Herpes question
10-25-2007, 09:33 AM
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Herpes question
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A friend of my gfs contracted herpes from her ex bf, who cheated on her with another girl and apperently thats how he got it. this dumb ass chick had breakup sex with the ex and now she has gential herpes. He denies that she got it from him and claims he got it from her. he doesnt wanna take any responsibility for it. is there any way to prove that it was in fact contracted from him? is there any legal action she can take?
i know theres a few doctors and lawyers on this board so any advice is very helpful at this moment.
A friend of my gfs contracted herpes from her ex bf, who cheated on her with another girl and apperently thats how he got it. this dumb ass chick had breakup sex with the ex and now she has gential herpes. He denies that she got it from him and claims he got it from her. he doesnt wanna take any responsibility for it. is there any way to prove that it was in fact contracted from him? is there any legal action she can take?
i know theres a few doctors and lawyers on this board so any advice is very helpful at this moment.
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10-25-2007, 09:39 AM
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I think the only recourse she would have would be if she could PROVE that he knew before he slept with her and knowingly infected her with it....
he could have just as easily not known about being infected... it's a tough thing to prove
he could have just as easily not known about being infected... it's a tough thing to prove
10-25-2007, 09:45 AM
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she already went to the doctors and they checked the time difference from the last vist and this one. she didnt have it the last time and it falls into the time span where he cheated and they had sex. she didnt sleep with anyone else except for him that one time within that month
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10-25-2007, 10:13 AM
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It's a toughee but like tons of people out there in the 18-25 demographic ... she's now in that not-exclusive-at-all club of Valtrex subscribers. I know hindsight is 20/20 but condoms, condoms, condoms.
There's really no excuses.
Having watched many L&O episodes, I doubt legal recourse can be pursued here. She can always do something like ...
http://stdallstars.blogspot.com/
There's really no excuses.
Having watched many L&O episodes, I doubt legal recourse can be pursued here. She can always do something like ...
http://stdallstars.blogspot.com/
10-25-2007, 10:18 AM
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If you guys met someone and really hit it off; became really good friends and it led to more; girl had a million great attributes except for the herp, would you continue the relationship? Purely hypothetical. ( ; Sorry to get off topic...
10-25-2007, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
Just get your prescription to valtrex and live a happy life. Theres no way she can prove you gave it to her.
LMFAO!!!!
10-25-2007, 10:20 AM
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10-25-2007, 10:25 AM
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It's not worth her trying to get him to take responsibility for it. It's not going to go away. She just needs to be responsible and get suppression meds. Be aware of when she has a flare up and try not to spread it to anyone.
And for the record, there are a ton of people that have herpes and control it. Sometimes, they don't have out-breaks for years at a time.
And for the record, there are a ton of people that have herpes and control it. Sometimes, they don't have out-breaks for years at a time.
10-25-2007, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted by swclown
If you guys met someone and really hit it off; became really good friends and it led to more; girl had a million great attributes except for the herp, would you continue the relationship? Purely hypothetical. ( ; Sorry to get off topic...
Whats this about Alba??
10-25-2007, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted by taz98spin
Why is your GF telling you that her "friend" got herpes???? 
10-25-2007, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by taz98spin
Why is your GF telling you that her "friend" got herpes????
cause that was a potential 3some......there goes that idea
as for SWClowns question.....
on second thought no, not worth the risk
10-25-2007, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted by swclown
If you guys met someone and really hit it off; became really good friends and it led to more; girl had a million great attributes except for the herp, would you continue the relationship? Purely hypothetical. ( ; Sorry to get off topic...
10-25-2007, 11:21 AM
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even with a condom theres still the risk of contracting herpes...its one of the STI's that you can still contract with protection since it spreads around the genital area...so unless you cover up that whole area...like a pair of latex underwear...your still at high risk...
10-25-2007, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
even with a condom theres still the risk of contracting herpes...its one of the STI's that you can still contract with protection since it spreads around the genital area...so unless you cover up that whole area...like a pair of latex underwear...your still at high risk...
10-25-2007, 11:29 AM
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I think rev would get turned on by that!
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10-25-2007, 11:33 AM
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Herpes is such a funny word...it always makes me 
when I hear it.
But, sorry...this is no laughing matter. Carry on, please.
when I hear it. But, sorry...this is no laughing matter. Carry on, please.
10-25-2007, 11:42 AM
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What's wrong with that? 
Originally Posted by S1CK TypeS
cause that was a potential 3some......there goes that idea
Are you sure your gf is just making it up, so you guys don't have a threesome?
10-25-2007, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
even with a condom theres still the risk of contracting herpes...its one of the STI's that you can still contract with protection since it spreads around the genital area...so unless you cover up that whole area...like a pair of latex underwear...your still at high risk...
You can contract turbo charged 4 cylinders???
10-25-2007, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
legal action? lol
10-25-2007, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted by taz98spin
If you have herpes, do you want your friends telling everybody???
10-25-2007, 12:17 PM
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10-25-2007, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
No. But it's not like she took out a billboard, she told her boyfriend....then he posted it on the internet....OK Taz, I see your point.
10-25-2007, 12:31 PM
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how effective is valtrex and other suppresive drugs?
In for a dime in for a dollar, bare back it buddy. Instead of asking how good a suppressive drug is might as well test it out yourself and report back.