View Poll Results: How often does your girl get off during sex
I'm a girl and I always get off
5
1.91%
I'm a girl and I sometimes get off
13
4.96%
I'm a girl and I've never had an orgasm from intercourse 
4
1.53%
I'm a dude and she always gets off
109
41.60%
I'm a dude and she sometimes gets off
115
43.89%
I'm a dude and I dont think I've ever given a girl an orgasm from intercourse
16
6.11%
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08-30-2005, 10:12 AM
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If the woman cant O during intercourse, you just need to get your hands involved. (or have her get her hands involved on herself) and this should do the trick.
08-30-2005, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
I'm trying to answer the poll, but I dont see the "Who gives a f@%k" option 
08-30-2005, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
As I said, I think it's a lot more common then people think. Men don't know about it because women fake it. Women don't know because they are embarrased about it and don't talk to other women or doctors about it.
I read a stat somewhere that said almost 50% of women have never had an orgasm during intercourse. It's really common, but as you said, most women fake it and a lot of men don't want to admit to it
08-30-2005, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
If the woman cant O during intercourse, you just need to get your hands involved. (or have her get her hands involved on herself) and this should do the trick.
08-30-2005, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
I read a stat somewhere that said almost 50% of women have never had an orgasm during intercourse. It's really common, but as you said, most women fake it and a lot of men don't want to admit to it
08-30-2005, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
If the woman cant O during intercourse, you just need to get your hands involved. (or have her get her hands involved on herself) and this should do the trick.
not true for most
08-30-2005, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I would also say the number is high for women who have never had one (intercourse or not).
has your wife NEVER had one?
08-30-2005, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
has your wife NEVER had one?
08-30-2005, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Im thinking no, she said once or twice she may have, but wasn't sure.
that's gotta be stressfull
08-30-2005, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I have used hands, tongue, objects, sticks, stones, midgets, animals, feet, food, etc. with no avail.
But she can have an orgasm on her own?
08-30-2005, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
that's gotta be stressfull
Don't care too much. She says she loves sex still.
08-30-2005, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
But she can have an orgasm on her own?
on this one.
08-30-2005, 10:29 AM
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I dated this chick a couple years ago that had multiple orgasms. The last couple I've dated and my current gf is a lot harder to get off. They both told me that they hardly ever have an orgasm through intercourse, and one have never had an orgasm through intercourse.
08-30-2005, 10:30 AM
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Women dont need to O to be satisfied during sex, so ive heard. Its not like men, where phsycologically we need ot finsih or we dont feel right.
anyways, whiskers, if your wife cant O at all, she needs to masturbate and masterbate some more untill she learns how to do it herself. If she cant do it, then there is no way in hell you can.
anyways, whiskers, if your wife cant O at all, she needs to masturbate and masterbate some more untill she learns how to do it herself. If she cant do it, then there is no way in hell you can.
08-30-2005, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
Women dont need to O to be satisfied during sex, so ive heard. Its not like men, where phsycologically we need ot finsih or we dont feel right.
anyways, whiskers, if your wife cant O at all, she needs to masturbate and masterbate some more untill she learns how to do it herself. If she cant do it, then there is no way in hell you can.
anyways, whiskers, if your wife cant O at all, she needs to masturbate and masterbate some more untill she learns how to do it herself. If she cant do it, then there is no way in hell you can.
08-30-2005, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Im going on this one.
on this one.
08-30-2005, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Dude, no offence, but maybe you really need to talk to her about this one. A lot of girls that I've spoken to have problems having orgasms through intercourse, and it's almost always "in their head."
08-30-2005, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Dude, no offence, but maybe you really need to talk to her about this one. A lot of girls that I've spoken to have problems having orgasms through intercourse, and it's almost always "in their head."
:shakehead Talking won't do anything. I'm sure they're open about it... it's his wife after all. It IS in her head, but being pressured by her husband to "fix it" won't make it any better. Trust me.
08-30-2005, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
You may want to read the thread. Yes, we all agree it's in her head along with other women.
And maybe invest in some toys that go buzzzzzz.
Good luck.
08-30-2005, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I dated this chick a couple years ago that had multiple orgasms. The last couple I've dated and my current gf is a lot harder to get off. They both told me that they hardly ever have an orgasm through intercourse, and one have never had an orgasm through intercourse.
I think the hardest thing with some girls is getting them past that "feels too good I can't handle it threshold!"
08-30-2005, 11:15 AM
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the numbers seem a bit disproportionate dont ya'll think?0 women say they ALWAYS get off
18 dudes say they ALWAYS get their women off
hmmmmmm....
08-30-2005, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
the numbers seem a bit disproportionate dont ya'll think?0 women say they ALWAYS get off
18 dudes say they ALWAYS get their women off
hmmmmmm....
ya , this poll is as accurate as the penis length one.
08-30-2005, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
the numbers seem a bit disproportionate dont ya'll think?0 women say they ALWAYS get off
18 dudes say they ALWAYS get their women off
hmmmmmm....
The e-penis is huge in this thread.
08-30-2005, 12:26 PM
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The e-penis is huge in this thread.
08-30-2005, 04:22 PM
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hey caliadria.. since my g/f has the same 'problem' as you do can you tell me what i should and shouldnt say to her about it for the next time it comes up.. i know it bothers her and in some previous posts that you made you talk about being pressured etc. etc.
i mean she has told me a few times that she feels like shes going to pee on me.. wtf do i say to that, ya know?!
feel free to blabber and to elaborate beyond just that thought ^^.. i'm ready to read everything you have to tell me about this subject cuz i'm very clueless i want to know how she feels w/o the embaresment of her telling me and me asking her
i mean she has told me a few times that she feels like shes going to pee on me.. wtf do i say to that, ya know?!
feel free to blabber and to elaborate beyond just that thought ^^.. i'm ready to read everything you have to tell me about this subject cuz i'm very clueless i want to know how she feels w/o the embaresment of her telling me and me asking her
08-30-2005, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
Women dont need to O to be satisfied during sex, so ive heard. Its not like men
thats what my g/f says.. it could be just to make me feel better tho
08-30-2005, 04:41 PM
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the worst is when you got a guy that thinks its his only mission/purpose in life to get you off, and he's all pissy about it and just won't quit...and by this time the mood is totally ruined, there's no way it's gonna happen.....so you fake just to shut him up so you can go to sleep...
08-30-2005, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by shineynitelite
hey caliadria.. since my g/f has the same 'problem' as you do can you tell me what i should and shouldnt say to her about it for the next time it comes up.. i know it bothers her and in some previous posts that you made you talk about being pressured etc. etc.
i mean she has told me a few times that she feels like shes going to pee on me.. wtf do i say to that, ya know?!
feel free to blabber and to elaborate beyond just that thought ^^.. i'm ready to read everything you have to tell me about this subject cuz i'm very clueless i want to know how she feels w/o the embaresment of her telling me and me asking her
i mean she has told me a few times that she feels like shes going to pee on me.. wtf do i say to that, ya know?!
feel free to blabber and to elaborate beyond just that thought ^^.. i'm ready to read everything you have to tell me about this subject cuz i'm very clueless i want to know how she feels w/o the embaresment of her telling me and me asking her
the pee feeling is normal before O...women actually do put out some fluid sometimes when they O...
I have that same feeling (didn't want to call it a "problem") as caliadria...
1. get her feeling relaxed...
2. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.....and no guys, foreplay doesn't mean you start groping her tits hard right off the bat when you're sitting on the couch....you gotta start really slow and progress...(that's personally my biggest issue...it takes me awhile to really get in the mood, whereas the guy just wants it after 2 minutes of kissing) lots of touching and not just on sexual parts..touch her everywhere...
3. saying nice things doesn't hurt
4. she might be very uncomfortable with dirty talk (sometimes i'm right into it, and then the guy says something that totally makes me stop and think how ridiculous what he just said was)
5. keep touching her during....
6. above all, have fun...it's supposed to be fun..
just some suggestions...
08-30-2005, 04:55 PM
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I'm with Andrew on this.. seems like suddenly things work out, like carnal knowledge suddenly sunk in.
08-30-2005, 04:59 PM
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the pee feeling is normal before O...women actually do put out some fluid sometimes when they O...
I have that same feeling (didn't want to call it a "problem") as caliadria...
1. get her feeling relaxed...
2. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.....and no guys, foreplay doesn't mean you start groping her tits hard right off the bat when you're sitting on the couch....you gotta start really slow and progress...(that's personally my biggest issue...it takes me awhile to really get in the mood, whereas the guy just wants it after 2 minutes of kissing) lots of touching and not just on sexual parts..touch her everywhere...
3. saying nice things doesn't hurt
4. she might be very uncomfortable with dirty talk (sometimes i'm right into it, and then the guy says something that totally makes me stop and think how ridiculous what he just said was)
5. keep touching her during....
6. above all, have fun...it's supposed to be fun..
just some suggestions...
I have that same feeling (didn't want to call it a "problem") as caliadria...
1. get her feeling relaxed...
2. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.....and no guys, foreplay doesn't mean you start groping her tits hard right off the bat when you're sitting on the couch....you gotta start really slow and progress...(that's personally my biggest issue...it takes me awhile to really get in the mood, whereas the guy just wants it after 2 minutes of kissing) lots of touching and not just on sexual parts..touch her everywhere...
3. saying nice things doesn't hurt
4. she might be very uncomfortable with dirty talk (sometimes i'm right into it, and then the guy says something that totally makes me stop and think how ridiculous what he just said was)
5. keep touching her during....
6. above all, have fun...it's supposed to be fun..
just some suggestions...
08-30-2005, 05:01 PM
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08-30-2005, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
I'm with Andrew on this.. seems like suddenly things work out, like carnal knowledge suddenly sunk in.
I'd like to think its me
but I dont think it is 
08-30-2005, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
the numbers seem a bit disproportionate dont ya'll think?0 women say they ALWAYS get off
18 dudes say they ALWAYS get their women off
hmmmmmm....
08-30-2005, 05:16 PM
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women who don't orgasm from sex have no room to talk until they can do it on their own. it didn't take me very long at all to learn to get myself off, but it took FOREVER before i had one from a guy (via oral). i've never had one through sex, but i'm sure one day, with time, and a determined partner, i will.
it doesn't happen automatically. it takes time, it takes practice, and it takes communication. every single person is different.
a lot of women are first of all, too nervous and uptight about it. they're afraid they won't, so then they don't.
and then there are a lot of guys who are fooled too easily by women who fake. they don't ask their partners how they want it, so it never gets done, and she goes unsatisfied.
but dont' get discouraged, just because a woman doesn't orgasm during sex, doesnt' mean she doesn't enjoy it. just make sure you're giving her the time of day (or night) to keep her satisfied. women release oxytocin during sex whether we orgasm or not, so we have a different feeling towards the whole thing. whereas men release jizz...
you all should watch dr. drew and learn a few things
it doesn't happen automatically. it takes time, it takes practice, and it takes communication. every single person is different.
a lot of women are first of all, too nervous and uptight about it. they're afraid they won't, so then they don't.
and then there are a lot of guys who are fooled too easily by women who fake. they don't ask their partners how they want it, so it never gets done, and she goes unsatisfied.
but dont' get discouraged, just because a woman doesn't orgasm during sex, doesnt' mean she doesn't enjoy it. just make sure you're giving her the time of day (or night) to keep her satisfied. women release oxytocin during sex whether we orgasm or not, so we have a different feeling towards the whole thing. whereas men release jizz...
you all should watch dr. drew and learn a few things
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Originally Posted by Andrea25
make her feel like she's beautiful....