Girl At the Bank: UPDATE Page 10
08-29-2008, 05:38 PM
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Girl At the Bank: UPDATE Page 10
ok so there is this cute teller at the bank. i go every friday to cash my checks or deposit money. anyway, shes cute, nice, and she always makes small talk with me, but i notice that she doesnt with any other guy i've seen her help. so, im thinking, hey why not go for it and ask for her number. thing is, its a bank, i dont want to say it out loud or anything and i was thinking of making a post-it with my name and number. but, lol a few friends said they might think its a silent robbery or something. what do you guys think?
any suggestions? im here at work for another hour and 20 minutes, so advice would be great! thanks! just need some idead to either get her number or give her mine,'
a friend suggested i write the message on a deposit slip?
any suggestions? im here at work for another hour and 20 minutes, so advice would be great! thanks! just need some idead to either get her number or give her mine,'
a friend suggested i write the message on a deposit slip?
08-29-2008, 05:39 PM
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The sizzle in the Steak
She knows how much you make. 
08-29-2008, 05:50 PM
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"not on that budget buddy" then everyone in lines laughs... 
Be confident and ask her out... you don't have anything to lose...
During you small talk, you can say you enjoy talking to her and would like to get to know her some more... If you have a business card, it would be the best way to give her your info (even though she already has it all on her computer screen)...
Be confident and ask her out... you don't have anything to lose...
During you small talk, you can say you enjoy talking to her and would like to get to know her some more... If you have a business card, it would be the best way to give her your info (even though she already has it all on her computer screen)...
08-29-2008, 05:53 PM
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My first question would be, what have your conversations been like to this point?
My initial reaction is to recommend asking directly for her phone number. That's the general piece when it comes to approaching women and getting a number. You ask for it, but not from a position of weakness, neediness, or desperation.
My initial reaction is to recommend asking directly for her phone number. That's the general piece when it comes to approaching women and getting a number. You ask for it, but not from a position of weakness, neediness, or desperation.
08-29-2008, 06:06 PM
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Just ask if she'd like to hang out sometime and for her number. Worst case scenario is that she rejects you and you have drive a few blocks to another bank. =) Goodluck!!
08-29-2008, 06:09 PM
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haha im not worried about her knowing how much i make 
her eyes lit up the first time she saw my check..lol. and i got a nice stash in the bank.
i would give her a business card but i ran out, i have to order more from work, that way i dont pay for them! lol
but well she aska if i have plans and i have a girl cuz i look like i would. and that i dress nice and look important..lol. and a bunch of other stuff.
just dont wanna ask her becuase i dont want her to get in trouble.
im thinking im going to write a little something on a deposit slip
her eyes lit up the first time she saw my check..lol. and i got a nice stash in the bank. i would give her a business card but i ran out, i have to order more from work, that way i dont pay for them! lol
but well she aska if i have plans and i have a girl cuz i look like i would. and that i dress nice and look important..lol. and a bunch of other stuff.
just dont wanna ask her becuase i dont want her to get in trouble.
im thinking im going to write a little something on a deposit slip
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08-29-2008, 06:12 PM
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Write on a deposit slip:
you are the BOMB
I want to spend mad CASH on you on a date
If we hook up, someone is likely to get hurt it will be so wild
Make sure you bold the right parts..
you are the BOMB
I want to spend mad CASH on you on a date
If we hook up, someone is likely to get hurt it will be so wild
Make sure you bold the right parts..
08-29-2008, 06:12 PM
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She won't get in trouble because a customer asks her out.
Are you sure you're just not scared?
It's OK to be scared man. It's just a different attitude and ego-check that has to come into play if you are.
Are you sure you're just not scared?
It's OK to be scared man. It's just a different attitude and ego-check that has to come into play if you are.
08-29-2008, 06:12 PM
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i don't see why she would get in trouble. you initiated the convo.....unless you stood there for 15 mins talking, having her put down her # on a slip of paper shouldn't get her in trouble.
08-29-2008, 06:20 PM
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the manager/supervisor walks around and sometimeas stands behind the tellers and watches them work. he
s a guy and he almost always stands behind her, must have a thing for her or something. but fuk it, ill just ask!
i dont want you guys to see me on the 7o'clock news tonight for trying to rob a bank..lol
s a guy and he almost always stands behind her, must have a thing for her or something. but fuk it, ill just ask!
i dont want you guys to see me on the 7o'clock news tonight for trying to rob a bank..lol
08-29-2008, 06:23 PM
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You're not the first guy to ask a bank teller out.
A lot of them are hot.
Although I don't doubt the orbiting geek manager who may want to bang her and what sort of awkward situation that could put her in.
Good luck! Post what happens.
A lot of them are hot.
Although I don't doubt the orbiting geek manager who may want to bang her and what sort of awkward situation that could put her in.
Good luck! Post what happens.
08-29-2008, 06:46 PM
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yea i thought twice about that one...lol
08-29-2008, 07:21 PM
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See the movie "Hero Wanted" and don't do what Cuba did...
08-29-2008, 07:31 PM
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I asked a teller out by being direct after a little bit of small talk. I had many small talks with her over the course of a month or so until she knew me. Very mundane stuff like using her name (easy because of the name tag) and telling her good weekend, nice day, etc.
FYI: We ended up with nothing in common and parted ways. She still works there and I still say hi.
FYI: We ended up with nothing in common and parted ways. She still works there and I still say hi.
08-29-2008, 07:51 PM
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"not on that budget buddy" then everyone in lines laughs...
Be confident and ask her out... you don't have anything to lose...
During you small talk, you can say you enjoy talking to her and would like to get to know her some more... If you have a business card, it would be the best way to give her your info (even though she already has it all on her computer screen)...
Be confident and ask her out... you don't have anything to lose...
During you small talk, you can say you enjoy talking to her and would like to get to know her some more... If you have a business card, it would be the best way to give her your info (even though she already has it all on her computer screen)...
08-29-2008, 08:41 PM
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You still go into the bank instead of using the ATM??Well, hope you asked the teller out and that your date went well- it sounds like she was definitely interested.
If it didn't go well, you can learn to make deposits and withdrawals by ATM.
08-29-2008, 11:51 PM
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Honestly, try shaving your pubes, and put them in the drop tube. Ask if she wants to see the fruit of your labor, then dramatically point to your crotch with both hands, making this face
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08-30-2008, 12:11 AM
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i just saw on the news some guy was trying to rob a bank!
08-30-2008, 02:40 AM
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funny you made a thread. I saw a cute chick at a bank a few days ago too! She's just been working there for a month. I'm guessing you bank with Wells Fargo too. It's very annoying to see the guy walk behind the teller...let us know what happen.
08-30-2008, 03:47 AM
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ok here is what you do save your paychecks for a few weeks ... go to the bank at a time shes not working, or go to a different teller. cash these paychecks so now you have a huge wad of cash... get it in big bills. now go back when she is working and deposit this large stack of cash and thats when you ask her if shed like to go out with you.
08-30-2008, 12:37 PM
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Maybe he's still banging it out because it sounds like she already opened her legs for him...it was just a matter of him stepping up to the plate.
In all seriousness I think the note is the most unawkward way for her considering she's at work and all.
In all seriousness I think the note is the most unawkward way for her considering she's at work and all.
08-30-2008, 12:40 PM
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notes aren't very bold...
i know a guy, overweight, not very cool, etc.
who actually had a similar situation except he wasn't making a lot of money, and the girl wasn't showing any signs of interest...
well he decided to write her a poem and put his number at the bottom and slip it to her after he finished his banking that one day...
he waited and waited for her call and nothing. such a lame move.
i know a guy, overweight, not very cool, etc.
who actually had a similar situation except he wasn't making a lot of money, and the girl wasn't showing any signs of interest...
well he decided to write her a poem and put his number at the bottom and slip it to her after he finished his banking that one day...
he waited and waited for her call and nothing. such a lame move.
08-30-2008, 12:42 PM
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notes aren't very bold...
i know a guy, overweight, not very cool, etc.
who actually had a similar situation except he wasn't making a lot of money, and the girl wasn't showing any signs of interest...
well he decided to write her a poem and put his number at the bottom and slip it to her after he finished his banking that one day...
he waited and waited for her call and nothing. such a lame move.
i know a guy, overweight, not very cool, etc.
who actually had a similar situation except he wasn't making a lot of money, and the girl wasn't showing any signs of interest...
well he decided to write her a poem and put his number at the bottom and slip it to her after he finished his banking that one day...
he waited and waited for her call and nothing. such a lame move.
