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Old 06-09-2008, 03:26 PM
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cmon ravi, it sounds like she's changed.
i bet this time will be different
Old 06-09-2008, 03:45 PM
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^^^^

Christ can only hope she does.
Old 06-09-2008, 04:03 PM
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Okay dude, you need help getting over this broad? Here ya go:

I boinked her. HARD. And the whole time she screamed my name and said she's never been porked that good by ANY guy before. EVER.

































Now, imagine all of that is true, and you should be good. You're welcome. Glad I could help.
Old 06-09-2008, 04:04 PM
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Um yeah.... Have fun with her but don't invest any emotion in that relationship, sounds like she doesn't care too much for you if she didn't have the courtesy to talk to you or let you know what was going on.

LOL @ levon
Old 06-09-2008, 04:05 PM
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oh you guys

dont worry nothing further should happen.
Old 06-09-2008, 04:15 PM
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:00 PM
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Wow, a quote to live by. If anything the next time around is worse, a lot worse

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
By the way, you next post or even the thought in your mind should NOT be.....

"Well, maybe this time it will be different."

Because you know it won't.
Old 06-09-2008, 11:01 PM
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if there's any part of you that would consider getting back with her as a gf, then you can't just randomly hook up with her; she'll end up dating you, then she'll break back up with you, and then expect you to be around in the event that she wanted to have sex with you.

i um, accidentally, was on the receiving end of a guy cheating on his gf, and i was her friend (which we're not getting into), and it wouldn't shock me if she's been messing around with your friends and no one's saying anything.
Old 06-10-2008, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted by arstraub
i um, accidentally, was on the receiving end of a guy cheating on his gf, and i was her friend (which we're not getting into), and it wouldn't shock me if she's been messing around with your friends and no one's saying anything.
Would you say anything? And what would you say? (in the for instance you described)
Old 06-10-2008, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted by imj0257
oh you guys

dont worry nothing further should happen.
Not a good sign.
Old 06-10-2008, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Would you say anything? And what would you say? (in the for instance you described)

Say who's fault it was, his or hers (his, in my case), and just apologize. Not too much you can do.
Old 06-10-2008, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted by arstraub
Say who's fault it was, his or hers (his, in my case), and just apologize. Not too much you can do.
If you were her "friend" how would you not know who her bf was?
Old 06-10-2008, 01:45 PM
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Old 06-10-2008, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by TeknoKing
The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else
Originally Posted by Rounder
"The best way to get over a girl is to get under another..."
Welcome to yesterday at 5:15
Old 06-10-2008, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
If you were her "friend" how would you not know who her bf was?
Hence the "we're not getting into this" previously mentioned.
Old 06-12-2008, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by arstraub
Hence the "we're not getting into this" previously mentioned.
Old 06-12-2008, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
If you were her "friend" how would you not know who her bf was?
Maybe the BF cheated with arstraub's friend?
Old 06-12-2008, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
Maybe the BF cheated with arstraub's friend?
I took it as astraub was the lucky girl that guy decided to cheat with.
Old 06-12-2008, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
I took it as astraub was the lucky girl that guy decided to cheat with.

Old 06-12-2008, 11:53 AM
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I am almost in the same situation with a girl I know. we hang out with the same ppl, we are always around eachother and I like her (hard to admit since I havent liked anyone in a long time after a 3 year disaster of a relationship) and I think she liked me too.LIKED!!! we have been flirting and all that inocent stuff for some time and there was never a good time to go out by ourselves cuz of both of our scheduals. so this has been going on for 2-3 months and I asked her out and she told me she likes me but it would be better if we stayed friends, cuz if anything bad happens we couldnt be friends anymore and it would be weird cuz we hang out with the same group of ppl. Now I am pissed cuz she knows she has been teasing and she knows how much I hate that. and I kind of hate her right now for doingthat but still like her. its weird.
well to get over her, I had sex with her friend and now she doesnt wanna talk to me any more even tho she said she didnt want nothing to do with me. Bitches are weird as fuck.
my advice, have sex with her friend. (spelling is terrible I know so dont point the obvious)
Old 06-12-2008, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
I took it as astraub was the lucky girl that guy decided to cheat with.

He was like 19, I was maybe 16, I was walking upstairs, he cornered me in the hall and shoved himself all over me. LUCKY ME
Old 06-17-2008, 12:19 AM
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Ok guys I just recently broke up with a girl after dating for a couple months. Nothing TOO serious but a part of me still likes her but now I'm just trying to forget her... after all she is the one that really broke it off cus she doesn't know what SHE wants. For example one day she calls and texts me and says she misses me and the next she doesnt wanna talk. Like this past Sunday she said she missed being around me and wanted to go to lunch this week so the next day I said wanna go to lunch tomorrow and shes like 'maybe?' and 'I'm like well make a decision its not that hard' and havent heard back from her lol.

Anyways I've tried to think of all the negative things I can such as she works late night shifts which means I only see her on the weekend which is really hard for 'dating', she has little to no motivation with her career (college degree and works at some warehouse... could be doing something better making more money such as teaching ... since she went to school to learn that), very indecisive and always changing her mind..etc as you can see afrom the example above. Also one of my best buds is her best guy friend, granted I've known him longer... and she kept saying it was all awkward cus of that (I thought it was at first too but got over it, she apparently didn't... and no she doesn't like this dude they are just bffs, hes too ADHD rtarded). And on top of that she hangs out with the guys I hang out with .. our little group of friends. Only good thing is shes great looking.. banging body.

I know I have tons of good reasons to forget her but I still have that knot in my stomach like a part of me still likes her. C'mon guys help me forget about her!. Only when I'm around my friends do I really forget her but that isn't often during the week cus of work :/

Sorry to dump this on u guys I don't wanna sound like a lamer but could def use the help
bro my situation was almost identical to yours

it was like one week she was crazy in love with me, second week she wanted to be just friends, and third week she hates my guts. And all this for no reason...

And whats ironic is that I also bought tickets to a broadway show, and had to buy them well in advance, which was when we were still cool and going out, and then shit happened....but luckily i just sold the tickets today, thank god, or else i would've been out for $250

it's really weird how girls are...its kinda hard to figure them bitches out, well atleast for me it is, lol

but anyways, i guess i got more time now to hit the gym and more $$$ to mod my car, haha
Old 06-17-2008, 05:28 AM
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Originally Posted by AcuraKidd
bro my situation was almost identical to yours

it was like one week she was crazy in love with me, second week she wanted to be just friends, and third week she hates my guts. And all this for no reason...

And whats ironic is that I also bought tickets to a broadway show, and had to buy them well in advance, which was when we were still cool and going out, and then shit happened....but luckily i just sold the tickets today, thank god, or else i would've been out for $250

it's really weird how girls are...its kinda hard to figure them bitches out, well atleast for me it is, lol

but anyways, i guess i got more time now to hit the gym and more $$$ to mod my car, haha
So what happened with you and that spanish chick that cleaned your cubicles.
Old 06-17-2008, 10:08 AM
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So what happened with you and that spanish chick that cleaned your cubicles.
nothing, I just started to ignore her after I figured out that she was trying to use me to get a job at my place
Old 06-17-2008, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by AcuraKidd
nothing, I just started to ignore her after I figured out that she was trying to use me to get a job at my place
lol...you know that's not true!
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Originally Posted by AcuraKidd
nothing, I just started to ignore her after I figured out that she was trying to use me to get a job at my place



From what I read in your last "update" is that she was "ignoring" you.

So are the girls still asking you if you want to ask them out?

How's that workin' out for ya?
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Sorry to hijack but come on acurakidd, tell us the truth bro
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holy shit guys, i already told u how it ended, we went out with her friends a couple of times, and i basically figured out that she was only tryin to get close to me to get a job at my place

after that i just started ignoring her, and she started ignoring me...

THE END
Old 06-19-2008, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted by AcuraKidd
bro my situation was almost identical to yours

it was like one week she was crazy in love with me, second week she wanted to be just friends, and third week she hates my guts. And all this for no reason...

And whats ironic is that I also bought tickets to a broadway show, and had to buy them well in advance, which was when we were still cool and going out, and then shit happened....but luckily i just sold the tickets today, thank god, or else i would've been out for $250

it's really weird how girls are...its kinda hard to figure them bitches out, well atleast for me it is, lol

but anyways, i guess i got more time now to hit the gym and more $$$ to mod my car, haha

same shit happened to me, love me one week, duno what she wants the next on and off ad flaky about it but she's still on my mind a little bit...

tells me lets be friend then calls me to come over and chill at 11 at night like wtf.

i still kinda like her i got nothing else going on right now....so i hit her up kinda playful flirting joking around. i said something and she was like woah calm down....i'm like wtf ur the sarcastic one and i can't even bust ur balls i told u i wanted to chill with you that was it.....

their nuts out of their head...i give up on her now.....moving on for sure this time...jut hard bc i'm at work 10 hours a day so i think about stuff...sucks....

man their all nuts...
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