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Old 03-25-2008, 11:06 AM
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My gf doesn't like it at all...she found this site in my favorites and kinda got pretty upset about it....but then AT CERTAIN TIMES....she asks me to put a video on....

On another note, she has found certain pictures of beutiful women SAVED on my hd...she really didn't like that too much....I have it very well hidden now, not in my damn MY PICTURES folder
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Originally Posted by sxlova07
I introduced my gf to porn and she loves it. Atleast once a week she will ask if I have d/l'ed any new clips...and will review them and comment on what she likes. I'm pretty bad cus I have loaded porn clips on my ipod video and when in the car she will load them up and blast it with the windows down. To make matters worse I have loaded porn clips on my cellphone.

Interestingly enough my "mistress" doesnt like porn, however enjoys me taking pictures or video while we are doing it. According to her she should be good enough so I dont need to watch porn. Unless of course its the video of her.



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At first my GF told me she didn't mind me watching porn as long as "you don't whack off to it at the same time" At which point, I slapped her in the back of the head while asking, "Woman, what the HELL do you think PORN is for ... INSTRUCTIONAL PURPOSES ONLY?"

So she agreed and after fixing me a sandwich, she said it would be OK as long as I watched it discretely. At which point, I shook her violently while asking, "No, I was thinking about bringing it over to THANKSGIVING DINNER so during the post-meal festivities we can watch esophagus gaggers volumes #6 and #8 and have a circle jerk ... and we're only skipping #7 because you know how I feel about GIGANTIC, VEINY BLACK PENISES THAT LOOK LIKE SWOLLEN TIRE IRONS."

Anyways, the funny thing is how knowledgeable my GF actually is about the various tiers of porns. I'm not talking inter-species or inter-racial but actual "type." She deemed it appropriate for me to watch porn with a storyline, plot, cue porn music ... you know, the poorly acted "Vivid films" which parodies mainstream movies. The old-school BS.

But ... she doesn't want me to watch P.O.V. porn (don't EVEN pretend you don't know what I'm talking about here) or the fake-ish amateur "casting" movies ... which I and my penis both happen to be partial to. So there's a boner of contention here.
I actually

Old 03-26-2008, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS


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pics of who?
Old 03-26-2008, 01:28 PM
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@ choboy.

Quite possibly the best post ever.
Old 03-27-2008, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by sxlova07
pics of who?

the mistress, and the vids!
Old 03-28-2008, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
the mistress, and the vids!
had some on here but the photo site i used went down.....sent ya a couple innocent pics.....the vids are personal
Old 03-28-2008, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by sxlova07
had some on here but the photo site i used went down.....sent ya a couple innocent pics.....the vids are personal
May as well share them with everyone.
Old 03-28-2008, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
May as well share them with everyone.
He said they are innocent...no need...this site is strictly for porn...
Old 03-28-2008, 01:07 PM
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Porn is ok in my book. I don't really like anal and loooooooooooooooooooong story lines without action. Everything else is fine. I'd rather watch girl/girl then guy/guy (slightly makes me sick).

The husband and I download a few every once in awhile and go through and save the good ones. I watch some while I'm home by myself once in awhile . Have have teh sex regularly so it's not something we're lacking.

Overall, I just don't think there's a problem with porn.
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Porn doesnt bitch back :/
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Originally Posted by pinky_ttc
...The husband and I download a few every once in awhile...

Overall, I just don't think there's a problem with porn.
My wife asks me to pull up some porn scenes every so often, so she doesn't have an issue with it either.
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if i ever get a gf, and she doesnt approve of me looking at porn
Old 03-29-2008, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
if i ever get a gf, and she doesnt approve of me looking at porn
I dunno, I just feel like women that dont like their men looking at porn is slightly insecure. :shrugs:

As someone said earlier, I find it pretty healthy and obviously communication lines are running strong if you're comfortable with it (especially with a girlfriend).
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Originally Posted by YoungCeo
My gf doesn't like it at all...she found this site in my favorites and kinda got pretty upset about it....but then AT CERTAIN TIMES....she asks me to put a video on....

On another note, she has found certain pictures of beutiful women SAVED on my hd...she really didn't like that too much....I have it very well hidden now, not in my damn MY PICTURES folder
Am I the only person that's like about the gf being pissed that az.com is a bookmarked favorite?! WTF?!

You shouldn't really have pictures of beautiful women unless they're porn stars or something or they're your 'friends.' haha.
Old 04-02-2008, 12:09 PM
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I've had to abandon all forms of porn. My wife considers porn to be a form of cheating and times can cause stress in our relationship. Any suggestions on how I could get interest her.. I personally wouldn't mind watching a few movies with her. It's basically she feels that if i'm being turned on by another woman then i'm cheating.. anyone care to provide their insight on this little situation

Originally Posted by pinky_ttc
Am I the only person that's like about the gf being pissed that az.com is a bookmarked favorite?! WTF?!

You shouldn't really have pictures of beautiful women unless they're porn stars or something or they're your 'friends.' haha.

They were hidding until she just read your post.
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Originally Posted by Evader
I've had to abandon all forms of porn. My wife considers porn to be a form of cheating and times can cause stress in our relationship. Any suggestions on how I could get interest her.. I personally wouldn't mind watching a few movies with her. It's basically she feels that if i'm being turned on by another woman then i'm cheating.. anyone care to provide their insight on this little situation...They were hidding until she just read your post.
Wait...the wife is reading D&R with you? Oh shit...you might get some incoming for that one dawg!
Old 04-02-2008, 01:15 PM
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damnit... This is what I meant to quote:

Originally Posted by YoungCeo
My gf doesn't like it at all...she found this site in my favorites and kinda got pretty upset about it....but then AT CERTAIN TIMES....she asks me to put a video on....

On another note, she has found certain pictures of beutiful women SAVED on my hd...she really didn't like that too much....I have it very well hidden now, not in my damn MY PICTURES folder

Now my response of "They were hidding until she just read your post" makes more sense lol
Old 04-02-2008, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Evader
damnit... This is what I meant to quote:

Originally Posted by YoungCeo
My gf doesn't like it at all...she found this site in my favorites and kinda got pretty upset about it....but then AT CERTAIN TIMES....she asks me to put a video on....

On another note, she has found certain pictures of beutiful women SAVED on my hd...she really didn't like that too much....I have it very well hidden now, not in my damn MY PICTURES folder

Now my response of "They were hidding until she just read your post" makes more sense lol
Whew! Yeah, it does. But it was funnier thinking that you were reading D&R with the wife though! Hahahahaha!
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Originally Posted by Evader
It's basically she feels that if i'm being turned on by another woman then i'm cheating.. anyone care to provide their insight on this little situation
This could be a real problem. Men get turned on by other women - it's built in to our DNA. What some women don't understand is that trying to make their guy stop looking will lead to one of two things usually: 1. He will do it behind her back, or 2. He will end up with so much pent up frustration that he'll either cheat or worse yet, end up with some kind of sexual deviant behavior. I hate to say it, but that's probably why some priests end up with odd sexual controversies.

Occasionally watching porn or casually appreciating other women should be harmless if you have a high level of trust. In fact, it's kind of an investment. If she really wants you to stay with her for the long haul, I would think she'd want you to be content, not resentful that she wants you to stop being a guy.
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my gf is totally okay with me watching it and using it. I usually go for it when she's not in the mood, so she is happy that it stops me from pestering her

she herself isn't very interested in it, but whatevs, dont really care about that.
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she doesn't care and even wants to watch it sometimes
but if i use it as a means for something more than watching, i better
she doesn't get mad out of jealousy, rather she's an addict and thinks that's one less time we could have

did it just get too personal in here?
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Originally Posted by Evader
I've had to abandon all forms of porn. My wife considers porn to be a form of cheating and times can cause stress in our relationship. Any suggestions on how I could get interest her.. I personally wouldn't mind watching a few movies with her. It's basically she feels that if i'm being turned on by another woman then i'm cheating.. anyone care to provide their insight on this little situation
Well, if I was married I would have the same problem. My gf and I DO have trust issues so she probably feels the same way. Same with the pictures...she wants me to be thinking about her only in that way, which is somewhat understandable. I don't know if she thinks its cheating but...she doesn't like me watching it.

As far as getting here insterested...give up on that idea. If a woman doesn't like it or has never been ineterested, she won't. Wierd thing is, my gf told me she gets turned on by watching two guys ....I was thinking what the f? She doesn't watch it EVER, but I guess she's seen it before? She was asking me about lesbians and I said it is a bit of a turn on...and she was like yeah its kind of a turn on for two guys for me....

So, maybe you can watch it when she's not around, and hide it REALLY WELL on the computer...
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I've been porn free for about a month now because I'm doing my best to respect her wishes. It's driving me crazy as shit though but for the sake of our marriage I'm just trying to make it work. It's not an addiction but like someone said in an earlier posts it's what guys do.. we tend to get turned on by other women. In no way would I want anything physical from another woman but I just don't think watching a movie or visiting a few sites once in a while should be considered a bad thing. For now I just keep asking my wife if we can go onto the Hun (thehun.net) in hopes she'll eventually give in
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What's with all the Penguins avs? Bandwagoners... You kids weren't even born in the bad awful years when Rick Kehoe and Randy Carlyle were their best players.
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Originally Posted by Evader
I've been porn free for about a month now because I'm doing my best to respect her wishes. It's driving me crazy as shit though but for the sake of our marriage I'm just trying to make it work. It's not an addiction but like someone said in an earlier posts it's what guys do.. we tend to get turned on by other women. In no way would I want anything physical from another woman but I just don't think watching a movie or visiting a few sites once in a while should be considered a bad thing. For now I just keep asking my wife if we can go onto the Hun (thehun.net) in hopes she'll eventually give in
Technically, I find that if you have a great sex life, you shouldn't really "need" the porn.

You sound like you just stopped smoking and you're happy that you've been 'smoke-free' for a month. LOL

Get the women interested.....if you cant beat them - join them.

Husband and I just downloaded some to watch later on....


About that guy on guy stuff.....
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Porn was more fun back in the 80s when I had to plan my attack. Back then I started out on dad's Super 8 porn movies. Getting them going required a lot of planning because I needed to allow time for setup and tear down of the projector without getting busted by mom coming home from work. Those fawking things didn't even have sound. I was so happy once dad graduated to VHS tapes.
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I wacked to my dad's 70's porn book....
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^^ I assumed you've already to just about every kind of porn there is.


Originally Posted by Mockenrue
What's with all the Penguins avs? Bandwagoners... You kids weren't even born in the bad awful years when Rick Kehoe and Randy Carlyle were their best players.

I've been a penguins fan since birth, yes I only was born in 1982 but I had the skates on since I was four
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A few weeks ago, my girlfriend asked if I wanted to watch pron while we did it.

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My girlfriend loves porn....
My wife....not so much.
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Originally Posted by Mockenrue
What's with all the Penguins avs? Bandwagoners... You kids weren't even born in the bad awful years when Rick Kehoe and Randy Carlyle were their best players.
I watched the pens of the early 1990's....thats early enough for be considering i was like...TEN at the time.....GO PENS!

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My girlfriend loves porn....
My wife....not so much.
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i watched some porn with my gf last night. she doesn't care, man and woman or women on women. she gets turned on or sometimes laughs at the scenes.
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loves it...
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will report back later.

however sometimes i get angry in a way..because I will NEVER have something THAT fucking sexy. damn.
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I thought about saying something funny like "the fleshlight loves pr0n" but I figured people would probably make fun of me.
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Originally Posted by fleshy
I thought about saying something funny like "the fleshlight loves pr0n" but I figured people would probably make fun of me.
sound reasoning


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