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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 08:53 PM
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Getting hit on

I BLEW IT!!! Seriously tought...watching the game today, I go to Chili's at halftime to get some grub, the girl at the counter starts chatting me up about last night's activites. She tells me about hers, and then that she wants to see the next matrix. Only after I was in my car driving away that I thought that may have been an invitation, and I should have just asked if she wanted to go with me

Oh well...I guess my nether regions shall remain as cold as it is outside here.
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 09:29 PM
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haha, LOSER

How could you not pick up on that man? What was on your mind?
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by amisconception
haha, LOSER

How could you not pick up on that man? What was on your mind?
For the first time in like 2 months, NOT women...probalby why it happened in the first place Any susggestions on how to rectify the situation? Go back in or some shit??
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 09:39 PM
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just go back in and chatter up w/ her this time and go for it. no biggie. everyone deserves a 2nd chance, right?
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 10:02 PM
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Another case of what the fuck just happened......DOH!!!!!
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 10:13 PM
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Man I would pick up on some shit like that in a heartbeat.....






Wish it would have been me.
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by Minch00
Man I would pick up on some shit like that in a heartbeat.....






Wish it would have been me.
No you wouldnt. It happens to us all
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Old Nov 1, 2003 | 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by sarlacc23
No you wouldnt. It happens to us all

Been there, happens all the time. I never pay attention unless I see the chick first and then i'm focused, otherwise I'm in my own zone.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 12:56 AM
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i never pick up on that shit...i end up getting the girls friends or my friends telling me how stupid I am for not picking up her signals...im just stupid when it comes to reading women.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by CL Hype
i never pick up on that shit...i end up getting the girls friends or my friends telling me how stupid I am for not picking up her signals...im just stupid when it comes to reading women.
We ALL are I guess
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 02:55 AM
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Originally posted by pgatour1
Been there, happens all the time. I never pay attention unless I see the chick first and then i'm focused, otherwise I'm in my own zone.
I'm the same way, and I hate that "I'm a dumbass" feeling you get afterwards. Always happens except for the fatties and uglies. They're so obvious and desperate you know when they're hitting on you.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:17 AM
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GO BACK!! LOL! Just start up another conversation with her and pay attention this time. Look for the clues!

That happens to me sometimes. Or one of my friends will be like GIRL! HE WAS CHECKING YOU OUT! And I'm like..

...."Huh?!".... ooops!
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:35 AM
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Man I would pick up on some shit like that in a heartbeat.....






Wish it would have been me.

something like that did happen to you. you said they were golddiggers.



anyway. yeah she obviously works there, so go order some more food, go in and talk to her
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:40 AM
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same thing happened to me man:
I was with my g/f(Amy) she wanted to eat @Waffle House last night(in Columbus). and we go in sit down,order and this girl making the food is smiling and eyeing me the whole time.(it was about 7 at night when we ate). she comes out and says "I made your food i hope everything good(as she puts her hand on my shoulder). I said "Everything fine thanks." Then she(the waffle house chick) was getting something out of the fridge and I was trying to watch the Buckeyes game(because it was in the 4th quarter during we were eating and the tv was over by the fridge). the waffle house chick bends over at the fridge(like as if she's gonna get something off the lower shelves) and starts wiggleing her rump). so i didn't want Amy to get pissed so i looked out the window.just as i do OSU throw this hell of a pass. Amy knows i'm a huge Buckeyes fan. she said "you missed a good pass" I said "more ways than one baby."
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:45 AM
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there was more (behind the scenes info) in that story than story
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:45 AM
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Originally posted by Miss iVTEC
That happens to me sometimes. Or one of my friends will be like GIRL! HE WAS CHECKING YOU OUT! And I'm like..

...."Huh?!".... ooops!
hahaha that is sooo true i never have a clue, unless a guy's being super obvious (and really, what's the fun in that...)

~sara~
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 05:13 AM
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There's a Chili's in Utah?
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
there was more (behind the scenes info) in that story than story
Welcome to the world of Water-S.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 05:18 AM
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And, Arthur...go back and talk to her, man.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 05:58 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
there was more (behind the scenes info) in that story than story
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 06:18 AM
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There's a Chili's in Utah?
Yes there is, 5 or 6 just in the Salt Lake Area...and we have snow too...I get to snowmobile/ski/board Eric.. :P There's just no night scene here, its been getting better, but they used to roll up the sidewalks at 10:00 PM here.

Pete, I will go back...even if it is only to talk to her...today, tomorrow, til I see her again, I just wish I knew her name, she wasn't wearing a tag or anything. The reciept says her name, but there were two working the counter last night.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 06:39 AM
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I've slept like that way to many times.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 08:33 AM
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Sorry to hear about your cluelessness that night. Let us know what happens when you go back.
And like they've all said, don't worry, it happens to the best of us
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 08:43 AM
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go back mang
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 12:47 PM
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I'm the same way, and I hate that "I'm a dumbass" feeling you get afterwards. Always happens except for the fatties and uglies. They're so obvious and desperate you know when they're hitting on you.
I always get the girls bartending hitting on me cause I think they see my watch or something and assume i'll tip them bigger who fucking knows. But I enjoy ignoring it more than anything cause then it makes them really want you. I have gotten a few numbers at the end of the night by pretending to not care the previous few hours. Hey they play the game all the time, might as well take advatge of it the few times the oppurtunity comes along to us.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 01:41 PM
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Originally posted by Miss iVTEC
GO BACK!! LOL! Just start up another conversation with her and pay attention this time. Look for the clues!

That happens to me sometimes. Or one of my friends will be like GIRL! HE WAS CHECKING YOU OUT! And I'm like..

...."Huh?!".... ooops!
hahahaha....HUH?

okay...thank you beth!

but i can't say anything bad about you gilgamesh, i am too skurred to talk to boys in person sometimes....

like last night, this one filipino dude, i kinda know him through a mutual friend and we've been talking online for the past week,well he was up at the local car meets and all i did was whine about how i wanted to go talk to him but i was too scared...

it happens to everyone
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
hahahaha....HUH?

okay...thank you beth!

but i can't say anything bad about you gilgamesh, i am too skurred to talk to boys in person sometimes....

like last night, this one filipino dude, i kinda know him through a mutual friend and we've been talking online for the past week,well he was up at the local car meets and all i did was whine about how i wanted to go talk to him but i was too scared...

it happens to everyone
I get that way...there was this very good looking young lady at the Grandaddy show I went to a few weeks ago...she was with a couple...would have been perfect, but I wussed out.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 02:50 PM
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Yeah, I even offered to go with Katie to compliment another dude on his bike so that she'd have a reason to be there. But no. It's okay Katie, we have faith you'll go talk to him ONE of these times =)
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 02:59 PM
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hehe I'm sure that you'll get hit on again Just be a little ore aware next time
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 03:27 PM
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Thanks Noriko.

I went back in just now. Got a number...asked her if she wanted to go and see the matrix.

She said yes without hesitation, but...she seemed to take a second with her number, I worry that it may be fake, if so, well then I just have to send in my buddies from now on when we get food to go...tought I would share my succes with all yas...
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Thanks Noriko.

I went back in just now. Got a number...asked her if she wanted to go and see the matrix.

She said yes without hesitation, but...she seemed to take a second with her number, I worry that it may be fake, if so, well then I just have to send in my buddies from now on when we get food to go...tought I would share my succes with all yas...
There ya go bro! I assume you got her name too? Go to http://www.whitepages.com and use the reverse phone lookup. See if her name matches, or even if the number is in the area. Now, even if that doesn't show anything, don't rely on just that. But if it shows her name, then you know it's not fake. Worth a quick shot.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 03:47 PM
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Sweet! now make sure the date goes well too!
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 03:47 PM
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Yeah I got her first name...what worries me is that the prefix is not in the area where she told me she lives...just looked it up, the number is in the complex where she tole me she lives, but the name is Jason...not her name, obviously, I hope shes new there, and this is the old guy, not her boyfriend or some shit.

I feel so wrong doing this
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 03:48 PM
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Sweet! now make sure the date goes well too!
Yep if she brings a roomate, I bring a roomate, if not then we go it alone
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:03 PM
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Congrats, let us know what happens when you dial that number, dont wait too long.
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 04:52 PM
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 06:18 PM
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...but the name is Jason...not her name, obviously, ...
Jennifer Jason Leigh?
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 06:48 PM
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Erm...maybe she lives with a male roommate and the phone is in his name, but he's gay so you have nothing to worry about? I used to live with a gay guy and the phone was in his name, so it's possible! Keep us posted!
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Thanks Noriko.

I went back in just now. Got a number...asked her if she wanted to go and see the matrix.

She said yes without hesitation, but...she seemed to take a second with her number, I worry that it may be fake, if so, well then I just have to send in my buddies from now on when we get food to go...tought I would share my succes with all yas...
congrats!!!!
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Old Nov 2, 2003 | 07:18 PM
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a lil OT...

i just did a check on my houes # and this asshole shows up instead of me

Footman, Richard
2616 Mission Rd

and i've been getting calls asking for this guy.... :P
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