HELP! Scary Married Man Wants Affair With Me!
10-22-2003, 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
... But its a nice telemarketer filter...you know.
... But its a nice telemarketer filter...you know.
If someone hesitates while trying to pronounce my name on the phone, I know the person doesn't know me, and get all angry at them on the phone. I'm a miserable prick most of the time, too.
10-22-2003, 04:01 PM
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What was someone saying about http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showt...hreadid=117921 this?
10-22-2003, 04:04 PM
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for the record beth i didnt hijack this.
with that said.
telemarketers call beths house all the time. i picked up and used this really scary butch lesbian breathy voice, and i was hhhhelllooo?
the guy instantly stammered and was like is uh beth <name> there?
i was like " uhghhhh hold on..." and then i breathed heavily into the phone for a while.
then i was like "noooooo"
he hung up
with that said.
telemarketers call beths house all the time. i picked up and used this really scary butch lesbian breathy voice, and i was hhhhelllooo?
the guy instantly stammered and was like is uh beth <name> there?
i was like " uhghhhh hold on..." and then i breathed heavily into the phone for a while.
then i was like "noooooo"
he hung up
10-22-2003, 04:22 PM
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anywho. latest news from beth. when he tried to lick her ear she punched the shit out of his arm.
i wouldve personally gone for the face or the balls. whatever was closer.
i wouldve personally gone for the face or the balls. whatever was closer.
10-22-2003, 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
I wouldnt want to make ross (rr32) angry, he looks like he could be very scary angry
I wouldnt want to make ross (rr32) angry, he looks like he could be very scary angry
do i need to lay the smack down?
10-22-2003, 04:39 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Beth, um...this guy needs his ass beat...and as to where the nice guys are
But women around here don't want nice normal guys...they like the kinda guy that is hitting on you or the drug pusher, or jobless douche bag. 
...get Katana, RR32, and Minch to make the guy :busted: or
or 
yourself...and then say he got grabastic on ya.
Beth, um...this guy needs his ass beat...and as to where the nice guys are
But women around here don't want nice normal guys...they like the kinda guy that is hitting on you or the drug pusher, or jobless douche bag. ...get Katana, RR32, and Minch to make the guy :busted: or
or yourself...and then say he got grabastic on ya.
Say the word and I'm on the way.....
10-22-2003, 05:57 PM
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alimony was used for back in the day when women were just housewives and had no job skills. when the man left they were unable to provide for themselves and got alimony.
I dont think too many women have that probem today
I dont think too many women have that probem today
10-22-2003, 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by zeroday
that guy needs a permanent dirt nap.
that guy needs a permanent dirt nap.
Okay so I'm sitting at my desk today next to Cathi. He comes over to Cathi's desk and asks her a question. Then he says "Beth I have to ask you a question.." I turn around to see what he's talking about and he leans forward and LICKS MY FUCKING EARLOBE!! WTF!! So I just swing a right hook right into his damn arm. I was so shocked. He just walked away and didn't say anything. My manager was in a two-hour meeting (of course), so as soon as he came out we went in the conference room and I showed him the emails.
He immediately called my HR rep. I went and talked to her and she took my version of the story. She says that since he physically touched me it can get really serious. She's going to talk to him tomorrow while I'm not there. I won't see him again until Monday.
The only thing I'm scared about is his reaction. He has no clue I went to HR today. I don't want him to freak out or something and follow me home from work. Today at my desk I literally tensed up every time he walked by. I hate this.......what if he goes psycho?
10-22-2003, 11:03 PM
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Like i said be prepared to get a restraining order.
Other then that, the emails alone should be enough for any action to be looked into, its bullshit if they said its wasnt untill he physically touched you.
You just have to wait and see. If your company decides to not do antyhing about it, then you need to look them in the eye and say fine, then maybe a personal lawyer will and walk away. They come after and then you are in control from there.
Other then that, the emails alone should be enough for any action to be looked into, its bullshit if they said its wasnt untill he physically touched you.
You just have to wait and see. If your company decides to not do antyhing about it, then you need to look them in the eye and say fine, then maybe a personal lawyer will and walk away. They come after and then you are in control from there.
10-22-2003, 11:58 PM
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id be pissed off that the company cant do anything about the email just because it happened off work hours, i mean, arent they arriving your company email account? its still sexual harassment no matter what they say. this creepy guy needs to be taken out of the workplace before he scares some poor girl into sleeping with him
10-23-2003, 06:32 AM
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If he goes psycho...start packing...if you don't want to carry a gun...then get mace and/or a taser.
And remember the groin...always go for the groin...if you can't then go for the eyes or adam's apple. Or you could always call his wife
"Hi this is Beth, is Steve there?"
"Beth?"
"Yeah, Steve's girlfriend, are you his roommate he was telling me about? Can I talk to him please?"
D-I-V-O-R-C-E
And remember the groin...always go for the groin...if you can't then go for the eyes or adam's apple. Or you could always call his wife
"Hi this is Beth, is Steve there?"
"Beth?"
"Yeah, Steve's girlfriend, are you his roommate he was telling me about? Can I talk to him please?"
D-I-V-O-R-C-E
10-23-2003, 06:52 AM
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And this guy is married? You sure? See what happens with your work. They are legally responsable here to provide you with a safe workplace. If the guy goes nuts call the cops. Most states require a police report(or several) before they will give a restraining order out. Most don't do anything anyway. If he becomes unstable after this best thing to do is ask a male friend who he never saw to pay him a visit one dark night, or early morning. If all else fails, I'd go right over to his wife & talk to her. Afterall you didn't do anything so she shouldn't be mad at you.
10-23-2003, 06:59 AM
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i find it hard to believe the company can't do anything simply b/c it was after hours...with my company, we can't surf Ebay or Hotmail at ANY time, day or night, b/c we're using the company's servers, hence the company is responsible
with that company's rationale, any employee can theoretically send death threats to a million people in the middle of the night, and the company doesn't have to do anything about it b/c it was after hours
with that company's rationale, any employee can theoretically send death threats to a million people in the middle of the night, and the company doesn't have to do anything about it b/c it was after hours
10-23-2003, 07:08 AM
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Blackbird baby..
The ear licking thing was the last straw. It's now "battery".. and depending how strongly you feel about it, I'd consider filling out a police report. It's pretty obvious work isn't going to help you with this.
Unfortunately, this is what I was talking about before with trying to handle things "normally" at first. Cuz most of the time it hurts the accuser as much as the one making advances. Obviously it depends on the co, but it seems like they're trying to steer clear of it.
Anyhow, if he does it again, def. call the cops. It's that simple. If you've tried to tell him nicely, then not so nicely, then he licks you (bodily fluids?!?! wtf), I wouldn't hesitate to call the cops. You really don't know what he'll do next.
And if this escalates you will probably have to find new employment--if for no other reason this guy won't be able to find & harass you.
Sorry to sound so glum but the ear-lick thing pisses me off. It's one thing to talk/email. But he continued after she told him to F off.. and the licking thing is waaaaaay over the line. This guy is whacked and he needs get rearranged.
Time to lay some pipe girl!
Good luck..
Unfortunately, this is what I was talking about before with trying to handle things "normally" at first. Cuz most of the time it hurts the accuser as much as the one making advances. Obviously it depends on the co, but it seems like they're trying to steer clear of it.
Anyhow, if he does it again, def. call the cops. It's that simple. If you've tried to tell him nicely, then not so nicely, then he licks you (bodily fluids?!?! wtf), I wouldn't hesitate to call the cops. You really don't know what he'll do next.
And if this escalates you will probably have to find new employment--if for no other reason this guy won't be able to find & harass you.
Sorry to sound so glum but the ear-lick thing pisses me off. It's one thing to talk/email. But he continued after she told him to F off.. and the licking thing is waaaaaay over the line. This guy is whacked and he needs get rearranged.
Time to lay some pipe girl!
Good luck..
10-23-2003, 07:10 AM
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Your company is responsible no matter what time those e-mails were sent - Hopefully you get a call from HR saying they let him go - After that, go to the Police Station and get a restraining order....It sounds wierd, but you don't want to be the subject of a story on Americas Most Wanted or Cops or some shit
10-23-2003, 09:11 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
id take the alimony only if i got screwed over.. like he cheated on me or something.
then id take him for everything he owned.
/malicious
id take the alimony only if i got screwed over.. like he cheated on me or something.
then id take him for everything he owned.
/malicious
10-23-2003, 09:42 AM
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Originally posted by proaudio22
My mom get $$$$ (digits representative) alimony per month...tell her it's outdated.
My mom get $$$$ (digits representative) alimony per month...tell her it's outdated.
and she still bitches about my dad. My dad was like wtf.. im giving her much more than anyone would ask of me in divorce court.
10-23-2003, 09:47 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
and she still bitches about my dad. My dad was like wtf.. im giving her much more than anyone would ask of me in divorce court.
and she still bitches about my dad. My dad was like wtf.. im giving her much more than anyone would ask of me in divorce court.
10-23-2003, 09:59 AM
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yeah me and my dad split at the same time.
their marraige was dead a couple years after i was born.
I cant live in the same house with my mom, and i only visit her oh so often. we fight like nothing else.
their marraige was dead a couple years after i was born.
I cant live in the same house with my mom, and i only visit her oh so often. we fight like nothing else.
10-23-2003, 10:06 AM
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Originally posted by mc222
Your company is responsible no matter what time those e-mails were sent - Hopefully you get a call from HR saying they let him go - After that, go to the Police Station and get a restraining order....It sounds wierd, but you don't want to be the subject of a story on Americas Most Wanted or Cops or some shit
Your company is responsible no matter what time those e-mails were sent - Hopefully you get a call from HR saying they let him go - After that, go to the Police Station and get a restraining order....It sounds wierd, but you don't want to be the subject of a story on Americas Most Wanted or Cops or some shit
he's 100% right. Your Hr person is incorrect. If an employee of theirs is making you feel uncomfortable in the workplace to the extent where you can't do your job, they are required to do something or you have a host of legal options you can take, the first of which would be sueing the hell out of them. I'm not big on our society's huge "sue everyone" mentality, but you def have options...
good luck with this idiot.
and watch yourself - or i'll have to
10-23-2003, 10:07 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
yeah me and my dad split at the same time.
their marraige was dead a couple years after i was born.
I cant live in the same house with my mom, and i only visit her oh so often. we fight like nothing else.
yeah me and my dad split at the same time.
their marraige was dead a couple years after i was born.
I cant live in the same house with my mom, and i only visit her oh so often. we fight like nothing else.
I refuse to go to autozone for 'performance' parts lol.
10-23-2003, 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by swclown
Beth,
he's 100% right. Your Hr person is incorrect. If an employee of theirs is making you feel uncomfortable in the workplace to the extent where you can't do your job, they are required to do something or you have a host of legal options you can take, the first of which would be sueing the hell out of them. I'm not big on our society's huge "sue everyone" mentality, but you def have options...
good luck with this idiot.
and watch yourself - or i'll have to
Beth,
he's 100% right. Your Hr person is incorrect. If an employee of theirs is making you feel uncomfortable in the workplace to the extent where you can't do your job, they are required to do something or you have a host of legal options you can take, the first of which would be sueing the hell out of them. I'm not big on our society's huge "sue everyone" mentality, but you def have options...
good luck with this idiot.
and watch yourself - or i'll have to
10-23-2003, 03:43 PM
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You guys are AWESOME!
I do need to clarify though....he didn't email me on our WORK email. We have a personal email list at work that some people share funny jokes/pics etc on. He got my personal email off of that list. Since it wasn't "work" related they can't touch that.
The ear-licking thing is very serious though. He's getting talked to today about it. I really am nervous about the outcome though....
And I think that a group of CL getaway cars would be the coolest thing ever! Road trip hell yeah! Bring y0 sleeping bags and we'll order pizza the night before! I'll make chocolate chip cookies!
I've just never been in a situation like this before. Every time he walked by my desk on Wednesday I got all tensed up. Very creepy...
I do need to clarify though....he didn't email me on our WORK email. We have a personal email list at work that some people share funny jokes/pics etc on. He got my personal email off of that list. Since it wasn't "work" related they can't touch that.
The ear-licking thing is very serious though. He's getting talked to today about it. I really am nervous about the outcome though....
And I think that a group of CL getaway cars would be the coolest thing ever! Road trip hell yeah! Bring y0 sleeping bags and we'll order pizza the night before! I'll make chocolate chip cookies!
I've just never been in a situation like this before. Every time he walked by my desk on Wednesday I got all tensed up. Very creepy...