i think i speak for most guys when i say girls love attention.

okay, at the beginning of our relationship she use to threaten me by saying if i dont see her enough or treat her right.. she would go with another guy.

At her work theres a guy that likes her.. she tells me and she still goes out with this guy (as friends).. when i confront her she tells me they are just friends but he bought her christmas present and everything this guy clearly loves her off. even making my gf drive his mom home from the station.

my gf is not assertive at all if someone is macking her she wouldnt brush someone off. she would drag it.. i went to her work and walked by that guy.. he didnt even glimpse at me...

i dont know if i have the right to be mad.. but shes starting to piss me off

 

Your damn right women love attention, but I think she may be pushing the boundaries too far. Even though she's under the impression that "oh were going out as just friends" he's looking at it as another opportunity to spend some time and get to know her... I'd probably be pissed too bro.

 

thats not cool

 

First of all, the fact that she threaten to leave you if you didn't treat her right is a BAD sign. You should've dumped her then.

 

Post pics of her....If she is hot, then she is right. If she is ugly then you are right....

 

tell her she cant be friends with him anymore or its over. you gotta have some balls in these situations.

 

TLover is one hundred percent correct.

And I agree with zeroday as well....except she will dump you when faced with this ultimatum.

You basically need to tell her to knock it off with the dude...see what she does...if not, tell him to knock it off yourself.

Either way, I'd say your relationship with the chick is over. Might as well bust the dudes nose while your at it.

 

haha i dont mind busting that kid up

its a longer story than that.. she actually broke up with her ex after 2 years because her ex controls her and her didnt like her talking to me .. but she was secretly talking to me, and after they broke up i took over

i dont wanna look insecure

 

You dumbass. Do you see the pattern here? Look a little closer at that story you just mentioned.

 

Its not the that guys fault, blame your girl.

 

hate to say it but looks like history's gonna repeat itself.

 

I'd also place a bet that her parents are divorced, very typical behavior from a girl who was raised by one parent.

 

if u cant see whats happening then let em be friends

 

This girl is an insecure headcase... run!

 

"punch her in the cooter"

 

and fockin'

 

Unless she was really joking, this is a giant neon sign over her head that says "Crazy!!"

If you don't want to look insecure, forget about this douche. Never mention him again. Just keep doing your thing with her. This making you insecure is a way for her to control you. If she isn't using it yet she will eventually.

That said... why is she driving his mom home? He didn't make her do shit, she chose to do that. And you bagged her doing the same shit he is now. I say kick her to the curb, preferably right after really rough sex.

 

once a cheater always a cheater...

 

i think he knows that too (whether hell admit it or not) hence this thread.

 

I think he clued in...finally...and then ran to cry about it for a few hours.

 

 

.......I got nothin

 

Mistakes happen........

 

hmm, that was my first thought but then I figured you werent the type.....save for the night you got molested by that chick at the bar. Anyway, does the wifey know??

 

She was there....

 

ouch..

 

Point is, people sometimes screwup.....The ability to deal with it and change is what is important.

 

Is this the "I made out with another woman in front of my wife" story?

 

 

damn Whiskers, damn...

 

Nato,



Your girl sounds like trouble.

 

Bust her jaw...if she doesn't come around after that dump her.

 

now thats how to do it. old school style.

this is the same reason why i think we need to go back to the old days in the NFL. None of this pussy "don't touch my quarterback in the face" bull shit. no helmet. no rules. just good old fashion bone crushing football.


i say try it out

 

^

 

Nato, let me ask you something... when you were "secretly" talking to her when she was with her (now "ex") boyfriend, were you hoping that eventually she'd break up with him and be with you?


I'm sure you did...



...what do you think the guy at work is hoping for?




(this kinda reminds of that song "New Kid In Town" by the Eagles)

 

This reminds me of the golden rule. Therefore, I think it's your turn now to pay the piper.....

 

This relationship is doomed. But just for the fun of it, tell her you don't care how much she sees this "friend" at work and don't care that she is driving his mom around. She is baiting you into a situation you cannot win, so you can only make sure she loses at the same time.

 

Tell her that you can get a girl that gives better head and will take it in the ass....but you stay with her. Bitches don't understand shit until the shoe is on the other foot!

 

But then YOUR the asshole, and they bitch about double standards

 

If you cant trust your chick...then move on...its not gonna do either of you any good.