My Cousins Wife is a Bipolar Biatch. She seriously needs to get check. She be on some other level shit. She goes crazy at my cousin because he wants to chill with his family. I can't even chill at his house with out the biatch going crazy. I figured since she doesn't let him out i might as well go hang with him and his fam. But no that's just as worse. She even talks shit about me and how I am an unfit father when she doesn't even know me or my life. BTW They just got married this past year so this is why she doesn't even know me to be talking shit. Hes called me sometimes Frustrated and getting ready to Beat her ass. Hes claimed that hes slammed her against the wall once because she be going crazy. Not that I approve of this behavior, I told him he should just leave or something before ever putting his hands on her.

I say It takes a special person to deal with this disorder and if your up for it, GOOD. If not leave as soon as you can. My Cousin deals with it but he himself has issues that need to be taken care of. He his very Physical and likes to fight for any little thing, So maybe his relationship isn't very healthy. I try to talk to him as much as I can. I am going to Tampa this weekend and hopefully I get to hang with him a little if his wife lets him. if not Oh well nothing I can do.

 

I hate that everyone is telling you to get out while you can. I will say that it sounds like she's in denial of having a condition. I would say that being "dependent" on medication for bi-polar disorder is a good thing! I would lay down some rules and stick to them. Tell her you love her but if she wants to marry you, she has to take her medication regularly and she can't drink.

My cousin is bi-polar and takes her medication faithfully!! You would never know that she has bi-polar disorder. She has been happily married for over 15 years. It can be done - but she needs to get real and you need to get tough on her.

 

Im sorry I am not trying to tell him to Leave while u still can, Because that would be unfair to her. I was just trying to specify that it takes time and patience to deal with someone with any type of disorder. So if hes willing to do so for the rest of his life then hes all good, But don't fool your self in thinking that its going to be easy road. Marriage alone is hard enough for people, with bills, stress, kids, etc and then you add this to it. It will be a lot to handle for some people. I assume since you are still with her and are talking about marriage you should be good. You just have to be there for her a little more. :.)

 

Na - I wasn't singling you out Mafyoso - almost everyone on page 1 said that.

 

Thanks

 

I sorta had a one night fling with this chick that was bipolar (she mentioned it earlier on that night). The next morning, she wakes up and was like... "WTF??!!! Where am I??" I asked her if she was okay, she got her clothes on as fast as she could... and took off

I was like...

 

At Least you didn't have to do that Awkward GET THE FUCK OUT Deal

 

No, but had we gone to her place, SHE would have been the one telling ME to GTFO!

 

Yes, and she was smoking hot. It didn't end well and if it wasn't for the fact that she was my first serious gf I would have gotten out a lot sooner then I did.

 

You need to get her properly diagnosed, this ain't a place to do it. It will take lots of patient, gentle, non-confrontational approach. You should go to the doctors with her, if possible and she wants you to. Trust is a huge factor - if she doesn't trust you, you will have a hard time convincing her. Grab some books on difficult conversations before you even start the convo, wrong word and you're done. Sadly, I had very difficult moment in my life and it nearly destroyed our marriage. Counseling was mad expensive and 2yrs later she's still on mess. Its manageable but hard... Takes a lot of work. Looking back, it's hard to say if I would have married the person knowing what I know now. We got 2 kids and I couldn't just walk away and I hope they didnt inherit this gene.... But its at least. 33% chance they might.

Long road for you, you have some serious soul searching ahead and if you decide to stick it out, really really really be sure before you get married or have kids. Good luck...

 

Best.slutexcuse.EVAR

tell me u fell for it... Like she's gonna admit to one night stand lmao....


Men would believe anything..

 

she told me the night BEFORE (we hooked up) she was bipolar

 

Bipolar disorder can affect sexual behavior.

 

u do not want this bro. there should be NO DOUBT when jumping into a marriage. the fact that you are on here asking is proof enough that you guys need to split. seriously, dont become a statistic.

 

definitely has helped me have the craziest sex of my life