to my bday party lmao
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:07 PM
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fuck i seem like a 15 year old because of this post oh well
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:09 PM
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Mad at you for studying? Thinks she should be the main priority in life right now? And broke up with you not knowing the situation?

like hell

You are better off without her.
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:27 PM
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
She told me i should make time for her because school shouldnt be the main priority in my life, she should be.
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:30 PM
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yeah i bet you'll miss her next couple weeks, but really you're probably better off now...a true gf should fit exactly in your life and that goes especially for all of your hopes and dreams...

so best of luck on your future women!
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:32 PM
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Wow, sorry to hear that and keep up the good attitude. I should head back up to the Gator Nation and party it up like the college days for your bday haha
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:34 PM
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nothing big, its messed up of her to be so selfish but we've all been there.. your better off so dont be too upset... and facebook is evil btw you should have known ..
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Old May 28, 2009 | 09:38 PM
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You will get her back dude. Tis just a matter of time :-)
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Old May 28, 2009 | 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by akash4u
You will get her back dude. Tis just a matter of time :-)
naaah, no more long distance.(forgot to mention that)

plus theres a pretty hot chick in my class thats been eyein me

and 1stgen, head up here, you gots a place to stay if ya do, plus its most likely a guiness keg
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Old May 28, 2009 | 10:45 PM
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:05 PM
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not anymore
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:11 PM
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Bummer, she was pretty. Was she part asian?

Anyways, there are other fish in the sea. And too bad your bday is so soon, otherwise if I was down in FL later in the summer i'd swing by!
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:17 PM
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haha nah she was cuban/american

i just read something she wrote me online a few months back and its amazing how much of a difference the comments today and then were. everything today was hateful and mean and the comments then were hopeful happy comments...funny
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:32 PM
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she totally had the wrong mentaility for you man. she was being super selfish. i couldnt do it if a girl asked to put her infront of your education especially at our age.
you had the right attitude at the end of your first post. plus, it looks like your back in the game already. keep up your schooling, more will come and go!
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
because of facebook
She told me i should make time for her because school shouldnt be the main priority in my life, she should be.

she was cool and we got along extremely well but to ask me to put my dream second to her is just beyond what im willing to do.
Uh, yea, screw that. Don't dump your dream or career for a girl, ever. If she can't understand that you're investing in your future, that it's important to you, and that it takes sacrifice, she can hit the road.

Im young and I go to a school where there is some fine young ladies so its all good. and if youre in gville let me know,cause youre invited to my bday party lmao
Great attitude, you'll be fine.
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Old May 28, 2009 | 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
naaah, no more long distance.(forgot to mention that)


Please don't do that again.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:07 AM
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naaaah, im strictly chasing local tail from now on
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Old May 29, 2009 | 02:43 AM
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does this mean you and i can be in a facebook relationship now?

i was wondering where you went on facebook actually.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 07:04 AM
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im back now and yea dude lets go out..... no red text
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Old May 29, 2009 | 09:07 AM
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You're about the same age as my son. I gotta' tell ya', if he even mentioned to me that he MIGHT EVEN CONSIDER giving up any investment in his future for some little girl, I may just BITCH SLAP him!

Oh my God, do not take that selfish child back into your life. Not even for "after the break-up" sex! Not even once.

Go be young! Go have fun! Go do school, and as many OTHER girls as you choose to see.
Have a great Birthday Party, and DON't call her.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 09:14 AM
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breaking up over facebook? what are you, 19?

on a serious note, sorry that had to go down. but it seems like you'll be better off for it. at your age and stage in life, you shouldn't put your dreams and ambitions aside for a girl.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks
breaking up over facebook? what are you, 19?

on a serious note, sorry that had to go down. but it seems like you'll be better off for it. at your age and stage in life, you shouldn't put your dreams and ambitions aside for a girl.



It's for the best- believe me.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 09:34 AM
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sounds like you are not over it and still care about her. Otherwise you would not be posting this.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 09:59 AM
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The good news is, you and I can start a hot and steamy relationship now that she's out of the way. After sex, I'll make you pulled pork sammiches and rub your feet.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 10:08 AM
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Meh....your young. It'll all be good! Trust me.

Since you are young....I will give you this advice. Meet up with her one more time and PIITB! lol


Seriously though...you will be ok!
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Old May 29, 2009 | 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
The good news is, you and I can start a hot and steamy relationship now that she's out of the way. After sex, I'll make you pulled pork sammiches and rub your feet.
why is the text red?
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Old May 29, 2009 | 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by spdy0001
why is the text red?
Red means hot and steamy, duh.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
The good news is, you and I can start a hot and steamy relationship now that she's out of the way. After sex, I'll make you pulled pork sammiches and rub your feet.
how much do i have to pay you to train my griflriend for me?
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Old May 29, 2009 | 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
The good news is, you and I can start a hot and steamy relationship now that she's out of the way. After sex, I'll make you pulled pork sammiches and rub your feet.
If I were single, I'd treat you.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 11:41 AM
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WOW 30 post and pictures of gf never came up? shhhhhh


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Old May 29, 2009 | 11:49 AM
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ive posted pics before
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Old May 29, 2009 | 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
The good news is, you and I can start a hot and steamy relationship now that she's out of the way. After sex, I'll make you pulled pork sammiches and rub your feet.
awesome...I also need my house cleaned


and onto other buisness, this new chick is turkish. what should i avoid?
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:11 PM
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Were you really studying 24/7, or did you sometimes blow her off for video games, playing sports, or watching TV with friends? It's your time... prioritize how you want, but it sounds like the blame is a bit one-sided here.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:17 PM
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the only other thing i do other than study is work out, and i consider that important since that is my only real source of exercise and ive put on a good amount of weight in the last few months and consider myself out of shape
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:18 PM
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i wont deny i have a short fuse for stupid arguments and was a bit too serious at times
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:29 PM
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petty petty petty petty petty petty.. sounds like a retarded reason to end a relationship with someone - must not have been all that serious on either end. You don't seem terribly broken up about it.
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:49 PM
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nah not really, not when this fucking hottie was talkin to me today. Eh i can get a job now and all
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Old May 29, 2009 | 12:51 PM
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Guiness is my favorite, when is the party? I will be up there for work next week and will be sure to take pics for all of AZ haha

As for the comment about facebook and being 19, FB is the devil no matter your age. I am seriously thinking of getting rid of mine because it causes so much unnecessary drama
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Old May 29, 2009 | 01:23 PM
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my bday is on the 12th, so two weeks from now...

yea ive realized that people cannot handle these networking things and take it too far and overanalyze everything

my cousin(a woman) left me a comment saying youre the best david
my ex didnt know it was my cousin and got pissed off at me
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