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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 09:42 PM
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How young is to young

Reason why I'm asking is that I have been talking to this chick that I think is pretty kewl and she is cute as hell only one small problem she is 18. Like just turned 18. I dont if I'm just being stupid, or I should just go with the flow. Only thing that i would see that would suck is that she could not do anything with me. Example go to the club, bar, and casino you shit like that. I'm 22 and thats only 4 years.

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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 09:47 PM
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its great to date a girl under 21. if you ever don't want to hang out with her just say you are going to the bar.


Originally Posted by Blades
I think is pretty kewl
are you sure YOU aren't an 18 year old girl?

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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 09:51 PM
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I know I could not think of the word to describe it
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 09:55 PM
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Anything legal isn't too young. If she's still in HS though, you'll probably find her annoying soon enough. Probably not by the end of an evening though
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 09:55 PM
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If she is mature for her age and you have a lot in common go for it. You don't really have anything to lose
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:02 PM
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Dude, half your age + 7.

18 is all good for you.
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:03 PM
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Yea well she is not in high school. She works at another store than mine at work. The way I'm looking at it is I'm just going to go with the flow. If something happens it happens if not FAWK it.
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
If she is mature for her age and you have a lot in common go for it. You don't really have anything to lose


Its about being on the same "level" really.
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:16 PM
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My current boyfriend is 24...and we've been dating for a year and a half...which made me 18 and him 22...wasn't a big deal at the time, and still isn't.
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Dan Martin
Dude, half your age + 7.

18 is all good for you.

Thats a pretty good rule to follow!
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:27 PM
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That's not too young.
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:27 PM
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Just go for it...what do you have to lose?


Your age difference is minimal...
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 10:54 PM
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Old Jan 11, 2005 | 11:12 PM
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Old enough to pee old enough for me....

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Your'e good to go, oh and dont forget to
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 12:22 AM
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22... 18... doesn't seem too bad...

Long as your not dipping below state law, it's kewl.

Junkster, who has never really dated anyone more then 2 years younger then him
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 12:25 AM
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 08:30 AM
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I wouldnt date anyone under 18, but now that I am older 21 is the cut off.
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 08:34 AM
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I will say for 99% of the girls out there if you find yourself at 22 on the same level as a 17year old (just turned 18) seriously take a step back and look at yourself.

My sister in law is 17 and I am pretty sure I would hit her with a frozen fish iif I ever had to spend more than 15 minutes talking to her.

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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by 95gt
I will say for 99% of the girls out there if you find yourself at 22 on the same level as a 17year old (just turned 18) seriously take a step back and look at yourself.

My sister in law is 17 and I am pretty sure I would hit her with a frozen fish iif I ever had to spend more than 15 minutes talking to her.

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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 08:53 AM
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22 and 18 doesn't seem bad at all. If you were like 45, then it might be just a little weird...
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 10:36 AM
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That's nothing. Stop worrying.
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by 95gt

My sister in law is 17 and I am pretty sure I would hit her with a frozen fish iif I ever had to spend more than 15 minutes talking to her.

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wheres DZUY!

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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 12:23 PM
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18yo with a 22yo sounds fine to me ... Unless ALL you do is hang out in bars and clubs.
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Dan Martin
Dude, half your age + 7.
26!!
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 01:06 PM
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4 years is nothing...do it
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 01:14 PM
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too young for what? A female is in her physical prime from 17-22 IMO. Mentally, thats another story.
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
too young for what? A female is in her physical prime from 17-22 IMO. Mentally, thats another story.
I believe female humans never reach mental prime... it's a myth

Junkster, who thought women were at their sexual prime at 28~35ish
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 02:50 PM
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Your 4 years apart, OMG

Anyway it only matters if you let it and only if the two of you don't get along because of it.

My current girlfriend is about to turn 21, I'm 27. We haven't let the age difference get in the way at all. You can do A LOT more than just get drunk (legally) with a girl.
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Junkster
I believe female humans never reach mental prime... it's a myth

Junkster, who thought women were at their sexual prime at 28~35ish
ya, sexual prime as in labido and sex drive is 28-35. But i meant physical prime as in what they look and feel like
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Old Jan 12, 2005 | 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
ya, sexual prime as in labido and sex drive is 28-35. But i meant physical prime as in what they look and feel like


Feel... so true.

I don't know, I've seen some girls that look so much better in their late 20's compared to HS/college.

Junkster, who thinks those are rare though
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Old Jan 13, 2005 | 12:44 AM
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bump...

at least your not like this guy...

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news...0484&qs=1;bp=t

Junkster, who just read about it on the paper today
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Old Jan 13, 2005 | 09:02 AM
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if theres grass in the field play soccer.....or baseball, lol jk 17 is the limit for me, only because im only 19
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Old Jan 13, 2005 | 09:07 AM
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If she is mature for her age and you have a lot in common go for it. You don't really have anything to lose
I agree, there is SOOOOOOOOOOO much more than "21 and older" stuff you guys can do...plus, if she is really kwel, then there u hav it, hommie!!! I am a GOMER, and I cannot think of the last time Sithgirl and I went to a bar...
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Old Jan 13, 2005 | 09:10 AM
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what is a gomer
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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 12:07 AM
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well guys here is a pic of her



for those who say this all the time
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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 12:15 AM
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^^


so how does she taste?



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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 12:17 AM
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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by 95gt
I will say for 99% of the girls out there if you find yourself at 22 on the same level as a 17year old (just turned 18) seriously take a step back and look at yourself.

My sister in law is 17 and I am pretty sure I would hit her with a frozen fish iif I ever had to spend more than 15 minutes talking to her.

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Yo I gotta agree with this
The myth that girls mature faster then boys is just that, a myth. Most 18-20 year old girls I know are pretty immature and usually find guys who are "on their level" who are just as immature as they are. I personally wouldn't dip below 2 years. I dated an 18 yr old when I was 20 and all my friends cracked jokes about it and constantly called me R kelly.
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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 12:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Junkster
bump...

at least your not like this guy...

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news...0484&qs=1;bp=t

Junkster, who just read about it on the paper today
Kevin Ponis, whose last name sounds/looks strikingly like the word penis

also...Blades I say go for it man, if you are both on the same level and enjoy the same things then I think it can't hurt

Last edited by nicholbr; Jan 14, 2005 at 12:56 AM.
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Old Jan 14, 2005 | 03:09 AM
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ok i am 25 and have a "friend" who just turned 20, she is smoking hot. She is old enough to know somethings and young enough to learn. and she still has that new women smell
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