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Old 01-15-2004, 07:49 PM
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how many is too many?

would you be bothered if your current significant other told you they had alot (thats subjective to you) of ex-lovers before they met you?
Old 01-15-2004, 07:54 PM
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hmmmm...i dont think it matters as long as they are willing to do a disease test before you all get down. Experience sexually can lead to a better relationship from possible better sexual performance learned from the experience. It shouldnt really be a daily conversation or even brought up again other than initially when discussing sexual/relationship topics.
Old 01-15-2004, 08:02 PM
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experience is nice but what if you found out a girl you were dating had banged like 100 dudes.

then it would matter.
Old 01-15-2004, 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by Beetroot
experience is nice but what if you found out a girl you were dating had banged like 100 dudes.

then it would matter.

Damn that would suck!!! Especially if you were already thinking about marriage!
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It's like Chris Rock said, no matter the number, it's too many. The girl could be like "Two..." and I'd just be like "TWO!? WHAT THE FUCK!?! Must have been how you was raised....."


The fewer the better, in my eyes.
Old 01-15-2004, 09:51 PM
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I say as long as there are no diseases its ok. If the person isn't fucking around on you...its ok. And of course if they haven't done all of your friends and your sister .
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Originally posted by Minch00
It's like Chris Rock said, no matter the number, it's too many. The girl could be like "Two..." and I'd just be like "TWO!? WHAT THE FUCK!?! Must have been how you was raised....."


The fewer the better, in my eyes.

Minch, I 100% agree with you... I've always had a HUGE problem with this... Mainly, I think it is because I usually date older women and I got such a late start. It is jealousy, plain and simple. I've never been with a virgin, and probably never will... and when you fall in love with a woman, and imagine the one night stand she told you about before you were dating, it fucking hurts. WTF was she thinking? I've never had a one nighter, why am I sleeping with this whore who has no morals???

Anyways, sex is the ultimate trust and intimacy to me. I don't take it lightly, and I want my partners to be the same way. The older I get, than the less I know, the better I am off. I've broken up with 2 really nice girls after I asked "that" question. One was at 18, the other 14, and i was only at number 3. Fucking whores... or not?????????
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whatever she says add 3 then divide by two. subtract that from however many times you have played hide the sausage. if it is less than 10 and ends in the number 3,5,8, or 9, does it really fucking matter? just dont ask. you'll feel better that way.
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:whocares: if it was before I was with her, it is none of my biz.

I mean I would be the Pot calling the kettle Black...ya know...
Old 01-16-2004, 07:24 AM
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Sort of depends on you. If you are a killer you better not care but if you are a little lower on the notch list you may want a girl a little more your speed. Maybe one that does not spread as easy as warm butter
Old 01-16-2004, 07:58 AM
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their past is what made them who they are today.. why judge them?! would you want to be held accountable for your past? Its not fair... we all made mistakes and you werent there so you have no right to judge it...
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Re: how many is too many?

Originally posted by ali.ahmed
would you be bothered if your current significant other told you they had alot (thats subjective to you) of ex-lovers before they met you?
how else are they surpposed to learn how to screw? "Great lovers are MADE not BORN"!!

oh, and F**K the double standard! it doesn't matter if your a man or a woman. A ho is a ho! :thumbsdn:




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