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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 07:47 PM
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Help a rookie

damn......... girls r tough to deal with............
please give me advise, not some age shit bout me being 13 and whatnot
anyways

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I have had a girlfriend from the past summer till now (3 months)

1- Normal school day
2-french class, quiz on common phrases in french
3- GF is stuck on 'La meme chose' while me, being an asian in a french class, is already done
4- takes the whole class time taking the quiz, later the only one
5- finally finishes, jokes around
6- after school yearbook, all-state chorus, soccer practice (3-0)
7- got home, she calls me
8- after she jokes about what stupid mistake i did in class, i bring up the whole french thing
9- she goes on to hang up, wont answer



any ideas to cheer her up???

BTW, just sent her a email
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:02 PM
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yeah insulting your girlfriend, or at least making her feel stupid, wont score any points.

May I suggest apologizing next when you see her in person.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:07 PM
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I totally didnt understand what you just said.

Anyway, here is the golden rule when it comes to joking with girls: They can make fun of you, but you can't make fun of them.

That's life.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:09 PM
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well. it sounds like she was making fun at a mistake.. something that youre like

where as he was basically making fun of the fact that she was the last person to finish a quiz.. not really funny.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:11 PM
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Punch her in the arm a few times....
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_bike
I totally didnt understand what you just said.

Anyway, here is the golden rule when it comes to joking with girls: They can make fun of you, but you can't make fun of them.

That's life.

Golden Rule #2: Don't be afraid to joke about yourself, but don't joke in a way that inidcates you have a confidence problem.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:38 PM
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Making girls feel stupid is a great idea. It shows them that you're superior.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Acuraluvr
damn......... girls r tough to deal with............
please give me advise, not some age shit bout me being 13 and whatnot
anyways

short run-down:
I have had a girlfriend from the past summer till now (3 months)

1- Normal school day
2-french class, quiz on common phrases in french
3- GF is stuck on 'La meme chose' while me, being an asian in a french class, is already done
4- takes the whole class time taking the quiz, later the only one
5- finally finishes, jokes around
6- after school yearbook, all-state chorus, soccer practice (3-0)
7- got home, she calls me
8- after she jokes about what stupid mistake i did in class, i bring up the whole french thing
9- she goes on to hang up, wont answer



any ideas to cheer her up???

BTW, just sent her a email
La meme chose...that means "the same thing" in French. How ironic is that. She was stuck on "la meme chose". LOL

If you were gonna joke about the quiz, you should have said exactly that.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 09:48 PM
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Steal her lunch money :goodadvice:

Or

just listen to Teg, he keeps it real :betteradvice:
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:05 PM
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tell her if she doesn't shape up you're leaving her for a 4th grader with a tighter body
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
Steal her lunch money :goodadvice:

Or

just listen to Teg, he keeps it real :betteradvice:
Originally Posted by Nicholbr
tell her if she doesn't shape up you're leaving her for a 4th grader with a tighter body :bestadvice:
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:14 PM
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she'll brush it off. no big deal. tell her you did bad on the test...
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted by nicholbr
tell her if she doesn't shape up you're leaving her for a 4th grader with a tighter body
Great advice. But seriously, junior high relationships are meant to be about learning about girls. And you'll actually be learning until you die because the womenkind's sole purpose in relationship is to keep you guessing.

I'd say that the most important thing to learn about women is that it's not what and how you treat every girl but more about picking the right one. Some girls are going to be trouble. Always will be, no matter what you do. They will make your life miserable one way or another. Other girls are the "good" ones that will actually make your life better. I don't mean go out with ugly nice girls but that if you see signs of "me, me, me" Run. They never change. The ones that are concerned about you and attentive to you and just wants you to be attentive and loving to them in return is the ones you want.

Oh, and don't "joke around" with girls too much because they're not like guys. You have to make fun of your guy friends' mistakes because it's every guy's moral duty to call out a friend's idiot moves. But girls are different. Just dont' do it. And do it sparingly with girls who seem to be cool with it. But once in a while, they'll hold it against you so it's a better policy to just keep it nice and fun and loving with girls instead of sarcastic.

I'm generalizing, so take it with grain of salt.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 08:57 AM
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she'll brush it off. no big deal. tell her you did bad on the test...
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 11:02 AM
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Tell her you'll give her 2 N64 games for some nookie
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
Tell her you'll give her 2 N64 games for some nookie
screw N64, he has sega saturn!
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
Tell her you'll give her 2 N64 games for some nookie
only after they learn about it in "Sex Ed" Class....

lol ok im sorry, i had to. So 13 yrs old huh...Sooo thats like 7th grade? Wow...That seems sooo long ago.

My advice, keep the GF, tell her your sorry, dont get tooo serious, because in a year from now when you head off to highschool, theres gonna be soooooo much ass...

Just dont get too serious on this one, there will be plenty others down the road

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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 04:28 PM
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kids these days...
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
La meme chose...that means "the same thing" in French. How ironic is that. She was stuck on "la meme chose". LOL

If you were gonna joke about the quiz, you should have said exactly that.
YoungTL, you know french?






J/K
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 04:52 PM
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I think everyone in knows french
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_bike
I think everyone in knows french

YoungTL's from Canada?
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 06:09 PM
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Last time I checked the US did not get the 54th parallel in the Oregon treaty.

So yeah.. Alberta is in Canada.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 09:10 PM
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YoungTL's from Canada?



Oh, and thanks Ken.
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 07:28 AM
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I don't think I could stay with a chick who couldn't take a joke

BUT just like everyone else chicks have a line you just don't cross. Everyone has their insecurities and when you make fun of them it's crossing the line. Kinda like when I made fun of my ex for getting fired, LIKE A JACKASS, felt dumb as hell for that but thought she would laugh because it was a BS college job...boy was I wrong.
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 08:35 AM
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I don't think I could stay with a chick who couldn't take a joke

BUT just like everyone else chicks have a line you just don't cross. Everyone has their insecurities and when you make fun of them it's crossing the line. Kinda like when I made fun of my ex for getting fired, LIKE A JACKASS, felt dumb as hell for that but thought she would laugh because it was a BS college job...boy was I wrong.
The fact that it was a BS college job probably made it worse. i got away with so much at my BS college job that i wouldnt think of doing now.
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 09:16 AM
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The fact that it was a BS college job probably made it worse. i got away with so much at my BS college job that i wouldnt think of doing now.
Yeah it was really sad. I have done so much shit at jobs and never got in trouble. She got fired for burning flat breads at a smoothie spot I am sorry but that is sad and HILARIOUS!!!!!!!
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 12:15 PM
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girlfriend at 13?
I think I was too busy playing doom 2 to care about girls.
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 01:32 PM
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Old Sep 30, 2005 | 03:42 PM
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You gotta donkey punch that hoe


like thr other guys said, tell her your story of why you said it. but anyways during these years it's about learning girls. once you hit high school you may get some ass as a freshman or sophmore. But once ur a senior and you have been through some horrible relationships, you come to a point where you just won't care until you find someone that gets you. just wait a few more years, there will be so many girls that will want you it will blow your mind. right now just have some fun.
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 04:37 AM
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you don't need advice. learn your lessons the hard way.
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 11:04 AM
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you don't need advice. learn your lessons the hard way.
True, true. Gotta learn things for yourself. For example, I was 14 when I took my parents car for a drive and learned that a red light at an intersection meant stop. Boy did that mom and her 4 kids in the car got surprised when I wiped them off the road!
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 11:58 AM
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flowers and chocolate do the trick, with a sincere "i'm sorry"
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 12:17 PM
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well, i just did this to see what advise i could recieve...... she forgave me and turns out it wasnt what she was mad at me about

it was smthing else sooooo ended up last night talking to her on the phone for 3 hours
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Acura3.0CL
. So 13 yrs old huh...Sooo thats like 7th grade? Wow...That seems sooo long ago.

My advice, keep the GF, tell her your sorry, dont get tooo serious, because in a year from now when you head off to highschool, theres gonna be soooooo much ass...
8th grd........ enuff ass i can handle kinda salty
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Acuraluvr
well, i just did this to see what advise i could recieve...... she forgave me and turns out it wasnt what she was mad at me about

it was smthing else sooooo ended up last night talking to her on the phone for 3 hours
Great, now have make-up sex...er...maybe just give her a big hug
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Old Oct 1, 2005 | 01:07 PM
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kinda salty
Um, I don't know what to say...
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Old Oct 2, 2005 | 09:41 AM
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Um, I don't know what to say...
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Old Oct 2, 2005 | 01:54 PM
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Old Oct 2, 2005 | 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by AS3.0CL


like thr other guys said, tell her your story of why you said it. but anyways during these years it's about learning girls. once you hit high school you may get some ass as a freshman or sophmore. But once ur a senior and you have been through some horrible relationships, you come to a point where you just won't care until you find someone that gets you. just wait a few more years, there will be so many girls that will want you it will blow your mind. right now just have some fun.
It depends...if he's fat and ugly it will be hard to get girls. Girls only come to you if they think you have something they want.
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Old Oct 2, 2005 | 05:27 PM
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It depends...if he's fat and ugly it will be hard to get girls. Girls only come to you if they think you have something they want.

this is very true. i'm trying to optimistic about him. some girls are actually good girls, some are gold diggers. so, get an acura it brings all the girls, that should clear up the fat and ugly part.
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