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Old 09-02-2008, 03:02 PM
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Did you really need to make a thread about asking a cute girl out?

Start a conversation, hey, I think I like you, you're very cute. If you are free later on or some other time I'd love to get to know you... simple.

Good luck, and most importantly have fun.
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Originally Posted by TeknoKing
Did you really need to make a thread about asking a cute girl out?
why not??
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Old 09-02-2008, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by dope!
oh yea, and i think she noticed her stupid manager cock block, becuase she's usually smiling and talking to me, but when he's there she just asks "how are you today" which is pretty much protocol.
It wasn't because of the manager....she read this thread.
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Old 09-02-2008, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by yohan81718
why not??
I was just asking... self-confidence would have done the deed without a crowd's approval.

If you really like the girl, first find out if she is single or not, then be a romantic, bring a nice bouquet of flowers, done deal. You'll here a yes, and if she says no, still give her the flowers and wish her a great day. From that point on, keep on ignoring her... the game of mouse and cat always works. The question then will be, is it worth it? And like I said, have fun.
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One or two more weeks wait? Just go in there and deposit $5 just so you can try again....lol.....
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You've gone from dope! to nope!
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
I think OP is thinking the manager's presence might cause the girl to say no when she would otherwise say yes.

So he doesn't want to blow his chance on a low percentage play. He'd rather wait for the high percentage play.
exactly cuz he seems to have a lil crush on her, she doesnt seem to dig him though he seems like a weirdo to me

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go take out money then re-deposit it. anything to talk to her....2 weeks she may be sucking someone elses CAWK.
no0o0o0...hahhaha

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George, im coming with you next time to verify that she is cute. haha
lets go!
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im still dope! lol and to teknoking, just asking an opinion on how to do it..and like someone else said why not?

anyways, i have the confidence to ask, but that stupid manager is always hovering around her when im there. so it MIGHT get her in trouble or he just might cockblock harder next time. anyways, FOR SURE NEXT PAYCHEK im getting her number
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^ cauz the manager obviously likes her..

Make a joke, is that guy your bf? See what she answers
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^ cauz the manager obviously likes her..

Make a joke, is that guy your bf? See what she answers
and she'll say "eww no! " lol
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What the hell is taking so long?
-Why do I care?

Swift22, a girl i'm with right now looks like the chick in your avatar, just with brown hair.
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OP, so what are you prepared to do worst case scenario if you get there next week and her manager is working over her shoulder again?

What is your backup plan? There's no turning back now you have to do it! That way her pics can show up in the pretty girl thread in 2 weeks when you guys all go out and get $hit faced.

That way, we all get to see pics of her friends

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similar situation. i was in the hospital and had a nurse that just blew my mind everytime i saw her. she would come in and do all kinds of stuff for me and one of my buddies kept telling me to ask her out. Well i pussed out and didnt. Went home and 2 weeks later i broke my arm and she happened to be doing an ER rotation. Her first question to me was.... Why did you never ask me out?

We are getting married in 3 months.

go for it
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Originally Posted by dope!
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lets go!
whenever man. im still on worker's comp so i have all day unless im at the doctors office.
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Originally Posted by ArTL-S
similar situation. i was in the hospital and had a nurse that just blew my mind everytime i saw her. she would come in and do all kinds of stuff for me and one of my buddies kept telling me to ask her out. Well i pussed out and didnt. Went home and 2 weeks later i broke my arm and she happened to be doing an ER rotation. Her first question to me was.... Why did you never ask me out?

We are getting married in 3 months.

go for it
See! ITs stories like these that make it hopeful for the OP! I don't see why he's waiting. I've made some crazy sacrifices in the name of "getting to know someone"

cut class....no problem...rearrange a shift at work...no problem....dude whatever it takes is the motto. You'll do fine. Get someone to cover class for you one day or take an extra 15 mins getting to work (( if possible ))..IF she's worth it, find a way

There's this smoking hot chick that comes to mind right now in my head. If your girl looks anything like the one I'm talking about, dude you better hop on it before some other guy she smiles at does this Friday if you know what I mean
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Originally Posted by tiguy99
See! ITs stories like these that make it hopeful for the OP! I don't see why he's waiting. I've made some crazy sacrifices in the name of "getting to know someone"

cut class....no problem...rearrange a shift at work...no problem....dude whatever it takes is the motto. You'll do fine. Get someone to cover class for you one day or take an extra 15 mins getting to work (( if possible ))..IF she's worth it, find a way

There's this smoking hot chick that comes to mind right now in my head. If your girl looks anything like the one I'm talking about, dude you better hop on it before some other guy she smiles at does this Friday if you know what I mean
i skipped class last night, and went to a local bike meet, regret it it was fawking math class!!1 lol im fawked lmao


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dont worry we will all be here waiting for your next post when you actually ask her out
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dont worry we will all be here waiting for your next post when you actually ask her out

You really think that is going to happen? I'm sure we will be here but the actual asking her out, yehhhh not looking good
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I remember one time where at a store…this good looking girl at the cashier wrote a heart on the receipt she gave me…I never bothered to look at the receipt when I got home…DUH!...my loss!!!!
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
I remember one time where at a store…this good looking girl at the cashier wrote a heart on the receipt she gave me…I never bothered to look at the receipt when I got home…DUH!...my loss!!!!
Then how did you know there was a heart on it?
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I'd bring a friend and make your friend talk to manager about opening a new account. Then you make your move but i wouldn't talk to your friend in the bank or else he knows it's a plan.
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I'd bring a friend and make your friend talk to manager about opening a new account. Then you make your move but i wouldn't talk to your friend in the bank or else he knows it's a plan.
not a bad idea, they have personal bankers for that thought
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Originally Posted by wackjum
I asked a teller out by being direct after a little bit of small talk. I had many small talks with her over the course of a month or so until she knew me. Very mundane stuff like using her name (easy because of the name tag) and telling her good weekend, nice day, etc.

FYI: We ended up with nothing in common and parted ways. She still works there and I still say hi.

I asked out one at my Credit union, went w/ the same game plan, she was really young, nothing in common wanted a relationship etc Oh well, I hit it and now I bank online lol
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I asked out one at my Credit union, went w/ the same game plan, she was really young, nothing in common wanted a relationship etc Oh well, I hit it and now I bank online lol
good shit!
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
I remember one time where at a store…this good looking girl at the cashier wrote a heart on the receipt she gave me…I never bothered to look at the receipt when I got home…DUH!...my loss!!!!
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Originally Posted by dope!
not a bad idea, they have personal bankers for that thought
bring a wing woman! Distract the mofo.

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similar situation. i was in the hospital and had a nurse that just blew my mind everytime i saw her. she would come in and do all kinds of stuff for me and one of my buddies kept telling me to ask her out. Well i pussed out and didnt. Went home and 2 weeks later i broke my arm and she happened to be doing an ER rotation. Her first question to me was.... Why did you never ask me out?

We are getting married in 3 months.

go for it

Nice.
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waiting for the next paycheck is too long. Go get some money out today.
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Originally Posted by ArTL-S
similar situation. i was in the hospital and had a nurse that just blew my mind everytime i saw her. she would come in and do all kinds of stuff for me and one of my buddies kept telling me to ask her out. Well i pussed out and didnt. Went home and 2 weeks later i broke my arm and she happened to be doing an ER rotation. Her first question to me was.... Why did you never ask me out?

We are getting married in 3 months.

go for it
That is awesome. I'd thank God for giving me that 2nd chance! Again, congrats.
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Old 09-03-2008, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by ArTL-S
similar situation. i was in the hospital and had a nurse that just blew my mind everytime i saw her. she would come in and do all kinds of stuff for me and one of my buddies kept telling me to ask her out. Well i pussed out and didnt. Went home and 2 weeks later i broke my arm and she happened to be doing an ER rotation. Her first question to me was.... Why did you never ask me out?

We are getting married in 3 months.

go for it
Awesome story.
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you just need some beer, wine, or some shots and you'll be confident in asking her out.
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i like the deposit a penny idea...... easy way to start a conversation
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awesome story.
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Awesome story.
Agreed
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awesome story.

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on the awesome story. and i would love to go deposit a penny, bit i have no time. i got straight to school from work and im not out until 10pm
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i would rather missed 30 mins of class then miss the chance of asking a cute girl out.
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I didn't read all the posts here, but what the hell ever happened to just asking someone out.
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