I can't believe it......I'm OFFICALLY single.....and a little "lost".
12-07-2004, 08:55 AM
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I can't believe it......I'm OFFICALLY single.....and a little "lost".
Well...after not seeing my girlfriend (now my ex) for almost 2 weeks.....we both decided it was over. She has horrible double standards, which she admitted to, but she says thats who she is....and she can't change that. We haven't been getting along for the last 2 months.....and I can honestly say that I don't know what to feel. 4 years of my life.....down the drain.
.......thats is all, I'm gonna go now.
.......thats is all, I'm gonna go now.
12-07-2004, 09:02 AM
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I am sorry to hear that dude.
I am very close to be in the same shoes as well. I know we all will be depressed and lost for a while, probably a long while, then life goes on
I am very close to be in the same shoes as well. I know we all will be depressed and lost for a while, probably a long while, then life goes on
12-07-2004, 09:52 AM
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You're right I'm sorry, I'll settle for her e-mail 
Seriously though just follow the following prescriptiona nd you'll be ok.
1. Hang out with non-mutual friends.
2. Day by day get back into your old routine of being single.
3. Realize things happen for a reason and remember there are more girls/guys out there.
4. Focus on yourself. Do what you want. You no longer have to answer to anybody but yourself.
5. Drink
6. Masturbate
7. Take a trip ( cheap or expensive but get out of that environment/city to realize more things are out there then your own little world you are so accustomed too).
8. Don't wallow in self pity and expect your friends to understand
9. Know that it will probably happen again with some other person later down the road, the key is to embrace the fact that not everything is peaches in cream. Life is hard. Love is harder.
10. Try to stay friends. There is nothing wrong with the fact that it didn't work out between you two. There is someone for everyone, you just have to invest more time then you thought to find that person now.
Seriously though just follow the following prescriptiona nd you'll be ok.
1. Hang out with non-mutual friends.
2. Day by day get back into your old routine of being single.
3. Realize things happen for a reason and remember there are more girls/guys out there.
4. Focus on yourself. Do what you want. You no longer have to answer to anybody but yourself.
5. Drink
6. Masturbate
7. Take a trip ( cheap or expensive but get out of that environment/city to realize more things are out there then your own little world you are so accustomed too).
8. Don't wallow in self pity and expect your friends to understand
9. Know that it will probably happen again with some other person later down the road, the key is to embrace the fact that not everything is peaches in cream. Life is hard. Love is harder.
10. Try to stay friends. There is nothing wrong with the fact that it didn't work out between you two. There is someone for everyone, you just have to invest more time then you thought to find that person now.
12-07-2004, 10:45 AM
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Damn CLPower sorry to hear about that. Now you can focus on your detailing business and save some money. She spent too much money and seemed to materialistic.
Go on campus and find that girl you were hanging out w/ last month who wanted you to skip class so the two of you could go back to her apartment and smoke out. Maybe she also wants to be a little bit
! It's almost the end of the semester, so just take your mind off of her by studying then after finals go out and party!!!!!
Go on campus and find that girl you were hanging out w/ last month who wanted you to skip class so the two of you could go back to her apartment and smoke out. Maybe she also wants to be a little bit
! It's almost the end of the semester, so just take your mind off of her by studying then after finals go out and party!!!!!
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12-07-2004, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Gixxster
Damn CLPower sorry to hear about that. Now you can focus on your detailing business and save some money. She spent too much money and seemed to materialistic.
Go on campus and find that girl you were hanging out w/ last month who wanted you to skip class so the two of you could go back to her apartment and smoke out. Maybe she also wants to be a little bit! It's almost the end of the semester, so just take your mind off of her by studying then after finals go out and party!!!!!
Go on campus and find that girl you were hanging out w/ last month who wanted you to skip class so the two of you could go back to her apartment and smoke out. Maybe she also wants to be a little bit
! It's almost the end of the semester, so just take your mind off of her by studying then after finals go out and party!!!!!
12-07-2004, 11:17 AM
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Sorry, man. Sounds like it was inevitable though. Who is going to want to be with a chick that has double standards? Some poor hapless loser. You're better off.
12-07-2004, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Red-CL
I think you got the wrong guy.
I think I just got 
by myselfI was reading the thread about CLPower and his gf doing the long distance thing. I guess I just got the 2 thread mixed together. I was thinking damn I didn't know she already moved back home.
Anyhow, sorry NickyPass to hear about you and your gf. Anyone who had to finance fake breast just isn't finically sound. It's the holidays so just go out and eat, drink and be merry!!!!
12-07-2004, 12:56 PM
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time to buy a TV!!!
anyways, sorry to hear about that, but i thought you made up your mind about her after she got her fake tits.
you're gonna pull through bro
btw, dont think of it as 4 years "wasted" that only makes you feel more shitty. think of it as a 4 year lesson to refine what you are looking for in a woman.
anyways, sorry to hear about that, but i thought you made up your mind about her after she got her fake tits.
you're gonna pull through bro
btw, dont think of it as 4 years "wasted" that only makes you feel more shitty. think of it as a 4 year lesson to refine what you are looking for in a woman.
12-07-2004, 01:03 PM
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sorry to hear that 
It might suck that you wasted four years of your life, but just imagine if you actually married her or had children and then found this out. I'm sure after taking some of the steps waddy outlined above and giving it a little time, you'll be fine
It might suck that you wasted four years of your life, but just imagine if you actually married her or had children and then found this out. I'm sure after taking some of the steps waddy outlined above and giving it a little time, you'll be fine
12-07-2004, 01:05 PM
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Better now then later, right? As rise said, its a huge life lesson, and now you have the opportunity to find someone who is everything she wasn't (that is, of corse, if your looking for it)...What I did afer my last breakup (and it helped):
I banged every girl that I always wanted to but never did, I'm talking: The girl in high school that I never had, the girl "friend" of yours who you always suspected had a crush on you, that girl from your friend's college apartment - All of em - Only 1 I regret, but so what, I had a blast and after I got tired of slutting around and being a man whore (remember, it is important to stop before you give yourself a bad name) - I found a girl who is the sweetest thing alive, she treats me right, is beautiful, and makes me a better person...
I learned what I was missing - and now I reconciled it -
Best wishes Nicky, I know your one of the better guys on here and you'll be just fine
I banged every girl that I always wanted to but never did, I'm talking: The girl in high school that I never had, the girl "friend" of yours who you always suspected had a crush on you, that girl from your friend's college apartment - All of em - Only 1 I regret, but so what, I had a blast and after I got tired of slutting around and being a man whore (remember, it is important to stop before you give yourself a bad name) - I found a girl who is the sweetest thing alive, she treats me right, is beautiful, and makes me a better person...
I learned what I was missing - and now I reconciled it -
Best wishes Nicky, I know your one of the better guys on here and you'll be just fine
12-07-2004, 01:19 PM
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my list is as follows. i'm sorry for you buddy, i'm in the same shoes. 3.3 years down the drain here.
1. avoid talking to your ex at all times.
2. find a new girl that doesn't know anyone in your circle of friends and don't tell her anything about your ex and how much you hate her.
3. take your best buddy and go on a roadtrip to an auto show or even to your local strip club.
4. play video games, drink beer and hit the gym.
5. don't stay at home on saturday nights...spend time with anyone, anywhere just not at home.
6. drive your cl as fast as you can all day with windows down
7. in 4 weeks you should be over it!
cheers mate!
1. avoid talking to your ex at all times.
2. find a new girl that doesn't know anyone in your circle of friends and don't tell her anything about your ex and how much you hate her.
3. take your best buddy and go on a roadtrip to an auto show or even to your local strip club.
4. play video games, drink beer and hit the gym.
5. don't stay at home on saturday nights...spend time with anyone, anywhere just not at home.
6. drive your cl as fast as you can all day with windows down
7. in 4 weeks you should be over it!
cheers mate!
12-07-2004, 03:39 PM
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I'm giving it my all to NOT call her......
I did have a hard time falling asleep last night.....and being at work now sucks....the day is just dragging on and on!!!!
I wish she cheated on me....then I could atleast hate her and not think about her!
I did have a hard time falling asleep last night.....and being at work now sucks....the day is just dragging on and on!!!!
I wish she cheated on me....then I could atleast hate her and not think about her!
12-07-2004, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
I'm giving it my all to NOT call her......
I did have a hard time falling asleep last night.....and being at work now sucks....the day is just dragging on and on!!!!
I wish she cheated on me....then I could atleast hate her and not think about her!
I did have a hard time falling asleep last night.....and being at work now sucks....the day is just dragging on and on!!!!
I wish she cheated on me....then I could atleast hate her and not think about her!
it's gonna get worse before it gets better homie. i hate this crap.
don't call. it's a lost cause at this point. at least you got some closure.
my girl just rolled out. no explanation and i have to see her periodically at work.
hang in there. it'll be rough but you'll get through it
12-07-2004, 04:25 PM
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i know i know. nothing feels as bad as this. physical pain doesn't do what this can.
sometimes love isn't enough i guess. everyone comes into your life for a reason, whether it be to learn something to teach something. usually it's both. sometimes these relationships last a week. sometimes years, but every relationship you will ever have with anyone is temporary. we all move on. we all die. but if this one meant this much to you, there will be one that will mean even more and it will last..at least until you die
i think you can fall in love with the wrong person
i do it all the time - well, not all the time, but i just did it myself, but even now, after almost two months and i look back when things were good and i can't posssibly imagine anyone being more perfect.
why do they change
sometimes love isn't enough i guess. everyone comes into your life for a reason, whether it be to learn something to teach something. usually it's both. sometimes these relationships last a week. sometimes years, but every relationship you will ever have with anyone is temporary. we all move on. we all die. but if this one meant this much to you, there will be one that will mean even more and it will last..at least until you die
i think you can fall in love with the wrong person
i do it all the time - well, not all the time, but i just did it myself, but even now, after almost two months and i look back when things were good and i can't posssibly imagine anyone being more perfect.
why do they change
12-07-2004, 05:34 PM
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It's real easy to be single. Just follow these simple guidelines:
1) Whenever you would normally be having sex with your girlfriend, masturbate for a few hours.
2) Whenever you would normally be going out and having fun with your girlfriend, stay at home and play videogames/watch TV/postwhore A-CL.
3) Whenever you would buy your girlfriend a present or flowers, buy something for your car or go to a strip club.
1) Whenever you would normally be having sex with your girlfriend, masturbate for a few hours.
2) Whenever you would normally be going out and having fun with your girlfriend, stay at home and play videogames/watch TV/postwhore A-CL.
3) Whenever you would buy your girlfriend a present or flowers, buy something for your car or go to a strip club.
12-07-2004, 05:49 PM
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nicky.. dont think of it as a waste of four years.. just remember the things you did right in the relationship, and the things you did wrong in the relationship, what worked and what didnt.. and use it for the next relationship with hopefully a woman that will stay with you.
12-08-2004, 01:03 AM
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Sorry to hear...but you just gotta take what you can out of it... I'm sure you learned more about yourself and what you want/like in a relationship, etc. over those 4 years... you'll find another 
12-08-2004, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Saturday.....HMMMMMMMMMMM??? Its a possibility.....we were thinking of going to Bamboo in Lombard!
we going to north beach around 7 then to bamboo in lombard around 10
12-08-2004, 03:56 PM
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My friend told me that Bamboo Room Lombard sucks. The one in Schaumburg is a lot better. Lots of young sluts at North Beach though, especially on Thurs nights.
12-08-2004, 05:31 PM
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You hadn't been getting along for 2 months and you just gave up? You guys should have worked it out and thought it over.. Unless your/her feelings just changed, which is something you can't help. I am always so surprised at how people give up so quickly on the ones they love.
However, it's all over and done with now, so the only thing you can do is hold your head high and scout out that next lucky girl. Don't get down in the dumps, you'll find the next one in the most unexpected place. Cheer up hun.
However, it's all over and done with now, so the only thing you can do is hold your head high and scout out that next lucky girl. Don't get down in the dumps, you'll find the next one in the most unexpected place. Cheer up hun.