I think age has a bit to do with it...I too witnessed the swapola between two sets of friends...not cool.

Bottom line, if you have to worry about "tempting" your wife with your friends...you should roll>>>>>>>>>from her & maybe them.

If your wife possesses the desire to hang out with your male friends WITHOUT you...either she is butch, or you're about to be/are being played.

Take that from a man who worked 60 hour weeks in the restaurant business...& had to worry about where his girl was all the time....

 

The bottom line is, you shouldn't have shown your ex friend the girl you were rapping to. You know better now so keep your potential girlfriends to yourself until they become your girlfriends.

 

A leopard never changes his spots.

You can relate back to him as a friend but NEVER trust him w/ shit. Kind of like 'I forgive you but your not my homie anymore' that's how I would handle it. Of all the things I've bloodied knuckles over in my life this was one thing I never regretted beating ass over. Bros before hoes. He broke the rules you should of kicked his ass then.

 

Being a player is great. Being "the other guy" can be dangerous.


And that's true, NO 1 can be trusted!

 

I don't think you guys are giving enough credit to the girls in the situation, either. (Unless all the chicks you hang out with are hoes). I hang out with my bf's friends all the time, with or without him, and the thought to cheat on him has never even crossed my mind. If I ever WERE to cheat on him, I would at least be a decent enough person to do it with someone he doesn't know. That sounds bad. :o I don't mean it like that.

What I mean is, the woman has to be WILLING to be "tempted away" by your friends. Just because your friends are sleazy and will want to snatch her out from under you, it's not like girls are all brainless mannequins, unable to make personal decisions.

Who are these chicks you're hanging out with?


On the other hand, it sounds like you guys all have experience with exactly this thing. I think it really depends on the particular relationship. If you're not already exclusive, then yeah, you're BOTH fair game. But the cheating wife thing... I think the dude's friend was just in the right place at the right time. Someone who would cheat on their husband probably has it in mind for a while.

 

I am the same way now... I used to be a playa and it was fun at 18 but it was unfulfilling and left me no where... If you cant share yourself 100% with another person you have inner issues to deal with and you are running from them... thats when you need to buck up, grow up and move on...

So because I am not a playa anymore and want to be serious with a lady, and not have BS games to deak with I am a sucka with no balls... I think you are wrong Adam.. I think it takes a man to be the way we are and only boys like to play games...

Men have balls... we just dont need to flex them to prove it to anyone!

 

i totally agree with the part about "dont introduce the girl you want to your friends" bc unless its established that the two of you are together or whatnot she is fair game. and if she is attractive or a cool girl.. chances are your friends will recognize it and possibly start to like her as well. u just gotta work on it a lil before you bring her out with the rest of your friends. this has happened to me and some of my friends before heh its not too pretty when it happens but we've all gotten over it in the end just due to diff circumstances. "bros before hoes" in the end, especially when your bros are great friends.

 

I trust my wife COMPLETLY. And she trusts me. That is the FOUNDATION of a GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

Besides where else an I supposed to find a good lookin woman that is 12 years my junior??

 

dunno...but when you find out, lemme know

 

If theres no trust, theres no relationship. Well said Killer.