how long after you broke up with your girl (or bf) did you start seeing people again? I broke up with my gf about 1.5 months ago and i met the cutest girl yesterday but i kinda feel bad that im dating so soon...what are you guys waiting period?


I dont really care about going out with this new girl but ill feel bad if i run into my ex with the new one somewhere

 

After breaking up with my GF of 1.5 years, I dated about two months later.

 

After I broke up with a bf of 1.5 years, I dated someone about 2 months later, but it only lasted like 5 or 6 months.

 

A few days

 

The thing is, I wouldn't expect to have any serious relationships that soon after breaking up. The usual timeframe to get over someone is half the time you went out.

 

^~~~ yeah i agree.... I told myself to enjoy my freedom (part of the reason i broke up w my ex) but man ive been checking this girl out for a while (friend of a friend) and its until now that i get the chance so thats why im kinda jumping on it

 

couple hours at least...

 

That's cuz you a man-slut.

 

I broke up with my bf of almost 3 years just over 2 months ago. I thought it will take some time to find someone else but... I met someone 2 weeks later. We've been seeing each other for 1.5 months now and so far things are going great.

 

it's been about 2 months since my last relationship. hence, i met this girl a couple days ago and i have to see were we go. she's cool, hot, and fun to be with.

 

after i broke up w/ my ex of 1 year i dated a couple of girls here and there and messed around, but the next real relationship came a year or so later

 

There is no standard wait time in my mind. If the relationship was not meant to be, then it was not meant to be. If you find someone you're interested in the next day, so go for it. Just keep in mind that if the person you're interested in finds out that you just got out of a relationship, they might be turned off by that...

 

i tend to use the human gestation period as a good benchmark. for every year you were together you don't date for 9 months. works for me

 

Within hours... When my "wife" GF left me... i was ready to go party... go anywhere... but where can i go on foot... My car was in the shop... my job didn't pay me correctly (didn't depost my check in time)... bills got packed... work was a bish... so i was stuck at home... doing nothing... thinking of how can i deal with this stuff... till finally when i had the barrel of my .45 to the bottom of my neck... it clicked... i knew what i was going to do...

Wait for my TL to come home... milk the company for cash... wait for the bonus... resign... pay off bills... then go party... after all of it... which was 2 weeks that lasted like that... she decided she wanted to come back... and work things out... i wanted to too... so we did... now everything is cherry and the ball is rolling once again...

Sorry for the rant... but the answer to this question is... mentaly within hours... actually ready problem wise... couple weeks... thats just me...

edit: forgot to say... she actually broke it with me... and i was torn... but it took a couple hours to actually want to go party and whatnot... still wanted her back though... but couldnt do any of it... i needed advice... thanks you you guys i got it...

 

Immediately. (ex-wife that is)

I'm wife shopping.

 

as well they should. too much baggage.

 

did you really do that? nothing is worth taking your own life.

 

When you look this good and got 13 inches. Any second..

werd werd !

^

NEXT DAY for me

 

eek

 

15 minutes..I walked to the other side of the bar.

 

hunting down her old posts huh?

 

Someone is e-stalking old posts...

 

 

we just broke up and she is already saying that some guy is asking her out

im going to fucking kill the bitch

 

just happened to me or there is a guy that is going to ask her out. like really wtf. well i'm free and going to mingle so screw her.

 

It was a slow night

As if you never done it!

 

Its been 3 months for me....I'd rather be single....poke a few throats and baby holes here and there rather then dealing with the "who, what, wher, why and when" bullshit.

 

I dated immediately after. Lasted like 2 weeks. Now I want my ex back.

 

If you are dealing with "who, what, where, why, and when bullshit" you aren't with the right woman.

No Drama > *

 

That night. girl are nothing to lose you head over. Dime a dozen

 

Once the deal has been finalized there is a standard wait time of 1 second. Most people know that the break up is comming anyway.

I say if you were in a serious relationship and you break up, there is no problem with "hanging out" with others right off of the bat. If you really care for her and are still on good terms you might want to wait a week or two so that she knows she meant something to you.

 

 

to me not after she fucks you over so i went out with some girl i met the day after. i know thats bad but hey whatever. but now she's quoting my aways and putting them in her away calling me desperate because i'm with someone else and putting in songs that basically says we will be back togehter. and i have learned that the who, where, when, why, ect... stuff that you have to deal with your gf is not worth it and get out of that relationship immediantly it's not worth the drama or her bullshit because if she wants to be with you she wouldn't be out with her guy "friends" every other night.

 

The same night.

I broke up with her and then went on a date with the best pair of fake tits I have ever seen.

 

how were their legs?

edit: and did they make out?

 

you should use the Xeno method. Always have a bitch-in-waiting. SO how long do you wait from dumping one to getting another? about *snap* that long.

 

Feel bad?!? The bitch ain't dead! There's no mourning period. She's probably going down on some guy right now. Get over it and get out there.

 

Damn, what girl broke your heart and turned you into an American Psycho? Women aren't dick recepticles! Men are vagina plugs! Get it right!

 

My record is 2hrs, plus the new gf flew to where i was at....

 

a serious g/f-- i broke up with her, was still bangin' her, and start goin out with someone else

the serious ex had a whole lotta hate when she found out (even cried for some reason*), but for me I just wanted a girl to take the place of the old one (*who broke up with me) and one just fell into place....

that was a bad idea, but i didnt think about it, it just happened