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Old 10-27-2003, 06:41 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
yes im a kid. you caught me. im 12.

because we all know that restraining orders have stopped every person theyve been used against.

yea lets think about it. a MARRIED MAN that has KIDS?
he obviously didnt give a fuck about them, and he obviously has no qualms about losing his job or being reprimanded for licking her.
restraining orders DO WORK, the reason so much crap happens, is cause people dont USE them when they are supposed to.

married and has kids??? what? 90% of husbands wanna cheat on their wives, so i guess 90% of husbands also nothing to lose with respect to being charged with a criminal offence??

silvia, the more you post, the dumber you get...just stop
Old 10-27-2003, 06:44 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO


restraining orders worked real well for these women:
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/...ho_really.html
SO YOUR SAYING BECAUSE IT DIDNT WORK FOR 2 WOMAN, IT WONT EVER WORK? THAT MEANS YOU RESORT TO GETTING MANAGEMENT TO PROTECT YOUR LIFE?

dont dig up some dumb link, because restraining orders work MORE often then they dont

btw, look at the link too, read it, the instances are DIFFERENT, those women were in relationships/married
Old 10-27-2003, 06:44 AM
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so your saying that EVERY person that has been issued a restraining order has listened to it?


Im not saying getting a restraining order is a BAD idea. im just saying, if hes severely pissed off enough that he just lost his family and probably his job, who do you think hes going to go after?
Old 10-27-2003, 06:46 AM
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Originally posted by amirsafdari

dont dig up some dumb link, because restraining orders work MORE often then they dont
exactly, but there is the chance that they dont work. If he intends on hurting her, then having a restraining order or not probably wont affect his decision, because either way hell have to deal with the law correct?
Old 10-27-2003, 06:46 AM
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Originally posted by amirsafdari
restraining orders DO WORK, the reason so much crap happens, is cause people dont USE them when they are supposed to.

married and has kids??? what? 90% of husbands wanna cheat on their wives, so i guess 90% of husbands also nothing to lose with respect to being charged with a criminal offence??

silvia, the more you post, the dumber you get...just stop
Hurting somebody is still illegal, wheter u have a restraining order or not. If he wants to do it, he is still going to do it if the paper is there or not.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
so your saying that EVERY person that has been issued a restraining order has listened to it?


Im not saying getting a restraining order is a BAD idea. im just saying, if hes severely pissed off enough that he just lost his family and probably his job, who do you think hes going to go after?
forget it, your too dumb to understand. after all this, your still asking...damn


good luck beth.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:47 AM
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they were rhetorical questions.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:48 AM
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Aight both of you shuttup, ur both looking dumb. Ya both have good points, w/e,

The point is, she NEEDS to get a restraining order AND a pistola.

So, if he doest pay attention to the retraining order and comes after her, she can take care of his ass.


can't we al just get along?
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
exactly, but there is the chance that they dont work. If he intends on hurting her, then having a restraining order or not probably wont affect his decision, because either way hell have to deal with the law correct?
The other might also piss him off more. If he basically stop harrassing her, I think she don't need to do it. Because this dude seems to be a litte bit .
Old 10-27-2003, 06:50 AM
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Hey I am all for her getting a restraining order, I just dont think she should rely on JUST that. I think Amir is getting way too angry over it, and needs to chill, im not attacking Amir as a person, he has good points.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:52 AM
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Originally posted by fusionnv
Hurting somebody is still illegal, wheter u have a restraining order or not. If he wants to do it, he is still going to do it if the paper is there or not.
thats correct, after a restraining order, he wont want to. Thats the point. Especially after messing things up with his family, you would want him to know you mean business.

I'm speaking from experience, with friends, people i know, people that work ...etc

Restraining orders are a lot more intimidating than you think
Old 10-27-2003, 06:53 AM
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I think this guy's problems kinda got bigger after she sent the emails to the wife. He might have the attitude towards her but it seems like he's a coward.. and probably won't do anything "crazy". But who knows.
The restraining order is a bit much at this point, imo. It's not like he's stalking her. The ear lick was way over the line, but if I read this right, there's been nothing since.. ?
Let it be for a while.. Don't get in the middle of that domestic catfight. The wife will give him way more whoop-ass than the restraining order will.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:54 AM
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Ok Amir, i agree, I respect that. Im not disagreeing with you for her to get one. While it is intimidating, neither you nor I know who this man is or what he is capable of. You said that if anything happens to her its her fault for not getting a lawyer. I was just trying to point out, that if this guy is insane enough, a restraining order wont do shit, and its not beth's fault.

I wasnt trying to say you were dumb or stupid for saying she needed a lawyer.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:55 AM
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Originally posted by PavDog
The wife will give him way more whoop-ass than the restraining order will.
Hmmm...pay the wife to kick his ass a second time, I'm sure she'd be up to it. :P
Old 10-27-2003, 07:08 AM
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i'm with amir on this one. can't be too carefull. but chill a little bro
Old 10-27-2003, 07:24 AM
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Originally posted by swclown
i'm with amir on this one. can't be too carefull. but chill a little bro
I think right now Miss iVTEC should just wait on doing anymore. I not sure from readings, but it looks like he hasn't done anything since management "took care of it". It seems like she is pretty safe at work where she is not alone or near him. Don't want to keep bombing him with stuff because if u start taking legal action when he already back down, the dude might feel that u are trying to ruin his life etc etc. That wat goes on in screwy people's heads.
Old 10-27-2003, 10:04 AM
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Old 10-27-2003, 06:01 PM
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and not everyone can afford a lawyer either
Old 10-27-2003, 06:28 PM
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I was going to say that too but then i would probably be asked if i changed my diaper and that im so stupid i sling shit.
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do you even need a lawyer to get a restaining order? can't she just go to the police station?
Old 10-27-2003, 06:37 PM
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U don't need a restraining order. You don't have a big brother, or some guy friends or maybe your dad knows someone (u get the idea) to "talk" to this dude? The 3 "Rs" should be offered.


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Not sure.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by 1SICKLEX
U don't need a restraining order. You don't have a big brother, or some guy friends or maybe your dad knows someone (u get the idea) to "talk" to this dude? The 3 "Rs" should be offered.


Dr. Love-SICK
Im sure John could keep him from ever going near her again if it came down to it.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:41 PM
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Damn, I'm gone a lil while from this forum and no good answers.

Take a pic of the dude and use it as blackmail (if u see me again, I'm sending this to your wife/job/gym etc).

Key "cheater" or "unfaithful" in the car.

Put a ad in the childs school with the dads face on it for a dating service.

I AM GIVING FREE ADVICE HERE.

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Old 10-27-2003, 06:44 PM
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the wife already knows.
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Sow his asshole closed and keep feeding him and feeding him and feeding him.
Old 10-27-2003, 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by 1SICKLEX
Sow his asshole closed and keep feeding him and feeding him and feeding him.
HAHAHAHAHAHAH

LOLOLOL

Now thats some funny shit.

Can they do that in the backseat of your GS?
Old 10-27-2003, 07:22 PM
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Can they do that in the backseat of your GS
Huh?
Old 10-27-2003, 08:51 PM
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Originally posted by 1SICKLEX
Sow his asshole closed and keep feeding him and feeding him and feeding him.
method man ownz joo
Old 10-28-2003, 02:37 PM
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Any updates with this one?
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i dont know i havent spoken with her since monday morning
Old 10-28-2003, 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i dont know i havent spoken with her since monday morning
Well then dont you think you need to fucking get on that???





































Old 10-28-2003, 02:50 PM
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lol ok ok ill go text her.
Old 10-28-2003, 02:54 PM
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She said HR must have scared the shit out of him cause he wont even look in her direction.
Old 10-28-2003, 03:03 PM
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nice, and i didnt mean you had run right out and get the 411, i was only kidding, but thanks.
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lol she was only a text message away.
Old 10-30-2003, 12:58 PM
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lol she was only a text message away.
Nice it looks like problem solved. Too bad we didn't get to enact plan B.
Old 10-30-2003, 02:39 PM
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Nice it looks like problem solved. Too bad we didn't get to enact plan B.
That would have been fun..I was ready to book a flight...
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That would have been fun..I was ready to book a flight...
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