Scott I really need you to walk behind me and consult me before I put my foot in my mouth, oh man did I do a stupid thing.

 

she's fuckin 20 years old dude, she's not doing anything almost every other female and male her age is doing

 

What made you come to this conclusion?

 

Talking to a friend I realized I am pretty damn sheltered. I do it to myself and I wish I didn't. Thats why I said you guys have interesting lives since mine is pretty boring. Basically I have had 2 girlfriends, had sex with only 2 chicks, never been to a strip club, never passed out from being drunk, never committed a crime, never played an organized sport, never went to a bar and acted a fool with my buddy's...etc the list goes on. So I kind of hold people to an unrealistic standard. Oh well guess I need to go out and do some shit.

 

Hey, i'm in the same boat you are, i didn't go to my first stip club till this feb. Only had sex w/ a handfull of girls plus a couple, that said, the most I had w/ one was probably 5-6 times (got bored w/ dumb easy women quick ) I've been to more bars before I was 18, then i've been since i've been 21. But then again, I got into A LOT of real bad shit before 18 and basically totally turned my life around into what it is now. All my friends still act young, I don't have a problem w/ it, whatever they want to do works for me.

 

btw, you have no excuse, i've been married for 4 years, you haven't been

 

Yeah I feel you. I am crazy judgemental and I don't know why it is. I dunno maybe it'll go away.

 

Well you are probably like me, i'd like to think of the girls I like as innocent, reality is, there aren't many women like that out there. I'm one of those guys, probably like you that the thought of my girl with someone else EVER, even in the PAST makes my blood boil

 

EXACTLY!
Like my ex wanted to try weed when I first met her and I told her if she did I wouldn't date her. I dunno I see really extreme chicks who do shit like date drug dealers and shit and if a chick I know even remotely does anything like them I just think of the extreme cases. Like a friend of mine is a smart girl who has nothing a shit load of male friends who are athletes, all I can think of is that she is a groupy.

 

she dont wanna be saved

 

I feel ya on this one. Whenever some guy from my girl's past resurfaces and tries to get in contact with her again or randomly shows up somewhere i get all pissed because it reminds me of who she used to be. basically she had never been with anyone and then her boyfriend dumped her at the end of highschool. She went most of the way thru college whoring it up all of a sudden, just because "she was afraid to get hurt again." we've been together for a while now and its all good but once in a while ill get reminded of that and i say some of the same stuff you did to her. and she'll say "me and him hooked up 2 years ago let it go." and i'll say "well you whored it up for 3 years just because you went through a breakup, isnt that slightly excessive too?"

i.e. i can relate to what you did. you cant change a person, but you can change your situation by deciding to break off contact. i tend to hold people to higher standards too, (and she thinks im kind of sheltered/i know i just didnt have the game then that i do now) and it almost led to a break up more than a few times. then i realized its very hard to find a girl that's only been with 1-2 guys anyway....

I told her not to talk about guys she "knows" because i usually find out later it was an ex-hookup.

 

Girls sleeping around isnt any worse than guys sleeping around... Just different parts in use.

 

I don't sleep around
Hence the reason I don't like my girlfriends to be the type that sleep around.

 

girls that sleep around are sluts ... guys that sleep around are the MAN ... everyone knows that!

 

me too

 

But she's done it a lot more than me, so inevitably, more of those guys' faces show more just by sheer probability.

And plus, the guy is the one that has to have all the game, the girl just has to say or not say

 

Tripple Six mafia, mafia (fading voice)

 

Dude, if i were you i wouldnt care as much about her. She has to learn from her mistakes. And you becareful before you catch something and your peepee falls off.