hmm lots on the mind.
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In a perfect world, I believe that people should be allowed to have their insecurities; BUT they should be aware of them, and make a conscious effort to keep them in check, so their personalities and daily interactions aren't ruled by them. It sounds like your girl is letting her insecurities run roughshod over your relationship. It's simply not healthy for either of you to allow it to continue.
Nip it in the bud, or move on.
Nip it in the bud, or move on.
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i've read the whole thread.
All i can say is i agree with most of the ppl here that say you're GF should learn to accept you for who you are and what friends you have, if you're not happy with her and haven't been for awhile, move on. No point in wasting more time in a relationship when you are thinking this way.
I know i am the jealous type aswell, but if you're friend's been around the whole time you've been going out and you've told you're GF that you're only gonna be friends with the girl, then she should accept it.
I've neglected my friends cuz of either having a GF or she didn't like those particular friends, looking back, i should have never let that happen. Friends are there for you forever, especially childhood/bestfriends, never let a woman (especially one that you are not totally content with) try and make you change that
Edit:^
to exactly what wndrlst said
All i can say is i agree with most of the ppl here that say you're GF should learn to accept you for who you are and what friends you have, if you're not happy with her and haven't been for awhile, move on. No point in wasting more time in a relationship when you are thinking this way.
I know i am the jealous type aswell, but if you're friend's been around the whole time you've been going out and you've told you're GF that you're only gonna be friends with the girl, then she should accept it.
I've neglected my friends cuz of either having a GF or she didn't like those particular friends, looking back, i should have never let that happen. Friends are there for you forever, especially childhood/bestfriends, never let a woman (especially one that you are not totally content with) try and make you change that
Edit:^
to exactly what wndrlst said
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Very well put and this is what I am thinking of. We have been together just about 3 years ( April) so it will make it a lot harder to do anything. Her whole family adores me just as my whole family adores her. So either way if I do decide to do anything it will be very difficult.
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These colors don't run
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Thank guys I apperciate everyones input on this, took me awhile to decide if I wanted to post on here. Because of other threads I've seen people just being kind of rude about it like "just fuck her and leave" and stuff like that. That's not the type of answers I wanted, but I do like the way you all are helping me with this issue I am having and highly thankful.
I just can't wait to get my TL-S so I can feel more at home. Been looking for two weeks
I just can't wait to get my TL-S so I can feel more at home. Been looking for two weeks
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From: San Diego, CA/Pittsburgh,PA
Thank guys I apperciate everyones input on this, took me awhile to decide if I wanted to post on here. Because of other threads I've seen people just being kind of rude about it like "just fuck her and leave" and stuff like that. That's not the type of answers I wanted, but I do like the way you all are helping me with this issue I am having and highly thankful.
I just can't wait to get my TL-S so I can feel more at home. Been looking for two weeks
I just can't wait to get my TL-S so I can feel more at home. Been looking for two weeks
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/csd/cto/1058801725.html
^check it out I know its not a TL-s but this one is very unique cause it has both the 6-speed and navi.
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These colors don't run
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hhah I don't want stick:surrender I'll surrender now to wanting auto hhaato old i want an 07 just got rid of an 03 Civic so I want something newer.
and this is an OFF TOPIC section NOT TL! SO
I'd cut off the friend and if things don't improve, dump the GF.
That's just too much bullshit to be dealing with.
You friend Natasha, rejected you initially and then you settled for being friends with her, while still "having feelings". been there, done that.
Now she's single handedly sabotaging your relationship with a woman that is actually attraced to you.
Your GF sounds like she has trust issues and is controlling. Both of which are big red flags IMO. So see if cutting off Natasha helps this situation. if not, dump her.
That's just too much bullshit to be dealing with.
You friend Natasha, rejected you initially and then you settled for being friends with her, while still "having feelings". been there, done that.
Now she's single handedly sabotaging your relationship with a woman that is actually attraced to you.Your GF sounds like she has trust issues and is controlling. Both of which are big red flags IMO. So see if cutting off Natasha helps this situation. if not, dump her.
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