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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:15 PM
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how low?

i have a feeling one of my lil brother's friends wants me. she's a good lookin girl but i think she's too young. i mean, ive always thought guys who date down more than a year in HS were sick shits or somethin. i guess i would have to be under the influence to hook up with this girl. i guess i cant get past that she's really good friends with my LITTLE brother. kinda weird. ive never hooked up with a chick more than a year younger than me and more than three years older than me.

since 90% of yall are outta HS, how low were you guys fine with back in the day? i know some guys dip real low but it just seems wrong, i dunno.

btw, i hate (understatement) it when ~20 yr old guys date hs chicks. that really pisses me off, i would have real trouble with myself if i became that guy.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:16 PM
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It's rape in a year...maybe that helps :o
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:16 PM
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btw, its admitted by multiple seniors she's top 10 in the school...
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:17 PM
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well, in 6 months that is...
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:30 PM
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dude 14? that is just sick....that girl should not be having sex yet...god damn...thats how all these stupid girls are ending up with babies....

stay the fuck away from her.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:31 PM
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def not talkin sex.
just in general.

EDIT: just lettin y'all know, i dont intend to act on this. as ive said, a) its a conflict of interest, ive always thought that whoever did that had somethin wrong with them and hate it when people do it to girls in my grade even and b) it would def take a solid amount of liquor for me to hook up with her and get past those issues.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:34 PM
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i think she just has a crush. don't touch her. cuz even if you're 17 but her being 14 is still probably illegal.

that's just sick. wait a couple of years after she turns 16. if you still like her, and she likes you and it's cool w/ your buddy, then go for it. if not, don't even think about it
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 09:43 PM
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i guess my real thing here is, how low do you all consider too low? its obvious what youre answer is in this situation. im not kidding when i say that there are plenty of guys who become total tools for these little girls and they make it seem totally acceptable but i dont feel it is.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:00 PM
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14?? are u kidding me...you actually made a thread over a 14 year old?
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:00 PM
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Originally posted by ItalianStallion
i guess my real thing here is, how low do you all consider too low? its obvious what youre answer is in this situation. im not kidding when i say that there are plenty of guys who become total tools for these little girls and they make it seem totally acceptable but i dont feel it is.
low...well obvioulsy 14 & 17 is low

and guys have fantasies...some of them, not ALL, but some want to fuck the tight body 14 years olds because they are men.

But women do it too...we want the image of the stable guy with a nice car and a good job, well i do at least...

I for one dont think it's right...but whatever gets your rocks off
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:03 PM
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14 is too low man

i consider 16 year olds but if they under that they for my lil bro
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:05 PM
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Pics please.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:09 PM
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so you know what im getting at here, right? for the last few months ive been debating with this other chick thats 17 and her last 3 bf's were 20, 21, 23. i kept telling her that guys who date down real low like that are A) up to something or B) total jerkoffs. the social climate makes it appear that dating real low is acceptable, i just wanted to get your thoughts on the matter. trust me, i make sure to poke fun at plenty of my friends who are actively throwing game at this chick and people comparable in age.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:10 PM
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5 year span either way is acceptable. Just not when 5 yrs is > 25% of your life.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:20 PM
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
5 year span either way is acceptable. Just not when 5 yrs is > 25% of your life.
totally understood. my mom is 16 years younger than my dad (yeah i know that is kinda weird). it def is a proportionality thing. 5 years is def no big deal once you get up in the 30's and 40's.

EDIT: not to say 30's and 40's is old for any of you who may take it that way.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 10:32 PM
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
Pics please.

no kiddie porn please jk

But I don't know about that whole 14 year old thing. I mean I guess when I was in HS I saw it happen. And even in my most recent relationship my bf (27) was talking to this 12 year old girl who volunteered at the pre-school where he teaches....we had a HUGE argument about her crush on him (he didn't think she had one, but I am pretty damn sure she did). I mean the age diff in your situation isn't so severe, but I guess I'm just sensitive about the whole younger woman thing because of my bastard experience.
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Old Oct 12, 2003 | 11:18 PM
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haha 14... thats too young... still tho...
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 06:37 AM
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17 is aight...but anything under that is way to low...
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 06:45 AM
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Originally posted by ItalianStallion
btw, its admitted by multiple seniors she's top 10 in the school...
You just answered your own question..
Who cares what other people think?!?

Edit: 14?! Yeah, *that's too young*.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 06:52 AM
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Funny story- one of the guys that works for me, came in last week really hung over, looking down and out. I was like "hey man whats goin on" and he goes, "i had the worst night last night". So of course i asked what the problem was. He goes "well last night we had this party, and me and this chick were flirting the entire night, and of course it got to the point where we made it back to my room. She just dropped to her knees, started giving me a BJ, and i proceeded from there. It was really good, like the tightest pussy i've had in a while. After i'm done, i walk back outside and tell my roomate that she had a really tight pussy. He goes, she should, she's only 14!" as soon as he said that, my jaw dropped. He's 21, but he said the girl looked 19. Now he feels really bad, like a child abuser, but hey , the guy didnt know.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 06:58 AM
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dayum, that would reeeeeeally suck. i cant even imagine how shitty he must feel.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by ItalianStallion
i kept telling her that guys who date down real low like that are A) up to something or B) total jerkoffs.
ur right. we just use them for sex. girls that age think an older guy is stability. bunch of bs. i was banging this one underaged chick just to bang her. headcase. you'd think she'd learn. i was a total jerk to her too, yet she still calls me to hang out.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 08:31 AM
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oh and i say a 3 year over/under is fine being 21.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 08:41 AM
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im 17 going out with 15 but shes gonna be 16 next month so i dont think its so bad right?

i dunno its not like im using her i actualy like her for her so i guess its ok
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 09:18 AM
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yeah, python, youre good to go in my book. a friend of mine is 18 and his girl is 16, theyll have been goin out for a year on nov 8. hes practically married to her. do you do that too. he is missing out on the things that make senior year great.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 09:42 AM
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Originally posted by ItalianStallion
yeah, python, youre good to go in my book. a friend of mine is 18 and his girl is 16, theyll have been goin out for a year on nov 8. hes practically married to her. do you do that too. he is missing out on the things that make senior year great.
dont get died down by one girl bro, it will fuck up your life at this age
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 10:09 AM
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Originally posted by ItalianStallion
yeah, python, youre good to go in my book. a friend of mine is 18 and his girl is 16, theyll have been goin out for a year on nov 8. hes practically married to her. do you do that too. he is missing out on the things that make senior year great.
If "missing out" means he's bangin a tight 16-year old, then I'm game..
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 10:13 AM
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wait a min... your in high school right?

if your in high school and shes in high school then its all gravy.

freshmen lose it to seniors. end of story.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 10:24 AM
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Hit that ass with a vengence.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 11:03 AM
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Don't forget - she might have a father that thinks 14 is a little young. He might be armed.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by soopa
wait a min... your in high school right?

if your in high school and shes in high school then its all gravy.

freshmen lose it to seniors. end of story.
Amen.. Take it from Soopa the Prophet!



HS is all throw-away anyhow.. Hit it!@
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 11:27 AM
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I've been out of HS a long time now. When I was there & under 17, I would hit any age 14 & over. Now I wouldn't hit anyone younger the 19.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:39 PM
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I am 22.

My limit is a soft 20...most others are wayy to immature to date...soft, becuase I have been convinced otherwise on rarest of occasions...just this last week one of these girls that my buddies and I were hanging out with did a few things...they were 18...they asked if we thought they were immature, she said that every guy she has dated has told her that she is immature...I was thinking...you know...if you have to ask...then you probably are, just because of that.

Then they asked me if my car was mine or if it was bought for me...I felt like making them walk home for that...but didn't. almost as offensive as the guy at the dealership (with my last car, not where I bought it though) telling me he did not think that I could afford/get credit for my TL...or the ass at Best Buy thinking that I could not get finaincing for my new TV when I moved out...that shit is just straight up offensive (to me at least) you know that?

17 and 14...bad...

21 and 18 not so bad...

24 and 21 OK to go for...

On a side note, my dad is 55 nad my mother is 50... they did get married when he was 29 and she was 24 though, up that high, the age gap is not that big of a deal.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:56 PM
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the worst i did was fool around with a girl the summer b4 her 8th grad year and i was heading into my 10th grade year i mean the chick was bangin for real she still is hot so...


P.S. she just turned 13, and i was 15
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