Girl At the Bank: UPDATE Page 10
08-30-2008, 02:24 PM
#43
mmmmmm....
ok here is what you do save your paychecks for a few weeks ... go to the bank at a time shes not working, or go to a different teller. cash these paychecks so now you have a huge wad of cash... get it in big bills. now go back when she is working and deposit this large stack of cash and thats when you ask her if shed like to go out with you.
this is the gayest thing i've ever heard.
08-30-2008, 07:55 PM
#49
Oh Hullow
is there any way we can work some football analogies into the thread to redeem it? 
.... anyway to the OP ... seems like you guys have talked enough where it wouldnt be too ridiculous of you to just ask her...banks close early .. why not just go there around closing time to make your deposits and walk her out and ask her then?
or even just go in like normal and just outright say it.. when you ask her give her an easy way to say no to save for an awkward moment... say, go in on a friday and say "i know its last minute but if youre not doing anything this weekend...."
if she doesnt respond to it positively and says shes busy and doesnt suggest another time to hang out then you know shes not interested, no harm done, and just continue on with your life.
.... anyway to the OP ... seems like you guys have talked enough where it wouldnt be too ridiculous of you to just ask her...banks close early .. why not just go there around closing time to make your deposits and walk her out and ask her then?
or even just go in like normal and just outright say it.. when you ask her give her an easy way to say no to save for an awkward moment... say, go in on a friday and say "i know its last minute but if youre not doing anything this weekend...."
if she doesnt respond to it positively and says shes busy and doesnt suggest another time to hang out then you know shes not interested, no harm done, and just continue on with your life.
08-30-2008, 08:22 PM
#50
S E L L
haha im not worried about her knowing how much i make 
her eyes lit up the first time she saw my check..lol. and i got a nice stash in the bank.
i would give her a business card but i ran out, i have to order more from work, that way i dont pay for them! lol
but well she aska if i have plans and i have a girl cuz i look like i would. and that i dress nice and look important..lol. and a bunch of other stuff.
just dont wanna ask her becuase i dont want her to get in trouble.
im thinking im going to write a little something on a deposit slip
her eyes lit up the first time she saw my check..lol. and i got a nice stash in the bank. i would give her a business card but i ran out, i have to order more from work, that way i dont pay for them! lol
but well she aska if i have plans and i have a girl cuz i look like i would. and that i dress nice and look important..lol. and a bunch of other stuff.
just dont wanna ask her becuase i dont want her to get in trouble.
im thinking im going to write a little something on a deposit slip
Dude if she said all of those things, she's clearly interested. Just ask her out, she'll say yes. 
Oh, and :ibdarksom: bangs her if you wait too long.
08-30-2008, 09:13 PM
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Don't think about it. Just go!
1. Walk in
2. Go up to her
3. Make small talk
4. Tell hear you have a great time talking to her
5. Ask her out
If she talks to you that much, she'll be nice regardless of the outcome.
1. Walk in
2. Go up to her
3. Make small talk
4. Tell hear you have a great time talking to her
5. Ask her out
If she talks to you that much, she'll be nice regardless of the outcome.
08-31-2008, 11:13 AM
#54
luvs redheads!
there is a chick i have always regretted not talking to that was a teller at a bank in Chitown. She even would take me ahead of the other tellers 
. i just got outta a relationship and was hoping to get back with the girl so i passed it up. dumbest idea ever.
go for it.
my idea was this..
when making small talk ask if she ever works the window(drive thru) etc..say you would rather do that but you like to see her in person etc . then if you get the chance to do the drive thru....
"yes i would like to make a deposit (insert name here*wink) and then send just a piece of paper with your number. With comment attached
Or just ask her when her shift ends and bump into her making a late deposit and ask her to grab a coffee with ya
. i just got outta a relationship and was hoping to get back with the girl so i passed it up. dumbest idea ever. go for it.
my idea was this..
when making small talk ask if she ever works the window(drive thru) etc..say you would rather do that but you like to see her in person etc . then if you get the chance to do the drive thru....
"yes i would like to make a deposit (insert name here*wink) and then send just a piece of paper with your number. With comment attached
Or just ask her when her shift ends and bump into her making a late deposit and ask her to grab a coffee with ya
08-31-2008, 11:30 AM
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08-31-2008, 04:00 PM
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so what happened!?
I think OP got pwned...?
jk
I think OP got pwned...?
jk
08-31-2008, 07:30 PM
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09-02-2008, 09:22 AM
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so here's the deal, i went friday determined to ask her and forget all the note nonsense, i didn't see her, but upon closer inspection, i saw she was at the far left, so luckily i get her but the damn snooping manager weirdo guy is standing right behind her, hovering, all jealous and wutnot, he seems like a real loser. so he totally cock blocked me! he was standing there the whole time and then she didnt have enough cash to give me so she went to get money and the damn guy stayed there!!!
ill get her next paycheck so keep this thread going cuz this isn't over!! lol
any ideas on how to get rid of this cock blocker for next time? just in case he's there again
ill get her next paycheck
so keep this thread going cuz this isn't over!! lolany ideas on how to get rid of this cock blocker for next time? just in case he's there again
maybe i can catch him outside on his break, because sometimes when i get there he's outside smoking a cigarette..hmmmmmm 
09-02-2008, 10:57 AM
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Dude I swear to god if I was single and I was in your shoes I would have asked her out by now.....
Can you have a friend write a check to you and go deposit it? Something...anything...just get in there before her manager starts banging it in the vault
wait...is her manager darksome1? If so then the hover over her shoulder action all makes sense now
Can you have a friend write a check to you and go deposit it? Something...anything...just get in there before her manager starts banging it in the vault
wait...is her manager darksome1? If so then the hover over her shoulder action all makes sense now
09-02-2008, 11:01 AM
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Dude I swear to god if I was single and I was in your shoes I would have asked her out by now.....
Can you have a friend write a check to you and go deposit it? Something...anything...just get in there before her manager starts banging it in the vault
wait...is her manager darksome1? If so then the hover over her shoulder action all makes sense now
Can you have a friend write a check to you and go deposit it? Something...anything...just get in there before her manager starts banging it in the vault
wait...is her manager darksome1? If so then the hover over her shoulder action all makes sense now
hahahah well i need to get on it, shes cute! and im single so it's got to happen. i just odnt have time to go during the week, i got straight to school form work and im not out of school until 10pm, pay day is friday so its the only time i can go since i dont have school. but i get paid bi-weekly so i gotta wait til next friday
09-02-2008, 11:14 AM
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hahahah well i need to get on it, shes cute! and im single so it's got to happen. i just odnt have time to go during the week, i got straight to school form work and im not out of school until 10pm, pay day is friday so its the only time i can go since i dont have school. but i get paid bi-weekly so i gotta wait til next friday
If I write you a check for 0.01 will you make an "emergency run" and cash it? It may be your only hope and a great conversation piece
Wow then that would suck well...maybe not maybe you can practice kissing them like the guy in the other thread
09-02-2008, 01:25 PM
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dope, so heres the deal if you like her just ask her out. if the cock blocking loser is there fuck him just ask the girl out. you have nothing to lose the worst that can happen is for her to say no.
09-02-2008, 01:25 PM
#74
I'm Down Right Fierce!
Finally, someone who agrees with me. Just go for it.
And generally, I thought it was against work policies for workers to initiate relationships with clients? Generally, it should be ok if the relationship is initiated by the client, or is mutual.
Or thats what it says according to the CA rules of Professional Conduct for attorneys.
09-02-2008, 01:35 PM
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cut him a break. He is only 20. Sometimes, it is not that easy if one is shy. I would not have the guts to just walk up, start chatting, then say "let's go out for a drink"...
a buddy swears to me and I believe it, that he used to say "let's go fuck" and got lucky one time.
a buddy swears to me and I believe it, that he used to say "let's go fuck" and got lucky one time.
09-02-2008, 01:46 PM
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I think OP is thinking the manager's presence might cause the girl to say no when she would otherwise say yes. 
So he doesn't want to blow his chance on a low percentage play. He'd rather wait for the high percentage play.
So he doesn't want to blow his chance on a low percentage play. He'd rather wait for the high percentage play.
09-02-2008, 02:07 PM
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Seems pretty easy to me. If she knows u by name just call the bank and ask for her. Say "I hate to bother u but I was wondering if u can check out something on my acct". ie, balance or if a transaction cleared. Once she does that say thanks and proceed to the matter at hand, either getting the digits or just asking to go out sometime. Tell her u been wanting to ask her but the reaper is always standing behind her when ur there. GL
