I got a chicks number last night, how long til i call her.

I heard many diff stories on when to call, just getting a larger sense of what ppl have to say.

 

well what are u calling her for, a date, to fuck what?

 

i think the rule is 4 days....


your money your money your money your money your money

 

Wednesday would be best, Tuesday a little too early, Thrusday's pushin' it... Maybe Thursday DAY.

 

little more details, but to me wensday sounds like the best day, thursday might be too late and she might have plans for the weekend already. and its not too early like monday or tuesday. IF she does have plans you could see about thursday night to take her out.

 

I've never been a big fan of the standard 3 days, and i think most women expect that anyway. If your interested call her and let her know, if she's interested as well your golden, if not you haven't wasted any time that you could have been chasing other skirt.

Just my .02

EZ

 

Pix?

 

Yeah, seriously, having her wait an extra day won't make her more interested. If she's interested she wants to hear from you.

 

MIKE
How long do I wait to call?

TRENT
A day.

MIKE
Tomorrow?

TRENT
No...

SUE
... Tomorrow, then a day.

TRENT
... Yeah.

MIKE
So, two days?

TRENT
Yeah. I guess you could call it that.

SUE
Definitely. Two days. That's the
industry standard...

TRENT
... I used to wait two days. Now
everyone waits two days. Three days is
kinda money now, don't you think?

SUE
... Yeah. But two's enough not to look
anxious...

TRENT
Yeah, but three days is kinda the
money...

MIKE
Why don't I just wait three weeks and
tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and
found her number...

CHARLES
... then ask where you met her...

MIKE
Yeah, I'll tell her I don't remember and
then I'll ask what she looks like.

Then I'll ask if we fucked. How's that,
Tee? Is that "the money"?

TRENT
Laugh all you want, but if you call to
soon you can scare off a nice baby who's
ready to party.

SUE
Don't listen to him. You call whenever
it feels right to you.

MIKE
How long are you guys gonna wait to call
your honeys?

TRENT & SUE
Six days.

 

i know from personal experience that girls like it when u call the next day

 

So i called last night, around 8pm and she wants to go out tonight

 

excellent movie!

 

sweet, don't be too eager. girls like a challenge!!

 

2 days, invite her for a small casual dinner, maybe pizzahut take a friend make it spontagious. make it seem like ur going with your friend but you wanna invite her that way she'll see interest but she wont think too much of it like your desperate. pay the bill to and leave good tip. tell her to CALL YOU when she gets home make sure she made it alright... theres your way GL

 

Pizza Hut for a date?

Eh...

 

PizzaHut for a date? Yeah, you know this guy jerks it every night....... :fingerfawk:























Just like me :'(

 

my frist date with my girl right now was at dennys we've been going out for 8 months?

 

the best day to call and ask someone out on a date for the weekend in wednesday. if u call before u seem like u have nothing else, if u call after u seem like u've run out of options or desperate

 

OK I haven't updated you guys since the date.

We were supposed to go out Monday night, but she called me around 5 and said she wasnt feeling well and slept all day.

We made plans to go out tuesday, but I got called into work.

So we decided to grab lunch on Weds afternoon. She lives a few towns away, so we met at a nearby Burger King [the only place she knows in my own (where we met)] I was dressed quite nice, dressy shirt/slacks...she comes out her C class in short shorts and a tank top. I could see her nipples, I wasnt sure if she wanted to have lunch at a resturant or in my truck (TL is at the dealer for new tranny) I was quiet dissappointed she didnt dress nice to meet with me. She offered to drive, which was kool, and we went to a small italian place that has pizza and other Italian food. we had a small lunch, interesting convo. when i began to mention what kind of guy she looks for, she said she like ALL kinds of guys, i was like . Anyway, she also offered to pay, which i didnt let her especially because in my culture, the women never pay for a mans dinner. we drove around town, and it was almost time for me to get to work. We drove back to Burger King and said our farewells, she looked like she was getting ready for a kiss, proping her self up. I didnt kiss her on the lips, but gave her a nice peck on the cheek, got in my truck and drove to work.

Overall I had a good time, but it seemed like she didnt have much to say.


what do you guys think of this 1st date?

 

We were supposed to go out Monday night, but she called me around 5 and said she wasnt feeling well and slept all day.

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3 days sounds right. Kinda sounds like shes got 2nd thoughts... Make it seem like you are a busy guy...

If she talks about her ex-boyfriends, by all means run out the door and dont look back...

 

she mentioned her ex twice, and didnt comment on what she said. I wasnt pissed, but it seemed like i reminded her of him.


Shes going to Serbia for the entire summer, july 1-sept 1...so im gonna try and hit it and quit it before she leaves.

 

 

If this girl talked about her ex boyfriend on the first date... You either made her insecure, or shes hinting that shes bored of ya...

Next time out, do something out of the ordinary, spontaneous. Not just the lame dinner, and go see a movie...

1) Always have a good sense of humor, make her laugh.
2) Let her fantasize about you and youre lifestyle, if she asks about your previous relationships, tell her you got "bored" of your last relationship be very vague. Let her fill in the blanks the way she wants hehe.
3) It doesnt hurt to let the girl pay once in a while (if she offers that is a +). Remember- chics walk all over nice guys, and for some funny reason they like the assholes.

Took this one asian dimepiece to a pretty decent restaurant, turns out shes workn full time and didnt get a chance to go to college/university. I played that card like no tommorow. I guess she was insecure about her future and i brought it out of her hehe. Funny thing is she jumped out of her seat faster than I did when the check came. We both laughed, i told her " What do u think ur doing little girl! She says to me, " im capable of supporting myself thank you... dinner is on me". I looked at her in astonishment! Said, "wow, most girls i date dont even offer, they totally expect me to pay as if i owed them for their time"
She looks at me, and says, "you owe me time then, lets do something after this, its still early" im thinkin in my mind wo0t!
We ended up renting a movie that night and going back to her house. I must admit independant girls turn me on... She was very independant, lived by herself, had a really nice pad, took care of herself...

 

What movie did you rent?....LOL j/k I don't give a fuck. But seriously, did you get in her pants? Did your advice work for yourself?

 

It was some anime movie lol... Cant even remember the title i was too busy fondling her hahaha!

 

fucking bitch! i called her tonight, just to talk. she said shes shopping and she said she'll call me back

she never called back :o


Oh well, i am kinda boring so i guess i dont blame her.

 

dude, don't think about yourself like that.... maybe she just wasn't the right one or maybe she is and an emergency came up...who knows. anyways there are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll find the right one for you

 

Shit man im sorry, i forgot to tell ya!!! i was in a rush!!!

Rule #4 ! - Never call her to chat! If she wants to talk she'll call you bro... If you call her its to make some plans! Always make the convo short, remember u are busy !!! If she wants to hang out, cool then, if not then u are busy u dont have time to talk!

I never get reception in the mall, dont be so tough on yourself bro!

Shes down for u, if not she wouldnt have even showed up the first time, let alone give u a number!
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Dont worry so much if she didnt call u back, seems like she is testing u... From the way u are reacting it doesnt look so good on ur behalf... Go out , keep urself busy man... By all means do not call her back for atleast a few days... Sounds shady to me...

Man too many nice guys out there, dont let her get to u!!! Unless u want to be a victim.

 

My man Edroe knows what he is talking about so listen to him! Women are ruthless and insensitive to nice guys. Go on with your life as if you never got her number. In fact, delete her number from your phone so you don't become tempted to call her when you feel lonely. Her actions seemed a little shady to me when you two first met. Talking about ex's is NOT cool in any convo. You always have to have the attitude that you have everything to offer a woman and you are looking for what she has to offer you. Get it? Nobody wants just a trophy chick. You have to make sure she can handle things if your shit messes up. If your looking to hit it, hey, just act like an asshole and they will gravitate towards you. You have to present yourself very well. That means good hygiene, clean shoes, good breath, fly outfit. I shop at Banana Republic and let the chicks pick out what looks hot on me. It hasn't failed yet. Don't worry about what guys think because you don't want to bang a guy. Let a woman dress you up and you will never go wrong. Make sure you shop at a reputable men's clothing store when you pick your outfit. J Crew is not bad either. Get some cologne......try Armani Mania.....and you will be money. Go to your local hairstylist (not the Hair Butchery) and get your wig chopped off. Tell me how everything goes and good luck!

 

Wow guys, you guys are awesome. let me give you some backround info on me and relationships......Teh file you are trying to open *NEVER EXISTED*

I'll be 20 in two weeks still a virgin.....not cuz im weird or whatever, i was planning on staying a virgin until i get married. Im a Muslim-Arab so I never found a need to have girlfriends due to lack of sexual activities. Ive only been recently interested in getting ass finally. I was planning on being married by 21. Not gonna happen, i dont think ill ever get married.

All I do is work, sleep, and occasionally hang out with my boys. My friends dont really help me with going out because they are all cheap fucks lol, they dont like to go to clubs or parties, so thats so much for my lack of social life. I dress nice, i wear tons of express and kenneth cole, dressy casual all the time. im just stuck. I think i need new friends what do you think I should start doing to "get in the game"?

 

yes. And according to "the rules" any later is unacceptible.

god I hate that book. If you ever see that on the shelf of a woman you are dating then run far, far away.

Saw your update. others have nailed it. don't call to chat. Call to make plans. short and sweet. after a couple dates and you guys are still interested then sure.

also its always a good idea to tell them you had a good time and would like to do it again (this is on the first, second, third dates)

And remember the 3rd date rule.

 

i forgot to mention i dont drink or smoke, which ive found is a turn off to most girls ive met.


:duhhhhhhhhhh:

 

yeah, I guess you are pretty boring.



Seriously though. Smoking is NEVER a turn on - I smoke and it eliminates about 75% of the dating population for me.

 

smoking is watever but drinking is a must for kids my age, but i never tasted alcohol, never will.

 

So now that I'm married, I can see the "rules" for what they are. I HATE the rules, especially when you ahve to admit you really ARE desperate, because they sure don't make any sense then.

All the rules are is a way to guide your actions so the real result is achieved. Whats the result you need? Well, for any girl worth being with, showing that you are confident, self posessed, and ambitious. Thats pretty much what any girl worth being with wants. Sure theres other stuff, but without those qualities you dont have a chance really.

I was a total doormat with the girl before my wife. She walked right over me, continuously. I was too nice, always let her choose what she awnted to do (showing my compassion or something), and always letting her get her way. She worked it too, never got anything from her, in any sense. I wanted affection, but by the end i'd have settled for some action. Nadda. Finally she left for some other guy, and I was pissed. Few months later is when I met my wife-to-be.

I was fed up being a carpet. I did what *I* wanted. I called her when I wanted something. I felt like a total asshole, but at this point I decided I'm out for ass and relationships could go to hell.

Worked like a charm.

Looking back, thats what those "rules" are trying to get you to do. I couldn't be a TOTAL asshole, she still has feelings, you know? But I didn't let her drive. We're happily married now for a year and a half, and I'm so glad I don't have to worry about the rules anymore. I do what I want, take queues on what she wants, treat her with respect, and we have no problems

 

I wish there werent any bullshit rules and a nice guy can really be nice...stupid chicks!

 

Just because you are in a bar doesnt mean u have to drink. Its actually funny to see people when theyre all drunken... Heck who knows you might just have a girl passout and fall face first on your lap haha jk.

Do u go to school? Best place to meet a decent girl. Universities are SWARMING with girls, and its so unfair that i cant live in the dorms anymore :sqntfawk:

Another thing, these girls who attend universities are much more trustworthy than some chic you are gonna meet at a club or a bar. Most of them have something besides looks going for them if u know what i mean... Ambition my friend... that is the key.

 

Yeah, too bad chics have to try to seduce us. Thats where these bullshit rules come into play. Its all about control.

 

you can be nice later. you have to be a cocky little shit to get them.

gotta be the alpha male dude.

 

tl_diplomat... dont call her, let her call you. if she doesnt call then forgetabouteh if she calls give her abit of the cold shoulder, tell her your real busy. youll call her the next day make her anxious