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Old 09-27-2005, 04:09 PM
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Drunken fun or the game is on?

I met this girl through a friend many months back. We all went out back in July and had a good time or whatever. Around then we got a hold of each other's phone numbers and screen names, and once in a while chatted about random stuff. Just her and I hung out once in Aug I want to say, went for ice cream or something. But after that didn't really hang out and just talked on occasion phone/IM.

Last week she called me to come out clubbing, so a buddy of mine, who also met this girl through the same friend came out with me. Our friend that knows this girl couldn't come out, but we went anyways. So we go out, and its just me, my buddy, the girl, her older sister and her friends. None of this girl's friends were out with us, nor was our friend who we met her through, so that seemed a little odd. So after a few drinks and what not, I think homegirl was tipsy. Her sister and sister's friends leave, so its my buddy, myself and this girl. My buddy is taken, so he goes to the bathroom or something, and homegirl starts grinding on me like no other. My buddy comes back and she at first takes it easy for a bit, and he dances with her (but she doesn't ride him or anything), but then she pulls me in and starts grinding on me, my buddy just moves out of the way cause he's thinkin homegirl just wants it from me. Whatever, club closes so then we're walkin back to her place from the club and girl is holding my hand. I let go multiple times, and there she goes grabbing it again. I tried to even put my arm on her shoulder to just avoid the hand holding and sure enough she grabs my hand up there.

We made a bet that night that I won, so the deal is I'm goin over to her apartment tomorrow and she's cooking me dinner, we talked Sunday and she made sure I was still coming on Wednesday. So I'm wondering, was this girl just being tipsy, having druken fun, or is the game on and she want something more?
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wants more.

give her more
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I thought you were in a LDR?


Anyways sounds like shes into you if shes asking for you to come over and cooking. Swing the mighty indian dick mang!
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It's hard to tell. I introduced my friend to my gf's best friend, hoping they would hookup. I was dissappointed when she professed "she wasn't into him, didn't find him attractive, etc." while sober. Well they hooked up anyway, even though she was too blacked out to remember. Then the next day she was not too proud of herself and said she still wasn't into him.

But i dont think she would invite him over for dinner and call Wednesday to make sure he was still coming, so you might be onto something here.
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Was never in LDR. Was dating someone, but she's still too fricken indecisive so I cut that shit off.
Old 09-27-2005, 04:34 PM
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she probably likes you if she had to make sure you were still coming to her house....pretty safe bet...
she'll probably make another move on you then...

(if that was me in that situation, and i wasn't into the guy, i'd try my dammnedest to avoid him for at least a couple of weeks)
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I think you could have hit it that night at the club.
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1 date and she's already cooking you dinner?

Buy the ring.
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I think she likes you. She's liked you for awhile but the alcohol just let it out.
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She brown? :Paranoid:
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Originally Posted by stevie
1 date and she's already cooking you dinner?

Buy the ring.

Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
She brown? :Paranoid:
Old 09-27-2005, 05:43 PM
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If you like her, go for it! She wants more, like a relationship. If you don't want that, be straight up with her.
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Couldn't have hit it that night, 1, had to take my boy home, 2, her sis was staying that night.

I'm still skeptical, I mean, sometimes alcohol makes you do crazy shit, so I guess I can play devil's advocate on this one.

Yes Jesal she is brown.
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Alcohol can show people their true feelings. If she was able to walk then im sure she remembers everything she did that night.

If she was embarrassed from her actions then she wouldnt have invited you over for dinner.

Now shut it and enjoy yourself! post pics of her for jatt
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Obviously no girl could ever want you sober, so I vote that it was the alcohol motivating her to do something she wouldn't otherwise do.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Obviously no girl could ever want you sober, so I vote that it was the alcohol motivating her to do something she wouldn't otherwise do.

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give it to her, you can do eeet
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Do it and bring wine (or Red Bull and vodka)
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She definitely likes you and has no qualms letting you know that. As someone else pointed out, the alcohol just helped her let go of inhibitions. Enjoy the dinner!
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Yeah, sounds like she is into you - or at least will let you into her

But the whole hand holding thing seems a bit premature/presumtuous. See how it plays out, but be somewhat on guard that she isn't too clingy.
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Originally Posted by moeronn
But the whole hand holding thing seems a bit premature/presumtuous.
I completely agree, hence me being devil's advocate
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DO IT!!!!!

she wants you man!!
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Bring a rubber with you when you go to dinner. She wants it.
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Originally Posted by mc_yanzo
Bring a rubber with you when you go to dinner. She wants it.
Bring a couple, ya never know!!!
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Come on guys, the girl is brown, they don't do that on the first date
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
Come on guys, the girl is brown, they don't do that on the first YEAR

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Come on guys, the girl is brown, they don't do that till marriage

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Originally Posted by cTLgo
Fixed again


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This rocks! Hook up a brotha with some brown lady lovin teg!
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This rocks! Hook up a brotha with some brown lady lovin teg!
I'm still trying to hook myself up.
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I'm still trying to hook myself up.
But you know more than me. It's tough to find good looking ones around where I live. It's mostly whites and asians (filipinos included) around here.
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So homegirl IMs me last night, she needed a study break so we're chatting. Girl's got a big quiz the next day but I guess she's still down to hang. She told me to bring a big appetite, so it will be interesting to see how all out she goes. Can't wait!
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Bring your condoms and some wine.
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
So homegirl IMs me last night, she needed a study break so we're chatting. Girl's got a big quiz the next day but I guess she's still down to hang. She told me to bring a big appetite, so it will be interesting to see how all out she goes. Can't wait!


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Originally Posted by cTLgo
So homegirl IMs me last night, she needed a study break so we're chatting. Girl's got a big quiz the next day but I guess she's still down to hang. She told me to bring a big appetite, so it will be interesting to see how all out she goes. Can't wait!
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So she's brown, she likes you, is going to feed you... when's the wedding?
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Originally Posted by amisconception
So she's brown, she likes you, is going to feed you... when's the wedding?
Find out what kind of dowery is involved.


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