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From: PA
Originally Posted by darksom1
Not no...but fuck no Whiskers ya nut!!! (3 exclamations mean I meant that shit - lol!)
Not female or she-male, but all true...smashing ass on cue...til it's blue M-A-L-E!!!!
Darksom1 - aka - star of "Da Porn"
Not female or she-male, but all true...smashing ass on cue...til it's blue M-A-L-E!!!!
Darksom1 - aka - star of "Da Porn"
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From: Germantown, MD
Originally Posted by Whiskers
Please tell me you are at least black....
Black in black on black! Let it marinate!
Mod job huh...hmmm...Are you reading this Ethan? LOL!
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From: Find the Needle
Originally Posted by innocentwinky
From a female's point of view, it was a low thing to do, hook up with a girl while you were under the influence. I'll be frank with you, women tend to remember those things. There are some girls that forgive and forget but from what i see, it seems that your ex isn't that type.
The best thing you can do at the moment is get your mind onto other things. Modify your car, go on a trip, go hang out with the guys, just do something. It's going to be a long process.. but its really up to you on how long you are going to be in the slum...
u still got 20 more years before you start to think of getting Rogain or hair replacement treatment,
carpe diem.
The best thing you can do at the moment is get your mind onto other things. Modify your car, go on a trip, go hang out with the guys, just do something. It's going to be a long process.. but its really up to you on how long you are going to be in the slum...
u still got 20 more years before you start to think of getting Rogain or hair replacement treatment,
carpe diem.
yes i "cheated" even though we where on a break, whatever that means....
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From: Find the Needle
Originally Posted by DoubleSh0t
I hope it works out for you man. I know everyone says "you're just 21, you got your whole life to meet girl x, y, z," but I understand where you're coming from. If I lost my girlfriend I'd be a wreck. Just make sure you learn from your mistakes.
Spend some time with good friends and stay busy, but take some time to yourself to and try to sort things out with yourself. Then maybe you can try talking to her again. If she said she still has feelings, you might have a chance down the road. Just give her some time too.
Spend some time with good friends and stay busy, but take some time to yourself to and try to sort things out with yourself. Then maybe you can try talking to her again. If she said she still has feelings, you might have a chance down the road. Just give her some time too.
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From: Find the Needle
Originally Posted by 1killercls
Post newds of her...it is part of the cleansing process.
I have to much respect for her, i have not and will not even post Pics of her in the pretty girls thread..
i may sound coincided, she is hot to me and everyone i know, i would not want her pics all over the interweb
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Originally Posted by darksom1
OP, hopefully you can read this and understand that it's not a diss, but just some real talk you need to know about how this whole thing works. But even if you don't, fuck it, I gotta give it to you real anyway...
Note: I'm not an advocate of cheating, but if you are going to...
I don't get this new breed of dudes that fuck up and can't live with their mistakes. Wtf is this crying and shit after you KNOWINGLY fuck up??? Question: While you were fucking the "piece of ass", were you crying? Did you have to stop and were unable to bust a nut because you had to regain your composure and couldn't get the image of the woman "that meant everything to you" out of your mind? Here is a clue that your shit is not correct that you are saying: If you remember what the fuck happened in detail like that, guess what? Yo ass wasn't that drunk! Man, you guys trip me out with this thinking women are just stupid as shit and don't come to these same conclusions I just did. If your mind and will power fails you when you need it the most, then you ain't ready for "extra-curricular" activities man!! Part of being a man is learning and evolving thru the mistakes you make. If you cheat on your lady there are two things that always come into play, for a real man anyway:
1) Be prepared to lose your lady if word gets out. Man the fuck up!
2) Cheat with someone that you don't mind being "stuck with". Nothing worse than cheating on your lady with a sub-par broad! Double idiot you feel me?
Again, none of that is to say I'm an advocate of cheating, it's just to say that if you are going to do it, you should keep those two things in mind. But getting depressed and whatnot because you cheated on your lady and got busted and shit, is not on the list. Be willing to "man up" for your mistakes. No way in hell you expect someone to believe that your woman was everything to you when you cheated on her. For the people that REALLY believe in that, cheating is not an option that even comes to mind. Nope, not at all. No way would someone that believed that risk "a lifetime of love" for a "momentous piece of ass". For a bitch that you forget before all the juice drains from your dick! A man in love wants no part of a fly by night piece of ass. He stays away from the places or situations that he is weak in, and that endanger that real love he has. Nope. You were young and dumb and just wanted to cum. So you did. Men make choices and live with them playboy.
Nah dude, real talk, you just joined the ranks of some brothers that were "sort of" in love, but not enough in love, and not man enough to say no to some pussy. You just had a good thing going on and lost it. You might have eventually respected, appreciated, and grew into loving this woman, but you confused your good situation with being in love. You had a leading lady. People in love don't make those kinds of moves because their minds and bodies don't react to the situation that you had before you the same way. They instinctively, and willingly, go in the other direction. Their mind and body in unison say thanks - but no thanks! Automatically, without any or much thought at all. Because real love is not about "who you should or should not fuck". It's not a decision you make. It's not just in your hands, or your head dawg. It's in your heart. It's in your everything.
Then, to be dumb enough to step to your lady after the fact, just proved to her that she wasn't fucking with a real man that LOVED and understood her as a real woman to be respected. So you ended up wrecking a good thing for some pussy. You lost a real woman to some pussy. You not waking up and manning up to that fact is making you, and turning you, into a pussy right now. Right before your very eyes dude. Manning up means not all this crying and shit and being depressed and whining and shit. It means living with your mistake, learning from it, and being better off despite it. So be a man and build a bridge and get over that shit...both pussy and love are still out there.
Peace2fingaz!
Note: I'm not an advocate of cheating, but if you are going to...
I don't get this new breed of dudes that fuck up and can't live with their mistakes. Wtf is this crying and shit after you KNOWINGLY fuck up??? Question: While you were fucking the "piece of ass", were you crying? Did you have to stop and were unable to bust a nut because you had to regain your composure and couldn't get the image of the woman "that meant everything to you" out of your mind? Here is a clue that your shit is not correct that you are saying: If you remember what the fuck happened in detail like that, guess what? Yo ass wasn't that drunk! Man, you guys trip me out with this thinking women are just stupid as shit and don't come to these same conclusions I just did. If your mind and will power fails you when you need it the most, then you ain't ready for "extra-curricular" activities man!! Part of being a man is learning and evolving thru the mistakes you make. If you cheat on your lady there are two things that always come into play, for a real man anyway:
1) Be prepared to lose your lady if word gets out. Man the fuck up!
2) Cheat with someone that you don't mind being "stuck with". Nothing worse than cheating on your lady with a sub-par broad! Double idiot you feel me?
Again, none of that is to say I'm an advocate of cheating, it's just to say that if you are going to do it, you should keep those two things in mind. But getting depressed and whatnot because you cheated on your lady and got busted and shit, is not on the list. Be willing to "man up" for your mistakes. No way in hell you expect someone to believe that your woman was everything to you when you cheated on her. For the people that REALLY believe in that, cheating is not an option that even comes to mind. Nope, not at all. No way would someone that believed that risk "a lifetime of love" for a "momentous piece of ass". For a bitch that you forget before all the juice drains from your dick! A man in love wants no part of a fly by night piece of ass. He stays away from the places or situations that he is weak in, and that endanger that real love he has. Nope. You were young and dumb and just wanted to cum. So you did. Men make choices and live with them playboy.
Nah dude, real talk, you just joined the ranks of some brothers that were "sort of" in love, but not enough in love, and not man enough to say no to some pussy. You just had a good thing going on and lost it. You might have eventually respected, appreciated, and grew into loving this woman, but you confused your good situation with being in love. You had a leading lady. People in love don't make those kinds of moves because their minds and bodies don't react to the situation that you had before you the same way. They instinctively, and willingly, go in the other direction. Their mind and body in unison say thanks - but no thanks! Automatically, without any or much thought at all. Because real love is not about "who you should or should not fuck". It's not a decision you make. It's not just in your hands, or your head dawg. It's in your heart. It's in your everything.
Then, to be dumb enough to step to your lady after the fact, just proved to her that she wasn't fucking with a real man that LOVED and understood her as a real woman to be respected. So you ended up wrecking a good thing for some pussy. You lost a real woman to some pussy. You not waking up and manning up to that fact is making you, and turning you, into a pussy right now. Right before your very eyes dude. Manning up means not all this crying and shit and being depressed and whining and shit. It means living with your mistake, learning from it, and being better off despite it. So be a man and build a bridge and get over that shit...both pussy and love are still out there.
Peace2fingaz!
I will agree to everything you said!.
Many of my friends are single well all of them are. 80% of the guy friends are hoes
Dirty sluts at least they think act and do.Being around them tends to rub off if that makes sense, " Show me your links I will tell who you are?"...
any way i suck at expressing my feelings in to text ill do my best.
NO i did not bust when i poked the dumb girl. i felt guilty,ashamed and dirty after what i did. No i will not ever look,feel,think, or even contemplate a thought about a girl that I'm in the same room,party,work,etc. with. No I'm not perfect or ever will be like you said i need to stop whinnying,crying and complaining and i did just that...... I will come back and get in to detail as much as i can but im at work now so i cant right now.....
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From: Find the Needle
UPDATE:
I met up with her on Friday, we talked she was upset even more so, since "it" happened in the back seat of my car. We both went in to her car i hugged her and held her until she calmed down. I did my best to my ability to explain what happened, how i felt, what i did, how i did it, why it happened. After about 3-4 hours she took off, I went home she texted me saying she's going to her ex's house to fuck so i knew how it felt
I asked her really? or you just don't want to go home and your playing this game to hurt me? Her: .I met up with her again and convinced her to come over to my house and talk. We get to my house we talked about
what,we ended up going to bed together and spent all four days form Friday till Monday together. Each day i took her out on a guess i can call them dates to start out "Friendship" over. Since both sides of our family for some reason don't want us to be together we sort of/kind of sneaked around. I came to her house last night hung out for a bit helped her cook then went home. I sent her a text saying goodnight (since day one that i met her i have every single day sent her a text either good morning or goodnight with a little extra) she called and told me she hates me for what i did, but really really missed me and loves me and cant wait to see me
. So maybe
maybe but one baby step at a time..oh yeah forgot i have till valentines day to woahw her and prove/show to her that i really want her and will be a MAN.....(ideas?)
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From: Find the Needle
forgot: after all that she asked me to listen to this song.
Modern Talking
"Modern Talking Words Don't Come Easy "
Words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
this is the only way
for me to say I love you
words don't come easy
well, I'm just a music man
melodies are for my best friend
but my words are coming out wrong, girl
I reveal, my heart to you and
hope that you believe it's true cause
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
this is just a simple song
that I've made for you and my own
there's no hidden meaning you know when I
when I say I love you honey!
please believe I really do cause
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
it isn't easy
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
this is the only way
for me to say I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy
Modern Talking
"Modern Talking Words Don't Come Easy "
Words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
this is the only way
for me to say I love you
words don't come easy
well, I'm just a music man
melodies are for my best friend
but my words are coming out wrong, girl
I reveal, my heart to you and
hope that you believe it's true cause
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
this is just a simple song
that I've made for you and my own
there's no hidden meaning you know when I
when I say I love you honey!
please believe I really do cause
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
it isn't easy
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
how can I find a way
to make you see I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy to me
this is the only way
for me to say I love you
words don't come easy
words don't come easy
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From: Find the Needle
Originally Posted by Scottman111
She's giving you another chance...just don't screw it up
What's up with your families?
What's up with your families?
Fawk....Well yes and no she's giving me another chance but its like a roller coaster, right up to about hour ago everything was awesome i could not ask for anything more. Now she tells me she does not not and saying goodbye
. I'm not giving up or blaming her.families.. long story short.
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From: TEXAS
good luck bro.....you have to realize that she's an emotional wreck herself right now and prob extremely confused. i hope it works out for yall but keep in mind that the shit you did will ALWAYS come back to haunt you, everytime you get in a fight, an argument whatever, that will prob be her ammo. you just have to find a way to win that trust back b/c that is something she obviously does not have for you at the current moment and time.
GL with it all man....if it all goes pizdets then just keep ur head up and learn from ur mistakes like everyone else already mentioned
GL with it all man....if it all goes pizdets then just keep ur head up and learn from ur mistakes like everyone else already mentioned
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From: Find the Needle
Originally Posted by leolebo28
good luck bro.....you have to realize that she's an emotional wreck herself right now and prob extremely confused. i hope it works out for yall but keep in mind that the shit you did will ALWAYS come back to haunt you, everytime you get in a fight, an argument whatever, that will prob be her ammo. you just have to find a way to win that trust back b/c that is something she obviously does not have for you at the current moment and time.
GL with it all man....if it all goes pizdets then just keep ur head up and learn from ur mistakes like everyone else already mentioned
GL with it all man....if it all goes pizdets then just keep ur head up and learn from ur mistakes like everyone else already mentioned
on the ammo part she has the memorey like no other, she can tell me down to last detail what she had for breakfast when she was seven. Already took the in to consideration of the scale of keep fighting for her or move on......
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I didnt read this all but i have been thru something similar and thought the world was over only to find the single life was great. I really hate to tell you but the relationship is over. You can and probably will get back together a few times but every time is just going to be worse then the last. Do yourselves both a favor and just cut all contact. It sucks but in the long run it is the best thing
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
I didnt read this all but i have been thru something similar and thought the world was over only to find the single life was great. I really hate to tell you but the relationship is over. You can and probably will get back together a few times but every time is just going to be worse then the last. Do yourselves both a favor and just cut all contact. It sucks but in the long run it is the best thing
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