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Old May 30, 2005 | 01:28 PM
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yeah, i have a specific type.

i like them confident, cocky, intelligent, mature, driven and independent. and muscular. i don't care how hot a guy is, if he's not as confident as i am, or more, it won't work. i'm not attracted to shyness at all.

as for looks, i like them tan and physically fit. used to have a thing for blondes, but now i'm more into darker haired guys. more mature looking i guess.
Whoa...So you'd be all over me if we met...
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Old May 30, 2005 | 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Whoa...So you'd be all over me if we met...
ehhh maybe

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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Whoa...So you'd be all over me if we met...


I think she'd be happy with me and i'm close to her age.

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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt


I think she'd be happy with me and i'm close to her age.



Ok, I meant that it will be cool if I meet her instead of you (XENA DA FUTURE HEART SURGEON) meeting her, cuz of age difference.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:22 PM
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a reply to your own message + an edit of the reply = one nervous

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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
no, mainly b/c i'm very competitive, and i like to see that same "drive" in a man. i don't want to be with a guy who's a pushover, who has low self-esteem. it's very hard to explain. i guess it's another one of those "thrill of the chase" analogies. it's harder to persuade a cocky/confident guy who's set in his ways than a guy who doesn't really stand for anything.

and when i say cocky, i don't mean like, the asshole type, just guys who are confident with who they are and not afraid to put it out there. i like guys who are confident with their physical appearance too, but i am more referring to it in an intellectual sense.
I think I understand what you mean. It makes sense now. Pushovers =
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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_TSX
a reply to your own message + an edit of the reply = one nervous
where's da edit bitch? show me
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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
where's da edit bitch? show me
I see an edit in HIS message, but not yours.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
I see an edit in HIS message, but not yours.




naa, jatt added 'xena da future heart surgeon' or something.

not important.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_TSX




naa, jatt added 'xena da future heart surgeon' or something.

not important.
And what does The Warrior Princess have to do with our discussion? OH wait, that must be Jatt's type! I'm sure I can dig up some pictures of Lucy Lawless on for him.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
And what does The Warrior Princess have to do with our discussion? OH wait, that must be Jatt's type! I'm sure I can dig up some pictures of Lucy Lawless on for him.
no no, that foo XENOGEN, i call him XENA. Under his name it says FUTURE HEART SURGEON, so basically XENDA DA FUTURE HEART SURGEON.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_TSX
a reply to your own message + an edit of the reply = one nervous
That's nothing! I was on one board, where a guy asked a question, the first reply was him answering his own question, then the third reply was him asking himself out for a drink
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Old May 30, 2005 | 03:11 PM
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Physically, I don't have a type.

I am extremely attracted to confident, well-mannered, cultured men who are witty and can converse intelligently. I like those who are driven and actually takes steps to achieve their goals, especially those who yearn to learn and explore new things/places/cultures. A mature man with grounded principles and a good heart... is a man I totally respect and want to be with.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Physically, I don't have a type.

I am extremely attracted to confident, well-mannered, cultured men who are witty and can converse intelligently. I like those who are driven and actually takes steps to achieve their goals, especially those who yearn to learn and explore new things/places/cultures. A mature man with grounded principles and a good heart... is a man I totally respect and want to be with.
Confidence seems to be general trend with people's type. Nobody wants an indicisive person who's unsure of themselves or their actions.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 03:20 PM
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why?
I've been with a lot of straight up assholes who have only had the will to do w/e it takes to piss me off and/or make me unhappy. At least with a lack of will I'll avoid that problem...maybe they can have a small bit of will...but only if the focus of that will is positive.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt


I think she'd be happy with me and i'm close to her age.

25 is not too old by any means. but 21 is kinda young, b/c of most males' maturity levels at that age. sorry sweetheart.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
25 is not too old by any means. but 21 is kinda young, b/c of most males' maturity levels at that age. sorry sweetheart.


give this poor guy a chance.















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Old May 30, 2005 | 05:11 PM
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That's nothing! I was on one board, where a guy asked a question, the first reply was him answering his own question, then the third reply was him asking himself out for a drink
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Old May 30, 2005 | 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
25 is not too old by any means. but 21 is kinda young, b/c of most males' maturity levels at that age.

I hear ya. I prefer guys 3-5 years older at least
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Old May 30, 2005 | 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I am extremely attracted to confident, well-mannered, cultured men who are witty and can converse intelligently. I like those who are driven and actually takes steps to achieve their goals, especially those who yearn to learn and explore new things/places/cultures. A mature man with grounded principles and a good heart... is a man I totally respect and want to be with.


Wish I could write something as concise as that...

I like brunettes
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:04 PM
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I call it MGLBFD...

Money, Good Looks, and a Big Fat Dick.

I have yet to find all three, and that's probably why I'm still single.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:05 PM
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
I call it MGLBFD...

Money, Good Looks, and a Big Fat Dick.

I have yet to find all three, and that's probably why I'm still single.
Sounds like your looking for a porn star- try the San Fernando valley, you should find one with in a few hours.
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Tireguy
Sounds like your looking for a porn star- try the San Fernando valley, you should find one with in a few hours.
Thats what came to mind when I read her post!


there you go!
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by teg_to_TSX
Thats what came to mind when I read her post!


there you go!
I think hes missing the second of her requirements, but to each their own
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:16 PM
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^^^

Nah that's just starters. I also want intelligence too and I've watched my share of porn, aren't a lot of the porn stars :ghey:????

Also I should be more specific. I don't usually find white guys attractive. Athough I might make an exception for old Ron

Yeah I'm a picky bitch, but I know I"m worth it, so why settle for less?
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial

Yeah I'm a picky bitch, but I know I"m worth it, so why settle for less?


My friends call me "the pickiest man alive"
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
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Nah that's just starters. I also want intelligence too and I've watched my share of porn, aren't a lot of the porn stars :ghey:????

Also I should be more specific. I don't usually find white guys attractive. Athough I might make an exception for old Ron

Yeah I'm a picky bitch, but I know I"m worth it, so why settle for less?
So your more of a Lexington Steele sort of girl, gotcha.

I am illequiped with gaydar, and have never heard of pornstars being :ghey: but it wouldn't surprise me.

So you are saying there's more to it then just MGLBFD, I kinda figured as much
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:35 PM
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^^Lexington Steele? Not sure what you mean by that?
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:39 PM
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Lex Steele is a, ummmmmmm, rather well endowed black pornstar. Sorry I don't any pictures(I'm a straight white guy), google him and you'll be sure to find something, but probably not anything suitable to be posted here!
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Old May 30, 2005 | 07:46 PM
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LOL ooooh ok.. nah that'a not my type either.... I'm not attracted to white or black guys.. unless they're half and half. I tend to like mutts like myself. Weird I know.. and then they have to have the MGLBFD.... and intelligence..
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Old May 30, 2005 | 08:20 PM
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So now we have a MGLBFD, intelligence and a mutt- an interesting "type" lol
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Old May 31, 2005 | 12:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
no no, that foo XENOGEN, i call him XENA. Under his name it says FUTURE HEART SURGEON, so basically XENDA DA FUTURE HEART SURGEON.
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Old May 31, 2005 | 12:28 AM
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Old May 31, 2005 | 04:22 AM
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When i was looking... which was a while back ago... "My Type" is/was like portrayed in Michelangelo's Paintings and Statues... IMO, that is how a woman should really look... but again... just my opinion and my likes... I'd post a pic but is most likely NWS... Just do a search for the paintings by him and you'll see...

Short Discription:
Height: 5' to 5'10"
Weight (Depending on height): usually 140 to 200 lbs.
Color Skin: Any besides (NO i'm not racist) Dark DARK brown... (a.k.a. Black)
Color Hair: Black, Dark Brown, and Blonde...

My wife fits in the "My Type" catagory for what I like...

5'9", Blonde, white, blue/green eyes, 190-200 lbs. (probably a bit more since she had my little girl)...
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Old May 31, 2005 | 10:27 AM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
I call it MGLBFD...

Money, Good Looks, and a Big Fat Dick.

I have yet to find all three, and that's probably why I'm still single.
except for me, delete money and add intelligence. I couldn't give a shit if a guy is poor. I like your third requirement haha! I have a similar requirement. He needs to be within + or - 2 inches of mine (6 to 10). 5 is okay if its THICK.

Oh and you're right, a lot of porn stars are :ghey: but there are also :ghey: for pay ones. You know the straight guys that have gay sex for money. :theghey: I heard that gay porn pays about 10 times as much as straight porn (for men). That would explain porn stars like Jeremy Sons (aka Mark Dalton is his screen name) who get arrested for beating their girlfriends (this actually happened, he lives in Texas).
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Old May 31, 2005 | 10:58 AM
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my type:
not ugly
not male
not stupid
not lazy
not dishonest
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Old May 31, 2005 | 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
totally with you on the tall thing I haven't dated many men under 6'0'', just something about a man with height!

He also has to have brains, a sense of humor, manners, be cultured, in a good financial situation, at least semi-good looking, and I prefer a lack of will as well. Now where the hell are these guys


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Old May 31, 2005 | 03:29 PM
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Hey a funning thing i notice was must MEN describe looks and Women describe looks and fiancial stability
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Old May 31, 2005 | 03:56 PM
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Not enough men are willing to say they want a sugga momma!
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