first nite completely alone tonite...(story: https://acurazine.com/forums/showthr...t=broken+heart)

been keeping really busy ...hanging out with friends....consciously keeping it out of my head...

but..

dunno




i know that's what i need to do....

just sux

 

whenever i'm about to give up or depressed i think of this: everything is going to be fine in the end, if it's not fine, then it's not the end.

 

I was there not too long ago. I really was in your situation, down to the door slamming, arguing over past conflicts and constant fighting. I regret every single fight every single day. Friends really are the best cure in this kind of situation .. I'd suggest waiting, which is THE hardest part, for a few weeks and see if he's calmed down enough to talk about everything. Miscommunication definitely is the #1 relationship killer. Say that you're not looking to hook up again, or even look for forgiveness, but just to hear YOUR side of the story. Everything should unfold from there.

 

Find hobbies and other things that make You happy and make sure you do them ritually for You...!!

 

i do..i'm just whining in a moment of weakness..:-)

 

No i haven't been picking up an assload of guys!!!

 

well that's it!!! going out..

be sure to let you all know the embarassing stories tomorrow

 

Whatever you do, don't do something you'll regret later the next morning or even pay for the rest of your life. I had an old girl friend who was dumped by her man on a Thursday night. On Friday, she went out and partied like a rockstar and was making an ass of herself by coming on waaaaaaaaaaay too strong and kissing guys she normally wouldn't give the time of day to. She paid the ultimate price on the way home when she was pulled over about 2 blocks from the bars.....night in jail and a DUI on her record.

Do what it takes to get you over him, but don't regret what you do the next day.

 

Alcohol is your friend.

 

Yeah, if you're fat and ugly.

Oh wait .. I fit the description.

 

go party

 

i wanna go party too
even thou i went to my friends 22nd on wednesady and got pretty trashed, i want to party again

 

i got drunk n saw doom last night

 

had a great time!!!

spent sat and sunday recovering tho...

went on a pub crawl and then played poker and won 80 bucks!!!

 

andrea, glad to see you're making progress...i'm currently going through the same thing myself. got let go by o'girl after 1yr and a half, lived together for most of that time, and trying to move on now, very hard to see the bright side of it all but i know it'll come to me soon enough. i made mistakes for the past month since she broke up, still talked to her, saw her on occasion, but just the other day i decided i couldn't speak with her for awhile. talking to her and seeing her was a mistake because it stopped my forward progress, only now am i beginning to let go completely and make that progress again. just don't stop and continue what you're doing..! good luck to you!