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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:38 PM
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Falling in love after 3 dates?

Is this possible or have I finally drank myself retarded.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:45 PM
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You're retarded.
























j/k, maybe you're caught up in the world of lust?
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:49 PM
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Depends on the pics you are about to show us.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:49 PM
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maybe she's been slipping something in your drink?
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:51 PM
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It's possible, except you won't know for sure without benefit of hindsight. If you guys get married, have kids and love each other for the rest of your lives, then you could look back and say you fell in love in three days. But more than likely, it's lust at first sight.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:52 PM
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ok we have +1 for retarded and one on the fence.

could be lust i guess. she is 23 and it could be the dirty old man in me. but seriously i've dated alot of women and have never gotten along with someone so well, so fast. she seems to feel the same way. it's almost too perfect. i'm waiting for her to tell me she's a transexual pornstar with a scorching case of herpes.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:52 PM
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The same thing happened to me. The only way to know is to wait it out. Don't tell her you love her though too early. Wait for the right time.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:54 PM
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Yeah, I would just give it time, have you slept with her yet? I'm assuming no since you haven't seen her penis.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Don't tell her you love her though too early. Wait for the right time.
oh hell no...the love word will not be used for a LONG time. i cant be showing my cards this early in the game.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
Yeah, I would just give it time, have you slept with her yet? I'm assuming no since you haven't seen her penis.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:57 PM
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oh hell no...the love word will not be used for a LONG time. i cant be showing my cards this early in the game.
Poker face is very important.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
Yeah, I would just give it time, have you slept with her yet? I'm assuming no since you haven't seen her penis.
we haven't had sex per se but i said transexual. i verified she has no penis but it could have been removed so..
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
we haven't had sex per se but i said transexual. i verified she has no penis but it could have been removed so..
would you like me to find out for you??
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
we haven't had sex per se but i said transexual. i verified she has no penis but it could have been removed so..
Don't ask, don't tell
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Scooter
would you like me to find out for you??


Originally Posted by chef chris
Don't ask, don't tell
true. whatever 'it' turns out to be, I like it.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 10:02 PM
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I think it can happen but... some of us guys 'fall' too easily.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 10:21 PM
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when I found myself getting along too well with a woman, I always asked her, "Are you now, or have you ever been, a man?" . Worked like a charm, and kept me single for 35+ years.
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Old Sep 5, 2005 | 10:24 PM
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I dunno... 3 dates? That's not much time. You don't know about her quirky habits or other things that may annoy you. I've only been in love once, maybe twice. Never even thought about "love" until at least 4 months into a relationship.
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 12:09 AM
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Love is word that has great meaning...use it wisely my friend.
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 06:53 AM
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I fell in love before I dated a 'certain' girl - others were involved. I pursued, conquered & have been married to her for 25 yrs now. So yes, it can happen.
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Love is word that has great meaning...use it wisely my friend.


Originally Posted by miner
I fell in love before I dated a 'certain' girl - others were involved. I pursued, conquered & have been married to her for 25 yrs now. So yes, it can happen.


So, I guess it can happen depending on how much time you've gotten to know her. Who knows, maybe in between the 3 dates you guys spoke on the phone, email, IM, etc... alot and that's how you really got to know her.
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 10:44 AM
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You're retarded.
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 11:11 AM
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sounds like a good start
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 04:25 PM
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This is awesome... don't hold back; don't show her your cards yet, but don't make her call your bluff, either.

I've always been pretty quick to "fall in love." Scott doesn't want to read about this but the boyfriend I had previous to him was like that. He was my neighbor, never really knew him, but we met up while we were both on a walk on the bike trail one afternoon, so we walked home together... and I saw him every day after that for the next four years.

Hell, I was saying the L word to Scott before he'd ever seen me in person. Many of you might say that he's a brave man for agreeing to see me after that shit, but he said it first. So
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Old Sep 6, 2005 | 11:24 PM
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3 days??!?!!?!.. wow
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 12:24 AM
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where did you meet her zeroday?
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 04:31 AM
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Originally Posted by 04EuroAccordTsx
where did you meet her zeroday?
a local bar. she was out celebrating her birthday with friends. i was out celebrating thursday.
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 06:49 AM
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How much do you know this person?
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Savio
How much do you know this person?
i guess about as much as anyone can from 4 dates. seeing her again tomorrow. havent found a single thing i dont like about her. it's freaking me out.
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 09:24 AM
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maybe you jsut need to get laid.
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 09:47 AM
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we need pics
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Old Sep 7, 2005 | 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by jmathew34
we need pics
ok:


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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 01:44 PM
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Start wearing clothes mark, makes it easier to get away from that "sex appeal"
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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Chopper
Start wearing clothes mark, makes it easier to get away from that "sex appeal"
but it oozes out of my pores?

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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 09:45 PM
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Zero, what bar? Kate's?
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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
but it oozes out of my pores?


Time for neutrongina, I hear she's a little rough at first, but it all comes out at the end
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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
but it oozes out of my pores?

That's puss...not sex appeal.

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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by chef chris
Zero, what bar? Kate's?

scrimmages, next to the concord mall.
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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted by chef chris
That's puss...not sex appeal.

whatever it is it makes for good lubricant.

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Old Sep 11, 2005 | 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
scrimmages, next to the concord mall.
Gotcha.
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