Stop having feelings period?

I really don't like developing feelings for girls. I don't want to have them.

I think I have issues, but I don't care.

 

Hmm if you ever find out how to do that let me know and we can write a book together and make millions of dollars ...jk but really...IMO I don't think there is a way to stop feeling altogether naturally. Emotions aren't something you can plan or create, they are spontaneous. Unless you're talking about a miracle drug that would turn you into a machine, feelings are inevitable. I feel you though, I wish I could stop developing feelings for people!

 

Is there a drug? I'll take it!

 

haha lets create it...theres a money maker!

 

Yo, it's mad hard.
I am not one for feelings, I really don't feel anything besides anger. But one girl put me through hell and I mean I felt like all emotional with her and shit. I mean I never was a pussy and cried about it but like I let my defenses down a lot. But bitches will do that shit to you. You just got to remember that you're money you know it. And when a bitch is kinda hurting me or shit I just think back to that other bitch who got me angry as fuck and anger always works for me, I feel good in an angry sense.

Ahh shit, but then that one girl I was talking about in the other thread, she is so quiet, so sweet, so down to earth awesome. That around her I see no reason to be angry or anything, I just want to lay down and be with her.
God damn, this shit sucks. At 20 I guess you just got to hit as many skins as possible and fucking forget everything else.

 

but it's that "forget everything else" part that's hard, haha.

I realize that I should "just" be "messing around" with girls, and not taking shit seriously... but wtf, i'm just not supposed to feel anything? ok, if I'm not supposed to be feeling anything, WHY THE FUCK AM I FEELING SHIT? What did I miss?! I dunno, give me a drug to numb me for a couple years, I'll be good to go...

 

The only drug is love, and I mean hot sweaty, doggy style, fucking when I say love.

I was all upset about this bitch last year, and I went on a random fucking spree, that helped a lot. Totally forgot about her. Also when you get busy with work and school that shit helps too.

But the random fucking spree is always the best option.

 

yeah, i'll have to try that bro, thanks

 

honestly... its not a learned thing IMO... Either you are COLD or you are not... I was like this when i was 16-19... then i started having feelings and I was through... tried going back but CANT!!!

Unless you are forced into it (ie getting your heart ripped out by some girl)... but then you really only become a women hater...

Its a tough one... honestly you are better off having feelings... the less you have the worse off you are... You will miss out on the "great" one when she comes along... yes you will get your heart broken and it sucks, but we all hope the outcome is worth it!

 

You know, I wish I knew. I dated this girl for a while during the summer (in August) and I still think about her, especially when I am dating other women. She almost literally haunts me. When we were together, everything was right, you know that feeling right? I had it once before with this girl way back in high school, who dogged me...so maybe I should have known better, but this girl just fucking blew me off. After she was the one that initiated the two of us dating. That still plays hell with my ego. Its like I want her so bad, and I am fairly sure that she is available, but I really don't want to go back and beg, and I would not, but again, with her it just felt so right.

I've always been this way though, since I started dating. Anyone got tips on how to become a cold, heartless bastard? It seems that most women my age like that anyway.

 

How old are you?

 

22, and its not like I am in a hurry to ger married or anything (quite the contrary) but I felt a connection with her like I have not felt in a long time, and I have not felt since.

[/sappy]

 

i'm 21, we're too young... girls our age generally don't like us young men (18-24)... revenge is sweet once we hit our late 20's, then WE get to play with these girls' emotions

 

lol, guess so, Imma enjoy that shit...(yes I do bear grudges) I guess its time to just hit the frat scene

 

damn haha no wonder I'm always getting screwed over!

 

u shit! ur problem is u dun hang out with fellow acura clers..if you did, we would fix ur problem by hookin u up with mad women..now if there are any cool a-cler's around here, please hook both of us up nah but really come hang out u ho. i see u once and then u dissappear eh!

 

huh?

 

English please...

 

I used to have feelings, but my last 2 relationships put me through hell, so now I'm kinda immune and hate the female sex. I'm sure they will come back eventually.

 

word, been there felt that shit. Just like I said you gotta just fuck a bunch to get over that shit. Then try and find a good one. It's mad hard to find a good girl. It's easy to get laid.

 

Tips?

 

I've said this in other posts... stop listening to DMB

 

And I reply again, When I'm on a pub crawl, noone knows what I listen to. I usually pick some rocking stuff on the box, topped off with some Freebird But more often than not there is a live band.

 

You have to reach a point where caring is outweighed by being hurt and upset.

I reached that point years ago.. so its easy for me. Try to envision everyone as sucking leeches out to get you, and its pretty easy not to develop feelings.
everyone uses everyone else. just look at people like this (and i believe someone on the board said this too). take a look at them, sum up their good values and their bad values. if the bad outweights the good, drop them.
if the good outweights the bad stick with them.

kind of like a computer.. stick with them until the performance lacks and your needs outweight their usefulness

 

I should be long past that point...slow learner I guess

 

haha, these feelings that i had when i posted this garbage have already subsided.