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I'm a girl and I always get off
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I'm a girl and I sometimes get off
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I'm a girl and I've never had an orgasm from intercourse
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1.53%
I'm a dude and she always gets off
109
41.60%
I'm a dude and she sometimes gets off
115
43.89%
I'm a dude and I dont think I've ever given a girl an orgasm from intercourse
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Old 08-29-2005, 10:39 PM
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Girls and orgasms with sex

I dont think I had ever given a girl an orgasm until at least my early 20's. Now it's pretty rare that I'm with a girl who doesnt have one. I dont know if that means that I finally grew up and figured out how to use my shit, or is it just that older girls can climax easier

My current girlfriend is usually on her second, if not had it already before I hit my first in an average day in our sex life.

BTW,,the poll is intended for intercourse only, not oral, felching, or other
Old 08-29-2005, 10:46 PM
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It depends on the girl I guess. I'd say 2/3's could have an orgasm during sex but some of them could not... only by other means.

I voted sometimes.
Old 08-29-2005, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
It depends on the girl I guess. I'd say 2/3's could have an orgasm during sex but some of them could not... only by other means.

I voted sometimes.
Yeah, that's kinda why I thought Id ask . It seems like a few years ago, i was always hearing girls say they could only get off from other means....probably said that to make me feel better come to think of it Now that I'm a little older, i never hear it and I seem to finish the job every time. So I was wondering if it is a younger girl thing, a girl thing, or a guy doin the job right thing.
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I think just older girls learn how to fake it better
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There was one chick I never gave an orgasm to...I couldnt figure it out...so I concluded that she was a lesbian.

I think its all about how you do it. Im very hands on when I fuck...if you know what I mean.

So I voted option 5
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Sometimes they do and sometimes they dont, thats just the way it is.
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Most women have more of an emotional attachement to sex than men do, therefore, they have to be in the right frame of mind to actually orgasm. Which is why some of them don't all the time.

Whereas us guys get off with any moist hole.

I voted I've never given a girl an orgasm, but I think thats just my tiny wee wee...
Old 08-30-2005, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted by te3point5
Most women have more of an emotional attachement to sex than men do, therefore, they have to be in the right frame of mind to actually orgasm. Which is why some of them don't all the time.

Whereas us guys get off with any moist hole.

I voted I've never given a girl an orgasm, but I think thats just my tiny wee wee...
Yup, if she's in love with you or really likes you, then it's pretty easy to help her get to that point.
I voted sometimes, but it's more often than not. So I'd have to go with the 2 out of 3 with mrsteve.
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Ive been trying hard for about 15 years
Old 08-30-2005, 08:25 AM
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I said sometimes because sometimes your just want to get some ass and you really don't care about how she's feeling. Just a quick bump and run. But when most of the time she gets off.
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It's a pain in my ass to get my gf off in a traditional bed setting, so sometimes we do the "pillow-under-the-butt" thing or just go on the floor. That seems to change the angle of attack slightly and she's done in like 5 min. Whereas on the bed it'll take 20 min.


Plus if she's wasted it's harder for her to get off, just like guys.
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she always gets off
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I can go for a long time, not bragging, just have that ability, so i can usually just keep going till my girl cums, then its my turn. Plus the longer i take the better it feels for me, so its the best of both for everyone
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there are certain positions that will do it for me. So if we happen to do one of them, then yes, always. if we dont, then no I dont
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Anyone have suggestions?
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I'm trying to answer the poll, but I dont see the "Who gives a f@%k" option
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So far there are 11 liars who voted for number 4.
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
there are certain positions that will do it for me. So if we happen to do one of them, then yes, always. if we dont, then no I dont
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Originally Posted by fdl
I'm trying to answer the poll, but I dont see the "Who gives a f@%k" option
meh. With that big, thick, black cawk of yours, I'm sure they always get off.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Anyone have suggestions?
make sure shes awake
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
make sure shes awake
Check.
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I have never had an orgasm through intercourse, and NOOOO it's not a Scott problem, he's NOT the only person I've ever slept with; everyone has failed... it's not them, it's me. I have come very very close a few times, but as soon as I get all excited, thinking, "ooh ooh I'm close!" I overanalyze things and it becomes a nice internal massage once again. I can't stop myself from thinking it over too much; is he frustrated with how long this is taking? Does my face look weird? Is that my g-spot or do I really just have to pee? Etc.

Other things work, so I'm not really concerned anymore, although I used to think there was something majorly wrong with me, that I was a failure at sex, etc. (contrary to popular belief, guys are more likely to become disgusted with a woman for being unable to orgasm, than the woman is to become angry at the guy for not making her come).

I also look forward to my thirties, when I hear that women freak out and become sexual goddesses.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
I have never had an orgasm through intercourse, and NOOOO it's not a Scott problem, he's NOT the only person I've ever slept with; everyone has failed... it's not them, it's me. I have come very very close a few times, but as soon as I get all excited, thinking, "ooh ooh I'm close!" I overanalyze things and it becomes a nice internal massage once again. I can't stop myself from thinking it over too much; is he frustrated with how long this is taking? Does my face look weird? Is that my g-spot or do I really just have to pee? Etc.

Other things work, so I'm not really concerned anymore, although I used to think there was something majorly wrong with me, that I was a failure at sex, etc. (contrary to popular belief, guys are more likely to become disgusted with a woman for being unable to orgasm, than the woman is to become angry at the guy for not making her come).

I also look forward to my thirties, when I hear that women freak out and become sexual goddesses.
Since you opened up about this....My wife is the same way. Almost exactly.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Since you opened up about this....My wife is the same way. Almost exactly.

I'm glad... I was kinda embarrassed about that for a minute, and I can just see the PM Scott's gonna send me when he wakes up...
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not GLAD your wife is the same way; I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but I'm glad you said something.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
I'm glad... I was kinda embarrassed about that for a minute, and I can just see the PM Scott's gonna send me when he wakes up...
Oh, no doubt, he's gonna be pissed when he sees it. This is why my wife doesn't know my Azine password .
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
Don't get me wrong, I'm not GLAD your wife is the same way; I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but I'm glad you said something.
It's probably more common then people think. Women are good at faking (my wife faked it with me for years until she told me about the problem). Hopefully you are right about the 30's thing. But as you said, she has been with others before me who were unsuccessful.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Oh, no doubt, he's gonna be pissed when he sees it. This is why my wife doesn't know my Azine password .

it's not the first time she's posted it
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Originally Posted by CLpower
it's not the first time she's posted it
Ok, first time Ive seen it.
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Originally Posted by CLpower
it's not the first time she's posted it

Aww look who woke up all grumpy and sleepy! Go have some coffee babe. I've never posted it on this forum.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
Aww look who woke up all grumpy and sleepy! Go have some coffee babe. I've never posted it on this forum.

easy chinchilla, i've got no problem with it at all

and you've posted it on this forum
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Hmm, so maybe size really doesn't matter. Will we ever get the answer to this question?
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Originally Posted by CLpower
easy chinchilla, i've got no problem with it at all
What are you trying to say?

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Originally Posted by Caliadria
What are you trying to say?

You gotta shave that thing.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Since you opened up about this....My wife is the same way. Almost exactly.

my g/f is the same way too.. it bothers me sometimes............... a lot

shes never gone, EVAR!
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Originally Posted by shineynitelite
my g/f is the same way too.. it bothers me sometimes............... a lot

shes never gone, EVAR!
As I said, I think it's a lot more common then people think. Men don't know about it because women fake it. Women don't know because they are embarrased about it and don't talk to other women or doctors about it.
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They dont need to see a dr over it. MOST women do not orgasm from intercourse alone. Its a fact, look it up.
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Originally Posted by fdl
They dont need to see a dr over it. MOST women do not orgasm from intercourse alone. Its a fact, look it up.
I was thinking more of a head doctor then medical doctor. Only because a lot of women feel it's a problem with them mentally.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
As I said, I think it's a lot more common then people think. Men don't know about it because women fake it. Women don't know because they are embarrased about it and don't talk to other women or doctors about it.

I faked for YEARS... I mean, I don't know the exact statistic but I *think* it's above 50% of women can't get off with intercourse alone. But guys seem to think that if they can't "satisfy" a woman then she's defective... unfortunately, physiologically, it's not necessary for a woman to have an orgasm to get pregnant (although the uterine contractions help suck the sperm in towards the egg), and the ultimate purpose for sex is procreation. While men HAVE to get off to procreate, women don't, and so some of us aren't built with the right parts in the right places. Sucks to be us, I guess.

I guess what I mean is that physically, we are not defective, although socially we are. Oh, well. As a result of my lack of success with intercourse, I learned enough about myself that I can finish in 30 seconds if need be, with other methods.


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