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Old 06-23-2008, 04:05 PM
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Hmm What Should I Do?

Ok so my ex and I are supposto go to EDC (Electric Daisy Carnival) this weekend in LA. But some shit happened yesterday that helllllllllah pissed me off. I dont know if Im trippen or what. U tell me

So we went to a mutual friends bday/bbq and these bitches showed up who I don't like for a few reasons.
1. One of them was there with their little snobby ass whitewashed homegirls at the club and tried to run up on me n 2 other homegirls... 3 vs 8 and WE got kicked out.
2. Another one of them has funk wid my close homegirl and I would ride for her as she would do the same
3. It was hot as fuck the heat was gettin to me ahahah

So I did not wanna disrespect the homeboy cuz it was his birthday and all but those stupid bitches kept turning back and tryin to act all cute wid my ex.
We were talkin and bitch turned around n looked but we aint even fuckin talkin to her. So I was gettin sooooo irritated and pissed off and was like "WHAT THE FUCK" started talkin mad shit sayin "Ima deck some bitch in the face Im gettin pissed off" and my ex was saying No calm down blah blah.
Den I said out loud that my homegirls were comin and it was gonna be crackin!
After all the bullshit and shit talking, my ex still talked to them and said bye.

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!! I got so pissed off felt disrespected and told him off when his friend dropped us back at his ride cuz I didnt wanna be drama in front of his homies. I told him "That was fuckin disrespectful esp. when u I let it be known that I don't like those bitches. Do u know who the fuck u with?"
And to top it off hes been acting like a douche hanging up in my face, that is my number one pet peeve its sooooo fuckin rude!

BLAH BLAH BLAH drama drama told him off cried my eyes out once again
Its still fuckin drama ever since we broke up and we broke up over the dumbest shit

SOOOOOOOOOOOO heres the thing, he paid for my ticket for everything and I reallly wanted to go weekend. But I told him last night that I was done with him and Im over it. It gets to that point where after all the tears, I stopped really giving a fuck. That part of me who cared is DEAD.

BUT he still tried to text me still tryin to be drama and my dumbass picked up his fone call cuz we leave the phone on wen we go to sleep ( yea i know cheezy corny)

I havent really talked to him been ignoring him.. He said he would give me the ticket so I can go with whoever but i dont want him to think Im using him and shit cuz it aint fuckin like that so I said nah.

So after all the bullshit, I feel like being a bitch now and treat him like shit. I know tricks are for kids but Im still pissed off and mad bcuz of the shit he says to me it fuckin hurts.

So the question is: Should I hang in there and go with him and "hope" that he will be better or should I just drop him? I am gettin tired of it though cuz Ima baby sometimes n get emotional well arent all girls.. I really wanted to go thoughhhh cuz we made plans to go with our close mutual friends.. What should I do?!?! hahhaha
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I'm getting to old to read shit like this.

What I could get from what you wrote is that you and your "homeboy" are "trippin" over some "bitches."

At the end of the day, if you guys are still friends, you should be able to just move pass all that crap and just go. Personally, I would give him a call and just deal with it now. No use being a "punk ass bitch" yourself.
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I am too old to read shit like this.
Fixt...
Originally Posted by dom
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Mizouse??
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I stopped after 3 or 4 homegirls and homeboys.
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:54 PM
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Come on, this is fake right? 7 posts and then this? Really, is this some mod? Darksith's stalker chick? Did water-s leave his computer on and the "cousins" got to it?

Whoever it is, you didn't get me, I'm not fooled, no way anyone with more than two years of high school under their belt wrote this.
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Old 06-23-2008, 05:25 PM
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This post is why i come to D&R. The shit is so "Out in left field" and the replies keep me laughing and comming back for more.

But seriously.. This aint "Da Hood" and some of our more "ethnically challended" homies dont/wont understand what u said. Thanks you and come again!
Old 06-23-2008, 05:42 PM
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Sorry, but I gave up trying to translate after paragraph #2.
Old 06-23-2008, 05:51 PM
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is it racist of me or anyone to call you ghetto when you said "whitewashed"??????
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Originally Posted by LuvMyTSX
Sorry, but I gave up trying to translate after paragraph #2.
Translation??? I think i got one...i think....


She's didnt like some girls
They came to her boyfriend's party
They were chatting it up with her boyfriend
She went nuts, at her boyfriends party because of that
She says she gonna smack a "bitch"
She states that her gang is coming
Her boyfriend diffuses the situation
They break up cuz she's, well, got anger management issues
Her now ex had bought a ticket to D-watever
Her now ex wants to give her to other ticket so she may go with whomever
Shes considering taking the other ticket, but wants our approval first.

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Old 06-23-2008, 05:55 PM
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Can I please get an English translation?
Old 06-23-2008, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I'm getting to old to read shit like this.

What I could get from what you wrote is that you and your "homeboy" are "trippin" over some "bitches."

At the end of the day, if you guys are still friends, you should be able to just move pass all that crap and just go. Personally, I would give him a call and just deal with it now. No use being a "punk ass bitch" yourself.
You read this?
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Originally Posted by ankur914
is it racist of me or anyone to call you ghetto when you said "whitewashed"??????
Is that like stone washed?
Old 06-23-2008, 08:25 PM
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you are a girl?
Old 06-23-2008, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
You read this?
I was bored.

I did check www.babblefish.com first for the "Retard to English" translator, but alas, there was none.
Old 06-23-2008, 10:55 PM
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I think this would be appropriate.

Old 06-23-2008, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I was bored.

I did check www.babblefish.com first for the "Retard to English" translator, but alas, there was none.

Babblefish...haven't heard that in ages. Good one.
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Originally Posted by ankur914
Translation??? I think i got one...i think....


She's didnt like some girls
They came to her boyfriend's party
They were chatting it up with her boyfriend
She went nuts, at her boyfriends party because of that
She says she gonna smack a "bitch"
She states that her gang is coming
Her boyfriend diffuses the situation
They break up cuz she's, well, got anger management issues
Her now ex had bought a ticket to D-watever
Her now ex wants to give her to other ticket so she may go with whomever
Shes considering taking the other ticket, but wants our approval first.
You're good. But I can't believe this is a real question. fo sho.
Old 06-24-2008, 12:36 AM
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whyd you guys break up? why you still chilling with your eX?
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
whyd you guys break up?
Communication problems seem to be the obvious reason.
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Holy Bi-Polar Hoodrat Batman... was that english?

The only thing that should feel disrespected here is the english language.
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Originally Posted by JBlueCLS6

The only thing that should feel disrespected here is the english language.

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To answer your question, I'd let him go and move on. You said yourself he treats you bad and disrepects you. Why would you stay?
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wow someone is all G'd out. Why dont you bust a cap in yo hommys ass and then go slap some skank hos. Is that the definition on American, or English language? hahaha
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Originally Posted by babyvoriginal
I know tricks are for kids
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Yeah I have no clue either, but after reading it twice, I figured out OP was a girl. I'll give it a shot cause I'm bored and I'm testing my understanding of ebonics.

Originally Posted by babyvoriginal
So we went to a mutual friends bday/bbq and these bitches showed up who I don't like for a few reasons.
1. One of them was there with their little snobby ass whitewashed homegirls at the club and tried to run up on me n 2 other homegirls... 3 vs 8 and WE got kicked out.
2. Another one of them has funk wid my close homegirl and I would ride for her as she would do the same
3. It was hot as fuck the heat was gettin to me ahahah

OP and ex-bf went to mutual friends birthday bbq.
Girls show up that OP dislike for the following reasons:

1. One of the girls [B#1] and her friends confronted OP at a club.
B#1's crew outnumbered and OP's 8 vs 3.
OP's crew was kicked out at club.
2. One of the girls [B#2] has issues with OP's friend who is a girl, not to be confused with g/f [lesbian].

I need help with the "OP would ride for her as she would do the same" This sounds like girl on girl action here.

3. It is way too hot and OP is hot and bothered. Apparently OP dislikes girls when she is hot and bothered. For a straight girl this makes sense


Originally Posted by babyvoriginal
So I did not wanna disrespect the homeboy cuz it was his birthday and all but those stupid bitches kept turning back and tryin to act all cute wid my ex.
We were talkin and bitch turned around n looked but we aint even fuckin talkin to her. So I was gettin sooooo irritated and pissed off and was like "WHAT THE FUCK" started talkin mad shit sayin "Ima deck some bitch in the face Im gettin pissed off" and my ex was saying No calm down blah blah.
Den I said out loud that my homegirls were comin and it was gonna be crackin!
After all the bullshit and shit talking, my ex still talked to them and said bye.
OP was trying to be civil but [one of the B*] was flirting with OP's ex-bf.
OP and ex-bf were talking but [one of the B*] turned around and engaged OP and ex-bf.
OP cusses out [one of the B*] and tries to intimidate speaking verbal ebonics instead of typing it.
Ex-bf says 'relax, ebonics will not solve any problems'
OP says her [girl gang] is coming and there's going to be a rumble.
[I don't know what happened, apparently nothing??]
OP's ex-bf continued to talk to [one or more of the B*] in hope of getting laid. <-- added that myself [pat myself on back].


Originally Posted by babyvoriginal
WHAT THE FUCK!!!!! I got so pissed off felt disrespected and told him off when his friend dropped us back at his ride cuz I didnt wanna be drama in front of his homies. I told him "That was fuckin disrespectful esp. when u I let it be known that I don't like those bitches. Do u know who the fuck u with?"
And to top it off hes been acting like a douche hanging up in my face, that is my number one pet peeve its sooooo fuckin rude!

BLAH BLAH BLAH drama drama told him off cried my eyes out once again
Its still fuckin drama ever since we broke up and we broke up over the dumbest shit
OP is whining and complaining over ex. OP is angry and is sad at the same time. OP is a typical girl, no offense.


Originally Posted by babyvoriginal
SOOOOOOOOOOOO heres the thing, he paid for my ticket for everything and I reallly wanted to go weekend. But I told him last night that I was done with him and Im over it. It gets to that point where after all the tears, I stopped really giving a fuck. That part of me who cared is DEAD.

BUT he still tried to text me still tryin to be drama and my dumbass picked up his fone call cuz we leave the phone on wen we go to sleep ( yea i know cheezy corny)

I havent really talked to him been ignoring him.. He said he would give me the ticket so I can go with whoever but i dont want him to think Im using him and shit cuz it aint fuckin like that so I said nah.

So after all the bullshit, I feel like being a bitch now and treat him like shit. I know tricks are for kids but Im still pissed off and mad bcuz of the shit he says to me it fuckin hurts.

So the question is: Should I hang in there and go with him and "hope" that he will be better or should I just drop him? I am gettin tired of it though cuz Ima baby sometimes n get emotional well arent all girls.. I really wanted to go thoughhhh cuz we made plans to go with our close mutual friends.. What should I do?!?! hahhaha
ex-bf purchased tickets for himself and OP to go to a carnival, EDC.
OP is still mad at ex-bf and wants to play TRIX with him. [OP: Are these the kinds that cost $$?]
OP wants to know whether she should go with ex-bf to carnival.




..My thoughts..
Why are you treating your ex. as your bf? Isn't the "ex" there for a reason? Move-on.

..My thoughts about moving on..
Don't put out (physically) until you can be independent. Jealousy will kill all relationships.


..Note to self..
Do not read any more ebonics.
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^Roflcopter! Thanks for clearing up my headache from reading the OP's original post
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yo dis thread got mah head hurtin'. too many haterz in dis bitch babyv, but don't worry, I got yo back showty.

Aks dees hure haters why they be trippin
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Wha?
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Originally Posted by meaphool
Yeah I have no clue either, but after reading it twice, I figured out OP was a girl.
Took me 2 trys as well.
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yea I did a double take after reading the first few lines; I thought OP was either :ghey: or :female:

or a shim
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[ghetto]
fo-sho... fo getz dis dude n move 2 da next hommie cuz...
[/ghetto]

Hope this helps with your situation and the decision you make...


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