hahha wifey is an inside joke, not meant to demean/insult. And I suppose it depends on what you consider together. I'm not sure how you operate, but I think that you can be friends with someone while in the "get to know you" process and then at the moment you decide to give something a try you're together. Not that you're going to marry the person etc, but if you are exclusive and trying to make something work, you're together.

And the other abandonments...the ones that mattered anyway, were with people who had histories with me. This incident wasn't going to ruin my life or anything, I was just bummed about it. Another disappointment.

 

Too funny. Thats kind a harsh tho.

 

I am usually kidding because I have a wifey but I know the other dudes aren't when they go "HOW u doing" so don't feel bad. It not u! The other dudes don't drive/used to drive a CL and that just means they aren't cool.

 

This is way off the subject but it kinda caught my eye. In reading another post by GeishaGirl, she used the number 39483948934. This number is to close just wondering if you keep a running total or where it comes from? I know I need a life....

 

^^^hahah I just press a lot of numbers when I am talking about a large number that isn't really specific...I guess its my way of saying a lot. 3498394839..that was random..I need a life too.

 

I'm agreeing with soopa on this one. You're 20 and you have a lot of growing up to do.

And maybe you need to be alone for awhile, and learn how to deal with it.

 

Funny there so close though. Sorry to hear about your bf. His loss.

 

I've always been alone, I doubt I need to be doing any more of that. Its not that I CANT deal with be alone, I just don't like it. What age am I supposed to start dating, 30? I'm sure that this is a learning experience and also part of the process of growing up.

 

You're desire to not be alone is making you too dependent.

You dated a guy for 3 weeks. He was never your boyfriend. To use that title after such little time is too needy.

 

I could see if I was saying he was my fiance, can't live without him, life revolves around him, etc...but we just made a choice to give something a try. I knew him for a while before we got together. Its not like I just found some guy on the side of the road, picked him up and told him that he was my man. Everything starts somewhere and when he and I started was 3 weeks ago. I'm not sure how its "supposed" to be. Do you just befriend someone, hang with them and then somewhere along the line (3 months is the time frame I'm hearing) start the clock? If we were just dating/free to see other people then I wouldn't be calling him my bf, but since we're only seeing each other I'm not sure what else to call him.

 

You call him the guy you are dating.
You can date someone exclusively.
titles come in further down the road, and they just tend to happen.

 

^^^I get what you're saying. I guess its different here. Theres no one way to do it right?

 

You're there isnt

and its not different there, its immaturity. I speak from experience not my ass. I know what is like to be 20.

 

listen.. i can say from experience that EVERYONE handles shit dofferently and every situation is a new hand dealt from a different stack of cards!!! I have rushed into things, I have layed back too long... every girl has been diff, we have had diff chemistry.. NO NE here has the right to say what is WRONG OR RIGHT for a relationship... whats good for you and what sgood for Geisha nad whats good for me are all diff, and to go further whats good for our respected mates will be diff on top of that...

Maturity has to do with how one acts in a relationship... no how the relationship progresses... Emotions at anny age and maturity level can easily take control and make people say and do dumb or strange things...

K.. Im done!

 

Immature beacuse I call someone my bf? I'm sorry, I don't take that title too seriously...its just a title. If it makes you feel better, fine, he is the guy I'm dating...doesn't really make it any different for me than calling him my bf. It won't make the relationship better or worse, I just don't see the big deal. Just because I say he is my bf, it doesn't mean that I'm already planning the wedding or becoming really attached. I posted because I was bummed...not because I was on the verge of death or having a crisis. If you knew my history you'd know that there is a lot of abandonment in my past...not just from "bfs" or dating buddies, but from males in general...so it wasnt just this dating partner of mine that had me down..it was life. It would have been really immature of me to make a huge deal out of the break-up of a "relationship" a few weeks old...but it wasn't just that, as I've said before. Thanks for the heads up about the title thing..I'll remember that the next time to avoid:flamer: :shakehd:

 

god damn!!! you are fine boy! yummy!!

 

sorry to hear about this guy girlie....if u ever wanna talk hit me up on AIM... katies23cl

 

^^^aww thanks!

 

and you guys could never figure out why i liked his posts to me

 

i love his smile!!

 

^^^ smile ownzz

 

so does his body

 

gheesh

 

what killer! you know you think hes sexy too

 

:ghey:

 

He looks very genuine... he's probably a player.

j/k... gorgeous smile, hon!

 

Thanks ladies....and no...I'm not a player! Ya know....not EVERY Italian man is a player/asshole. I usually get put in that category based on my looks all of the time....OH WELL! If having a good time and living life is wrong...then shoot me! As for getting dumped that way.....nothing gets you over the last like getting under the next! Move on and find a normal guy....we do exist

 

And Silvia....If I go to FLA. anytime soon......I'll get us a nice bottle of Sambuca and give you a nice message. If I recall correctly, you like black jelly beans too

 

haha I remember you telling me this the last time I got dumped (damn I sound like a loser lol), I've never forgotten "nothing gets you over the last like getting under the next" bwahaha so much truth in those words.

 

Take my advice....don't look for it...then it will come to you! Its that Murphy's Law thing

 

Whatever can go wrong does???

 

Modified slightly to mean that when you are looking for something, you can't find it, and the minute you stop looking, it pops up right in your face?

 

Noooooo soopa, you can be with someone in a months time. It all depends on the relationship. If you are "exclusive" then yes, he IS your man. But if it's still in the "test drive" process then, yea, I agree with you. But chang and him were EXCLUSIVE, which in turn labels them as a COUPLE. Yea, I do agree that a month is wayy too soon to get attached to someone(sorry changalangs-you know i love you ). Self-control is what I stick by; at least for a 3 month trial period(especially if it's on been 3 months since you've known them-not only intimately). So if your post was in reference to her not really "being with him" because it was barely a month and you don't consider that a "real" relationship, then I feel ya. But the fact is they were commited, therefore, they were a couple. But anyways...


btw, I could use that "nice italian man" up there.. yerp. BRING IT. [grr] :P

 

WORD. You're on the ball man.. perfectly said!!

 

I agree... he's exactly right.

 

you want the Italian Stallion???



meet Tony Soprano

 

damn man... that pic sucks!!!!! lol

Sorry Nicky.. I am the true guinea here..lol There is only room for one stallion.. and Im taking the crown!!!





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Hey little girl, I'm glad to hear that you and your bf are back together and have resolved his disappearing act. I was worried about you for a minute. Call me if you need anything.

 

 

such a noob...and how many showers to get that tatoo off???