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Old 10-30-2007, 02:16 PM
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Ever had a crush on a co-worker?

I just got married about a year ago and I love my wife.The idea of cheating has not never cross my mind but I have this very beautiful co-worker I feel very attracted to, She flirts with me all the time and most of the time I try to avoid her becuase I feel kind of guilty for liking her . Any had a similar problem
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so she's attractive and you like her, but you've never thought about messing around with her!?!? dont buy that...get in where you fit in, guy...good luck

think you should snap a picture of her on your phone and let us know what you're getting yourself into
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pics of said coworker?
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Originally Posted by OrngeAc3.2
so she's attractive and you like her, but you've never thought about messing around with her!?!? dont buy that...get in where you fit in, guy...good luck

think you should snap a picture of her on your phone and let us know what you're getting yourself into

I have thought about it but I wont do it, like I said I love my wife.
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i'm sure you love your car as well, does that mean you wont go out and give a new car a test drive?!?!
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Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.
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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.

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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.
this will be the best/most accurate post in this thread!
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short answer: yes


Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.
, I was replying to the OP and glanced over this comment and immediately knew it was Pull_T without even looking at who posted it.
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what would you do if hypothetically speaking she came on to you very strongly?
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i'm more than sure that your wife finds others attractive and has little crushes, you are human afterall, well lets hope. as long as you dont act on it, i dont see it as a problem
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I've had crushes on a couple co-workers, dated some and mentally undressed a few. However, since I've been married I've been (un)lucky enough to work in an environment almost completely devoid of eye candy.

With that said, as long as my eyes work and still have enough control of my hands (and other appendages) to keep them to myself, I will look, but not touch.
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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.
I better get a job....
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Yeah, been there done that. Flirting, laughing at jokes, lunches/dinners/happy hour, burning the midnight oil, yakking away ... she thinks she's made a work buddy/ally but all I wonder is whether she would close her eyes when she stuffs my cock in her mouth or look directly into my eyes as she bobs away.

Being in a commited relationship, it can get hard (NPI) since the grass always seem to be as green as an Irish countryside. But I convince myself that even if a co-worker/gal is smoking hot ... someplace, somewhere, at sometime, someone was absolutely sick of her shit. Luckily, my current co-workers are all prehistoric so I have no worries or boners.
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
Yeah, been there done that. Flirting, laughing at jokes, lunches/dinners/happy hour, burning the midnight oil, yakking away ... she thinks she's made a work buddy/ally but all I wonder is whether she would close her eyes when she stuffs my cock in her mouth or look directly into my eyes as she bobs away.

Being in a commited relationship, it can get hard (NPI) since the grass always seem to be as green as an Irish countryside. But I convince myself that even if a co-worker/gal is smoking hot ... someplace, somewhere, at sometime, someone was absolutely sick of her shit. Luckily, my current co-workers are all prehistoric so I have no worries or boners.
Nice...

Wilma Flintstone is hot though...
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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.


Whats gonna happen when you find out she was fucking Tyrel from shipping? I bet you are going to be kicking yourself. I say fuck her just to be safe.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Nice...

Wilma Flintstone is hot though...
:shakehead I'd take Betty Rubble of Wilma any day of the week.

You'd probably take Ginger over Maryann, too.
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Originally Posted by moeronn
:shakehead I'd take Betty Rubble of Wilma any day of the week.

You'd probably take Ginger over Maryann, too.


Red head>brunette
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Originally Posted by moeronn
:shakehead I'd take Betty Rubble of Wilma any day of the week.

You'd probably take Ginger over Maryann, too.
I have a thing for redheads...
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I have a thing for redheads...
Yeah, me too. It's in my pants and responds readily to tactile sensation.
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^^ You three can train Wilma and Ginger and I'll take Betty and Maryann for myself.
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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Well, people spend more time with work colleagues than they do their spouses. It is inevitable for you to find some attractive, then desire them, then fuck them. Your wife will fuck someone at her work too.
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When I was single I had a crush on this girl I taught with. But luckily I was able to act on it.

I think it's OK to have a crush on someone. Most of them are 100% innocent. Just don't act on it and you will be fine.
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girls want what they cant have. You're married so they want you. Its like a challenge or game or something.
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Originally Posted by leedogg
girls want what they cant have. You're married so they want you. Its like a challenge or game or something.
If you really love your wife don't act on it. Your guilt will fuck you over. No biggy just looking tho. Me and my girl have that policy...look but don't touch. As a man, you'll wanna tap that other girl's ass, but as a husband (who gave his word to his wife to be loyal and loving) you gotta stay faithful man. Good luck.
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
Yeah, been there done that. Flirting, laughing at jokes, lunches/dinners/happy hour, burning the midnight oil, yakking away ... she thinks she's made a work buddy/ally but all I wonder is whether she would close her eyes when she stuffs my cock in her mouth or look directly into my eyes as she bobs away.

Being in a commited relationship, it can get hard (NPI) since the grass always seem to be as green as an Irish countryside. But I convince myself that even if a co-worker/gal is smoking hot ... someplace, somewhere, at sometime, someone was absolutely sick of her shit. Luckily, my current co-workers are all prehistoric so I have no worries or boners.

hahaha


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Originally Posted by GrandeInter10
If you really love your wife don't act on it. Your guilt will fuck you over. No biggy just looking tho. Me and my girl have that policy...look but don't touch. As a man, you'll wanna tap that other girl's ass, but as a husband (who gave his word to his wife to be loyal and loving) you gotta stay faithful man. Good luck.

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Originally Posted by GrandeInter10
If you really love your wife don't act on it. Your guilt will fuck you over. No biggy just looking tho. Me and my girl have that policy...look but don't touch. As a man, you'll wanna tap that other girl's ass, but as a husband (who gave his word to his wife to be loyal and loving) you gotta stay faithful man. Good luck.
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Although it seems like it would be fun to this co-worker, you wouldn't want to cheat on your wife.. That being said just let the co-worker give you head.


Remember our President got head in the oval office, and didn't get in trouble. So logically getting head isn't such a bad thing.
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Originally Posted by hornyleprechaun
Although it seems like it would be fun to this co-worker, you wouldn't want to cheat on your wife.. That being said just let the co-worker give you head.


Remember our President got head in the oval office, and didn't get in trouble. So logically getting head isn't such a bad thing.
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But honey, we didn't make love! We just fucked.
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But honey, we didn't make love! She just fucked me!


Fixed.
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Originally Posted by hornyleprechaun


Remember our President got head in the oval office, and didn't get in trouble. So logically getting head isn't such a bad thing.


but that kid Genarlow Wilson got 10 years in prison from a BJ.
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but that kid Genarlow Wilson got 10 years in prison from a BJ.

Yeah but at least he is free now. Bill still has to deal with Hillary daily
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Originally Posted by hornyleprechaun
Yeah but at least he is free now. Bill still has to deal with Hillary daily


hahah true.. i dont know how he does it.
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Nothing touch, nothing gain. I was rape, I swear!
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Originally Posted by SupaRookie
Nothing touch, nothing gain. I was rape, I swear!

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x2... I thought I just didn't get it cuz I was just falling asleep @ desk... but maybe not


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