I dont think she will call, but if she does, i know what to do!

Thanks a lot

 

so she hasn't called yet?

 

the guys calls the girl...not the other way around.

There are still a whole lotta women who were raised "you don't call boys, they call you".

a large percentage of them.

 

Watch this show.

Next time, wait for the TL to get out of the shop - it'll make a better impression. Don't forget to go over the interior with the Lexol so everything's looking sharp.

You can also learn a lot from body language. Was this chick doing anything that evidenced neurotic tendencies, like a lot of hair twirling? When the body language goes bad, it's time to excuse yourself from the table and exit the building without looking back.

The next time you go to the beach, take a look at all of that sand there. Billions and Billions of grains of sand. That's how many women there are in this world - another one will turn up for you sooner than you think.

 

Not sure of yourself?

 

 

I think he was questioning why that method was deemed to be bad

 

I think it's a good thing to be a nice guy but you have to be a little cocky. Don't be an asshole but don't kiss her ass constantly either. It's tough when you really like someone-you always want to be with them and make them happy. Girls like when you make it just a little tough for them. Think about it...most girls can get laid whenever they want. It's no fun for them if you make yourself available and your nice all the time at first. Play the game a little.

Making her laugh is always, always great. Don't try to hard though. Pick and choose your punchlines tactfully. If your trying TOO hard, you look corny and your overdoing it.

Just try to be that guy who's cool, calm, and collected. Have good manners and treat her nice. Make her laugh. Make it seem like you've got your own things going on in your life. Make yourself unavailable sometimes. Let her call you most of the time. Tell her about your car and about your job. Most of all, be true to yourself. If your not, it's not gonna work anyway. GOOD LUCK!!

 

i've been with my girl for over 2 years and it's getting more and more confusing for me. it seems like everything can always be turned around and be blamed on me. pretty crazy how it happens though. and there's never a right way to do anything. it's only right if she's in a good mood haha. but yea this is my first real serious relationship. she told me a couple of days ago that i'm getting boring because i always do what she wants and i'm so predictable now.

so it definitly sounds like these guys know what they're talking about. i'm gonna try to get things my way more and not do EVERYTHING she wants.

great advices guys!

 

smart man. stand your ground, be a man and be the leader.

relationships are all about compromise and if you see it getting stangnant introduce something new (hobby, sport, learn something together, etc)

 

LOFL!

Sounds like you are saying he should take this girl to Pizza Hut and order an infectious disease for dinner.

I think you mean "spontaneous"

 

Alot of bad advice here guys.

The women are smarter than you think, and they can tell when you are not being yourselves. I end up picking up all the women that you guys play games with this how many days should I wait to call them garbage.

Women don't want games. Most women already know what they want, and will tell you if you ask. They know all the bullshit acting like your busy and all that lame shit.

Be yourselves and you will see that women will pick you out of the crowd of idiots.

 

IMHO...I agree that you should be yourself but, depending on who that is exactly, YOUR actions as the guy will dictate how things go. If your objective is to make her your wife, then by all means, be yourself. You don't want someone to fall in love with you at your best only. But if the goal is to get laid, then sometimes it's necessary to play the game a little.

Some girls don't go for the proverbial "nice guy" and they're usually the ones that will bang your brains out. So falling in love with a girl like that and being so nice to her that it makes her want to run the other way doesn't work.

 

It works for both situations. IMO, if you have to play a game to get laid, then something is wrong.

 

If you both it off and you know if you did. Then call her today. B/c if you wait she might say fuck this guy. GOOD LUCK SIR.