ive been dating this grl for 3.5 yrs now and we are arguing like crazy. shes 30 with 1 kid and im 25. i love her to death and alot of people (our friends) say that she dont really treat me good. shes ignorant to me and im starting to realize this in the mist of our arguing. now in a yr into a relationship she became really close to a bi girl and shit has been goin down hill since then. ive fount alot of texts messages where she is sayin that he wants her n all and its been goin on for a yr and now ended. ive had a hunch in da back of my mind that they messed around. now there not friends and my best friend is close with her and asked her if my grl and her ever messed around and she said yes. she told him alil detail like they messed around in the shower and in the bed for almost a year when i was at work. i confronted her bout it. and she denied it. . what should i do????? i love her but i knw my friend isnt gonna lie and its making since on why the texts has gone on for so long. should i leave or wat?> is the grl lyin or nahh. NEED HONEST OPINION thanks

 

I can't figure out what the hell is going on, to many hims, her's and friends in this saga.

I will say if there is any doubt there is no doubt. Besides if she's treating you like shit, then I'd hope you think more of yourself then that and would expect more out of a relationship and life. Relationships are a rollercoaster ride, its ups and downs; if you can't remember your last up and a whole lot of down its not a fullfilling ride- maybe you should find one the suits you better?

 

k to break it short my gf became very close to a bi chic about a yr ago. now the bi grl was sending text messages to my gf sayin that she wants to hook up wit he and how she want to hold her. my grl never told me. the texting has gone on for a yr and i think something happened. now there not friends and my best friend talk to her bc their friend my best freind asks the bi grl if she ever f_cked my grl and she told my best friend that they messed around in the shower and bed of my house. my best friend tells me now. and i confront my gf and she said that the grl is lying. should i leave, im like 50 50 leave and stay i really love her. but cheating for about a year. unacceptable. hope i clear things up. my grl says the bi grl is lying but what does she have to loose now. there not friends now.

 

eh.. whenever the Bi card is involved.. its not worth it. If I were you I'd break things off now and just let her do her thing. This sounds like way too much drama.

 

Bail - now. Let's break this down.
1) Lying to you
2) arguing more and more
3) five years older (not that big of a deal IF the relationship is good but this one isn't)
4) Kid - see #3
5) Fooling around - that behavior NEVER changes

Get out, start over. Better luck next time man.

 

try for a three way.

if it doesn't happen then split.

 

The majority of bi-chicks are sketchy as hell. And having dated one, my advice is to like hell

 

what r u, stupid? dump her

 

Run! Run Forest Run!

 

take this lesson. get the hell out of that relationship NOW or you will regret it more than you already do.

 

Jeff Knows!

 

Dude, theres some guys that dont realize that their girl is f@cking them over because they are so in love with them.

Unless your friends are jealous haters, they probably have a point. Open up your eyes and stop being a wusss.... i know it hurts like hell man but there are plenty of girls out there that will want you, and have no kids.....good luck man

 

i knw, but like u said its gonna be hard as hell and i really dnt knw the true answer. what if this bi girl is lying to my boy. he wouldnt lie to me bc i knw him for my whole life.but theres always that question in da back of my head bout the idea and its driving me crazy. im bout to say f it and be out but i dont wanna regret it later. do yall think something was goin on? she was texting my girl some crazy sh*t like i wanna caress ur body and i read the text and asked my grl about it and she said that its just a game. call me stupid but it doesnt sound like a game. and they hung out while i was at work and thats when all this messing around happened, she told my boy dat. dnt knw wat to do. dnt wanna make the wrong move nor be played like a dummy. girls help me out what yall think

 

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Agree, mostly.

Try for a three way and then split regardless of the outcome

 

Run towards that 3-way.

smiley cracks me up.

 

Is the Bi friend hot? If so, invite her over and have all 3 of you at once. Sit down and talk about this whole issue. Now, one thing may lead to another, end up 3 way sex then you're golden. If not, then dump her ass and let her do her shit.

DUDE WAKE DA FUCK UP! SHE'S 30 YEARS OLD WITH A 5 YEAR OLD KID! you're only what? 25!! you're still young playA, you don't need this kinda woman! If I were you, I'd kick her ass to the curb a long time ago.

 

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And this girl sounds like trash. Lose her.

 

check your spelling and usage. I can't tell what is going on.

Ok. Just leave. Is the kid yours?

 

The Bi thing was probably just a phase and she is done with it. The fighting is probably due to she wants more out of you. See exactly what she wants from you and if she can't provide you that info , you need to bounce. Once women hit 30 they have different priorities especially if they have children.

 

no kid is not mine

 

yeah might be a phase but she still might of done something so that makes it cheating. so there is no way for me to find out. right now my gf acts is getting betta but i still dont know. the whole bi thing is in da back of my head f'ing wit me.