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Old Jan 17, 2004 | 09:44 PM
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Dumped

Title pretty much says its all. Dumped in the most horrible way...silence. He just disappeared/abandoned me. Lovely.:'(
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Old Jan 17, 2004 | 09:46 PM
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Group hug for Geisha!
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Old Jan 17, 2004 | 10:18 PM
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Maybe he'll come around. How long's it been?
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Old Jan 17, 2004 | 10:43 PM
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j/p.......sorry girl.
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Old Jan 17, 2004 | 11:18 PM
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oh hunny i'm so sorry!! you're right, that's the worst way... at least from my experiences.
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 12:17 AM
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 12:20 AM
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 12:43 AM
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sorry noriko (sp? :P) is this the same guy you were having problems with a few months ago? the loser? if yes, don't even sweat it. fuck it. he's a loser and you're too good for him. so don't even feel bad. you should feel glad that you're not being drag along by that loser.

if not, you guys haven't been going out for that long, so don't take it too serioiusly

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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 01:02 AM
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hey you seem to be a real sweet and beautiful girl.. fawkin him.. let him realize what he lost and then tell him to fawk off...

you deserve better.... move to NY lol...
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 01:10 AM
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Re: Dumped

Originally posted by GeishaGirl
Title pretty much says its all. Dumped in the most horrible way...silence. He just disappeared/abandoned me. Lovely.:'(
may I PLEASE be the rebound guy! please PM me your digits.
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 01:41 AM
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Re: Re: Dumped

Thanks for the support everyone..

Originally posted by '03TLP&'03ACCRD
may I PLEASE be the rebound guy! please PM me your digits.
check your PM

Originally posted by Chinisimo
sorry noriko (sp? :P) is this the same guy you were having problems with a few months ago? the loser? if yes, don't even sweat it. fuck it. he's a loser and you're too good for him. so don't even feel bad. you should feel glad that you're not being drag along by that loser.

if not, you guys haven't been going out for that long, so don't take it too serioiusly

No, the loser is long gone...he has moved onto greener pastures. Funny...he is with the girl who hated me. No wonder she hated me...she wanted to steal my man...and she DID . So I hooked up with this new guy exactly one month ago...and then he just goes AWOL. Its not really missing HIM thats the problem...its just that another man has chosen to abandon me. No males ever want to stick around in my life :'(. I have abandonment issues. Thanks for the hug

Originally posted by Batin Dean
Maybe he'll come around. How long's it been?
There is very little chance he'll come back around. Hes already gone and deleted me from his friendster and xanga thing. He couldn't even have the balllz to confront me and TELL me its over...WTF
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 09:41 AM
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id offer you all my support and advice, but then i would just reiterate everything I just said to you over AIM
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 10:01 AM
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Geisha.. you dont like NY?!?!?!
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 10:06 AM
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^^^hahaha I like NY! *books ticket* you going to show me the city?

hehe thanks for the advice rachael~ yeah, you basically said it on AIM! That bastard!~!
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 12:16 PM
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sorry to hear that, you definately need to move on to someone better who appreciates you
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 02:34 PM
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dayum...and ya just got teh webpage done...sorry...But you are so young...don't sweat it.
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 05:48 PM
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What a jerk!!! Sorry to hear that girl. But look at it this way...if he's the kind of guy that would do something like that, then you don't need his sorry self anyways!!!! Hang in there!!!
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 05:59 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
^^^hahaha I like NY! *books ticket* you going to show me the city?

hehe thanks for the advice rachael~ yeah, you basically said it on AIM! That bastard!~!
I think we NY yorkers will show u more than the city. Don't worry it won't be ashburner style. Well unless u want to. hehehe
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 06:33 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
^^^hahaha I like NY! *books ticket* you going to show me the city?

hehe thanks for the advice rachael~ yeah, you basically said it on AIM! That bastard!~!

I can show you all you want to see.. book the tickets.. i acan get you the place to stay and show you the way!
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 09:32 PM
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Old Jan 18, 2004 | 10:50 PM
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 01:07 AM
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 11:37 AM
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Noriko, screw that...most guys are retahhhded...like this one...if I can hold out fait of finding the right girl (one that lasts more than 4 weeks) you can find the right guy...you should have no trouble with this...I would walk up and hit on you in a coffee house or a bar (if I had that confidence to do that sort of thing, that is) Now cheer up will ya?

Sara,

Nice to have you back...stick around this time alright?
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Noriko, screw that...most guys are retahhhded...like this one...if I can hold out fait of finding the right girl (one that lasts more than 4 weeks) you can find the right guy...you should have no trouble with this...I would walk up and hit on you in a coffee house or a bar (if I had that confidence to do that sort of thing, that is) Now cheer up will ya?

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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Sara,

Nice to have you back...stick around this time alright?
thanks... i'll try
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 04:41 PM
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 05:20 PM
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dont worry about it, he doesnt deserve u.
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Old Jan 19, 2004 | 11:44 PM
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 03:07 AM
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 06:40 AM
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:buah: fuck him.. lol.. even tho things are better now.. fuck him.. i'll jet li his ass pussy.. he should be down..

lmfao.. jk girl.. but forreal, need me to tell him where to get off? Ju' got-tit! .. Then we can :blaze:, well I can. heh
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 09:00 AM
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 09:23 AM
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is this the guy you just started dating like a few weeks ago? and didnt you just break up with another guy right before that?


you need to stop getting so attached. 1 month does not make you a couple...

should be a minimum of 3 months before anyone can say their even `together`
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 09:28 AM
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this guy?

http://www2.hawaii.edu/~krystlek/babe.html
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=jaelee2280

???

sounds... and looks... like a total jaw too me.

dammm......i havent updates this for so longshittt.....lol.....my comp is pissin me the fuk off....anyways drop me a comment and ill hit u back ok...k den!!
- jaelee2280

apparently hooked on phonics did not work for him
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 09:49 AM
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Originally posted by soopa
this guy?

http://www2.hawaii.edu/~krystlek/babe.html
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=jaelee2280

???

sounds... and looks... like a total jaw too me.

- jaelee2280

apparently hooked on phonics did not work for him
Plus he got hit with the ugly stick way too many times.
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 10:41 AM
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yo girl, that's some fierce shiat. You should stay single for awhile, trust me, its by FAR the best policy!

Hit me up on IM when you are on!
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 12:06 PM
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haha whoaaa you guys are mean hahah jk I understand. He isn't the best looking guy in the world, especially in that picture lol...but I suppose that he made me smile and feel comfortable being who I am. Before he and I got together I was dumped right before the holidays so I'm sure that wanting to spend the holidays with someone played a role in the get together. I have issues with being single, I suppose I'm a little afraid of being alone since in my life I've always had to go it alone :'(.
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 12:26 PM
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omg shaddup.

you make it sound like you were engaged to this dude.... you been dating since Dec 20th!!! not even a month!

thats like... nothing. get over it
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 12:28 PM
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^^^just talking about my life in general. When he left it wasn't really about HIM leaving, it was more that yet another person has abandoned me. I have a LONG history of being abandoned I should suck it up and take it like a man or be used to it since its happened like 39483948394 times...but for some reason it still sucks.
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 12:38 PM
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its not abandonment when the person was never with you in the first place. lol

you cant be `together` in a months time.
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Old Jan 20, 2004 | 12:40 PM
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if i had been dating you for 3 weeks...

and you put my pic and shit up on your website and called me your `wifey` i'd run for the hills too.

i would commit sepuku
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