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Old 11-07-2005, 06:19 PM
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Does your mother like your girlfriend/wife?

I noticed most of my buddies have mothers who dont care for their current girlfriends. They always making small comments here and there about the girl, of course not to her face.

Just wondering if this is common.
Old 11-07-2005, 06:23 PM
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My mom loves my girlfriend.. thinks we're perfect for each other..
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my mom loves my wife...arguably more than i do, and definitely more than she loves me.
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Did your mothers like the girl right away or did it take time?
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My mom hated my girlfriend (now wife) and it took a couple of years for her to accept her.
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Did your mothers like the girl right away or did it take time?
She knew my girlfriend before we were dating and she's always liked her.
Old 11-07-2005, 06:34 PM
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my mom says she likes her, but i know deep down she has a problem with it. then again im a browny and my grl is a different religion although a browny as well. silly curry slingers have so many god damn problems.
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Mom LOVES my girlfriend. Wants me to marry her when the time is right. She liked her right from the get go.

All my past girlfriends, mom didn't care for some, really disliked others. But was always good enough to never make an issue of it, or say anything negative.
Old 11-07-2005, 06:36 PM
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My mom didnt like the last girl I was going out with at all.
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my mom loves my girlfriend. it helps that my parents are good friends my with my girlfriends parents. So all is good

but i gotta get going on this essay that is due this week, and stop browsing on azine every 2 minutes
Old 11-07-2005, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by BstonBruin
my mom loves my girlfriend. it helps that my parents are good friends my with my girlfriends parents. So all is good

but i gotta get going on this essay that is due this week, and stop browsing on azine every 2 minutes
AZ > essay, and will likely have a greater impact on your future.

And my parents seem to like my girlfriend, though i'll defer to AD to find out what they say about her when I'm not around.

More importantly, her parents love me
Old 11-07-2005, 07:02 PM
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After the Girls Gone Wild incident, Im not too sure....
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steves mom hated me
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I'm curious.. were there any specific reasons given ?
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My mom likes my fiance and supports our relationship. My dad accepts her and I think he likes her, though possibly begrudgingly. I'm sure they would both be happier if my fiance was Jewish, but they aren't making an issue out of it. Between my two brother and I, we pretty much covered the seven continents, so they can't be too surprised.
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
I'm curious.. were there any specific reasons given ?
She asked me out, so my mom automatically thought she was a slut.
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my mom . . . let see. When my mom first found out we were dating, she flipped, screaming and telling me to call it off. After dating this girl for 3 months I took her to the family thanksgiving to meet the family, my mother tried to introduce her as my "friend." When I refered to my girlfriend she would go "that nice girl you brought . . . ", "no mom, my girlfriend." It took her 9 months to call her my girlfriend. Both me and my girl know my mother is a little leary of the whole dating thing. My dad however even I cannot read. He knowns exactly what is up, I mean back in the day, he would know and reference the laws on jailbait. We've gone to the beach after having dinner with my parents (45 minutes away) and my mother went "that's nice you going for dessert?" and without missing a beat my dad flatout says "bullshit"

Cliffs, mom hates the idea of me dating more than the girl. My dad knows what is up
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Im assuming some moms have a problem with another girl taking care of their boy....


My mom included
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Not at first but she loves her now.
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my mom . . . let see. When my mom first found out we were dating, she flipped, screaming and telling me to call it off. After dating this girl for 3 months I took her to the family thanksgiving to meet the family, my mother tried to introduce her as my "friend." When I refered to my girlfriend she would go "that nice girl you brought . . . ", "no mom, my girlfriend." It took her 9 months to call her my girlfriend. Both me and my girl know my mother is a little leary of the whole dating thing. My dad however even I cannot read. He knowns exactly what is up, I mean back in the day, he would know and reference the laws on jailbait. We've gone to the beach after having dinner with my parents (45 minutes away) and my mother went "that's nice you going for dessert?" and without missing a beat my dad flatout says "bullshit"

Cliffs, mom hates the idea of me dating more than the girl. My dad knows what is up
Why doesnt your mom like the idea of you dating this girl??
Old 11-07-2005, 10:11 PM
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my mom . . . let see. When my mom first found out we were dating, she flipped, screaming and telling me to call it off. After dating this girl for 3 months I took her to the family thanksgiving to meet the family, my mother tried to introduce her as my "friend." When I refered to my girlfriend she would go "that nice girl you brought . . . ", "no mom, my girlfriend." It took her 9 months to call her my girlfriend. Both me and my girl know my mother is a little leary of the whole dating thing. My dad however even I cannot read. He knowns exactly what is up, I mean back in the day, he would know and reference the laws on jailbait. We've gone to the beach after having dinner with my parents (45 minutes away) and my mother went "that's nice you going for dessert?" and without missing a beat my dad flatout says "bullshit"

Cliffs, mom hates the idea of me dating more than the girl. My dad knows what is up
How many girls are you dating? And what's the deal with the beach and dessert?
Old 11-07-2005, 10:50 PM
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Mom always referred to my ex as "that girl." I didn't care, really, all that mattered was that I was with her.
Old 11-07-2005, 10:59 PM
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Mom adores my current GF and hopes the two of us marry...
Old 11-07-2005, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Dan Martin





























:troutslap p.s. my mom doesn't like you either


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^^^ wtf?

are you Mrs. fire-bag?
Old 11-07-2005, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_bike
^^^ wtf?

are you Mrs. fire-bag?
Crazy world this is...

Besides, with all these bags I light on fire, someone's got to put them out.
Old 11-07-2005, 11:30 PM
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You two met on AZ? Dorks.
Old 11-07-2005, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
You two met on AZ? Dorks.
Did you just call two moderators, dorks?!?


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Old 11-07-2005, 11:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
You two met on AZ? Dorks.
AZ? Nah, I met her on www.mailorderbrides.com and we couldn't be happier.













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Old 11-07-2005, 11:46 PM
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Don't lie to them!! You know we met when you were pulled over on the side of the road crying cuz your rear left tire was flat and you didn't know what to do!! I'm just glad I was able to change the tire for you and show you how before you gave in and called your mom to pick you up, as you were wanting!!




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@ the quarreling lovers.
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
Don't lie to them!! You know we met when you were pulled over on the side of the road crying cuz your rear left tire was flat and you didn't know what to do!! I'm just glad I was able to change the tire for you and show you how before you gave in and called your mom to pick you up, as you were wanting!!




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Hey!!!! Just be thankful we met when we did and that I talked you out of getting that pea-soup green VW Beetle!!
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How long has this been going on?
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my mom loves my gf. mom has 3 sons and no daughters she tells people she thinks of my gf as her own child
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I married the only girlfreind my mother liked... Korean moms are very pickey of their sons girlfriends, and it's worst if your the oldest son. Well at least mine was.
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Originally Posted by clay8898
Korean moms are very pickey of their sons girlfriends, and it's worst if your the oldest son. Well at least mine was.
Same applies when it comes eldest sons in Asian families...
Old 11-08-2005, 12:28 AM
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whats teh deal between BAN MARTIN and SS? I thought S.S. was involved with GIOVANNI?


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